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- Dominants: Who am I? How did I get here?
- How did you get started online?
- How to find "The One"
- What books which you suggest?
- New sub/slave both on line and in life needs guidance
- needed: CREATIVE public humiliation suggestions
- where to start...
- Safety Question
- Definition of Pet ?
- Who am I?
- Lost On How To Get Started
- Strap On
- to pee or not to pee....that is the question
- submissive or masochist Dom?
- Electricity
- Instructions to make this rope gag
- Interested in femdom/worship/lt. humiliation
- Why is it written W/we ?
- How to "Bring it Up" and Marriage
- punishments.
- How Long To Take to Get to Know Someone Before You....
- just my rambling on why girls need to be spanked .
- Sexually Unfufilled
- Questions of a (complete) Newb
- he just isn't doing it....
- vanilla relationship, but i NEED more!
- problems with butt plug
- sub
- Some of the basic submissive rights
- What would you ask Jay Wiseman???
- Online Relationship
- How far is too far?
- BDSM exploration vs Pregnancy safety
- lessons for new Dominants
- Who/what brought out the inner sub in you
- help a girl out?
- Cages
- Safety-nets for 1st meetings
- looking for information on breast bondage
- what is the differences between...
- Who has the most power?
- What A Bad Combo, and What Can I DO?
- All by myself...
- newbie
- What do you call "it"?
- What to do when a Master is NOT doing?
- training or just playing ?
- bdsm DIY
- Need help with the subject of analingus
- Putting on Figure 8 ball spreader?
- Boot camp
- BDSM/vanilla
- feeling comfortable with yourself
- Chauffeuring
- Myths about Slaves.
- scat
- New, Need suggestions.
- tickle torture session in nyc--where's a good place
- i need some advice... from both subs and doms
- Breath Control /Erotic Asphyxiation
- Question on BDSM Toys
- slave and her Master
- Ball Stretchers
- Anal Play Enjoyment
- In the closet submissive...
- What would you recommend?
- Numb/tingling feeling during bondage
- Confused Newbie
- Reasonably New and Need Help
- Just got my nippples pierced!!
- How do I even start?
- The New-Sub Jitters
- Does Science Fiction and Kink Mix
- BDSM Toys
- Legal Question
- Reasons for punishment
- Wife with a submissive fetish/husband without a dominant streak
- Any realistic sites out there
- Need help!
- I need to know the "how" of being Top
- search fetish novels pls help
- How do I start?
- Not sure if my girlfriend is interested
- New Female Sub looking for information/books/instruction
- new here
- Still new and trying to make this work...
- Red flags for those new to the lifestyle
- My life changed today
- Wanting to become a Master
- cages
- Disapointment
- Surprised by my boyfriend
- Wanting a master
- Orgasm Denial
- Need helpful training ideas and punishment ideas for my slave.
- new, need help
- Underage on an adult website
- Worried I'm asking too much?
- Some advice needed
- How to be safe?
- Sub wanting to take relationship farther
- Newly Divorced and Exploring the idea of Submission
- BDSM clubs - submitting to (or dominating) 'strangers'
- please need some answers :)
- This seems sort of bothersome and self-serving, but I have some questions
- Seeking Advice
- Where did you start?
- another question (yes, I'm still here!)
- Leather 101-FYI
- Bondage Advice
- New here ...
- Kink and dating
- Long distance BDSM relationships
- Who am I?
- The first of my millions of "is this normal" posts.
- Wife is experienced sub, Husband new to Dom
- I'm a little confused.....
- BDSM Information and musings ive been collecting
- Finding My Inner Sub
- Husband isnt dom but Im a sub
- how to be sure if your submissive or a switch
- What Is BDSM? (An Essay I Wrote Long Ago)
- Too Young, Never Too Early?
- I'm a Dom with no sub and no way out
- new with a question
- Is this BDSM?
- Dominant, Mentor, Master
- New to the concept, but wanting to learn!
- New to this, where to start?
- A woman longly!
- girlfriend help
- Is there any type of bondage that doesn't involve pain at all but involves kinkiness?
- Husband/master finds it hard to to "mean" to me
- Bondage is Freedom
- how do i know what i am...and where 2 start?
- the virgin mistake
- New to this in a way.
- Odd newbie question
- When does sharing fantasies become topping from bottom
- What Do You Recommend
- LDR with a Master
- How to approach the topic with a spouse...
- i am very submissive however i am not sure how to tell my man suggestions?
- please give me advice
- A great read for new and old members
- Control Self?
- The Online Age: Or, a Young Online Dominant's Illustrative Primer
- what is a good way to meet a dom
- What have you done in training?
- Living a second life completely in your mind...
- Is it possible to break down those walls with her?
- Something I can't shake..
- Internet Satety 101
- Power Exchange
- Fire cupping
- Newbie
- Painless domination?
- BDSM - Books to Read....What do you think? Helpful or Not?
- Article link, New Doms
- The lost meaning of Safe, Sane and Consensual
- A Submissive's Bill of Rights
- approaching the subject with a new lover
- newbie here looking to learn
- new here wondering whats in store for me :)
- how to let go?
- Wants to learn more.
- Dazed, confused
- That bit of trust that wont allow complete submission?
- Looking for a Master to Teach Me
- Curious and frustrated
- new and confused
- Wife and I had our first experience last night...now where do I go?
- Dominate or Submissive?
- what to do
- From Vanilla to BDSM
- Basic etiquette
- new and seeking advise/information
- limits list
- BDSM vs. Abuse
- Online resources needed
- What am I ?
- were knew to BDSM and seek help.
- Internet safety for the fucktarded explained in simple terms....
- Electricity
- SUPER New to Acting on my Submissive Curiosity..and I'm a Bit of a Brat to Boot!
- Dom/sub Agreements? Collaring? Sub-space? My head is spinning!
- New and needing help/advice
- Where to start?
- Handy Apps for IRL Meetings... safety through technology
- proper punishment
- What do these mean to you?
- dont even know where to start
- f/f spanking fantasy
- A new submissive
- 10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants
- new here
- New Dom in this world.....seeks friends and companions
- New to the scene but wanting to try
- Hi, I'm new to this lifestyle
- Punishment Management: A Dominant's Guide To Unruly Submissivies
- Not sure how to proceed
- I need to be transformed into a latex sissy slut
- Greener on the other side....
- I want to enter the BDSM lifestyle
- Hi
- Looking for woman for online roleplay
- Is the writing section dead?
- Early Exposure - Or Inspiration In MAINSTREAM Or 'Family-Oriented' Media.
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- Questions in pertains to Master and Slave Relationships and punishment and etc...
- Looking for advice
- Blind Side 1993
- Help a Noob
- New and in need of training!
- Exploring my desire for humiliation
- New sub
- im new
- How to tie Breast constraints
- Hello everyone
- New and need some advice
- from top to sadist. 3 levels ?
- New to bdsm
- Bad Penis doesn't want to work anymore.
- Need advice and subs for online relationship
- Teaching
- Consent is Meaningless Without Agency
- I'm new sub in thailand
- New To Bdsm
- Orgasm Denial... Why?
- New Dom, looking for good punishment ideas and tips for online slaves
- Keep calm and worship me forever ! I am your GODDESS!! you must obey me
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