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  1. bisexual (3 replies)
  2. Keep calm and worship me forever ! I am your GODDESS!! you must obey me (3 replies)
  3. New Dom, looking for good punishment ideas and tips for online slaves (1 replies)
  4. Orgasm Denial... Why? (5 replies)
  5. New To Bdsm (3 replies)
  6. I'm new sub in thailand (0 replies)
  7. Consent is Meaningless Without Agency (12 replies)
  8. Teaching (1 replies)
  9. Need advice and subs for online relationship (1 replies)
  10. Bad Penis doesn't want to work anymore. (1 replies)
  11. New to bdsm (1 replies)
  12. from top to sadist. 3 levels ? (0 replies)
  13. New and need some advice (4 replies)
  14. Hello everyone (2 replies)
  15. How to tie Breast constraints (1 replies)
  16. im new (0 replies)
  17. New sub (3 replies)
  18. Exploring my desire for humiliation (8 replies)
  19. New and in need of training! (2 replies)
  20. Help a Noob (8 replies)
  21. Blind Side 1993 (7 replies)
  22. Looking for advice (16 replies)
  23. Questions in pertains to Master and Slave Relationships and punishment and etc... (18 replies)
  24. hi (3 replies)
  25. Early Exposure - Or Inspiration In MAINSTREAM Or 'Family-Oriented' Media. (2 replies)
  26. Is the writing section dead? (3 replies)
  27. Looking for woman for online roleplay (1 replies)
  28. Hi (0 replies)
  29. I want to enter the BDSM lifestyle (16 replies)
  30. Greener on the other side.... (0 replies)
  31. I need to be transformed into a latex sissy slut (2 replies)
  32. Not sure how to proceed (3 replies)
  33. Punishment Management: A Dominant's Guide To Unruly Submissivies (9 replies)
  34. Hi, I'm new to this lifestyle (4 replies)
  35. New to the scene but wanting to try (0 replies)
  36. New Dom in this world.....seeks friends and companions (1 replies)
  37. new here (1 replies)
  38. 10 Considerations for Aspiring Dominants
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  39. A new submissive (1 replies)
  40. f/f spanking fantasy (0 replies)
  41. dont even know where to start (4 replies)
  42. What do these mean to you? (4 replies)
  43. proper punishment (1 replies)
  44. Handy Apps for IRL Meetings... safety through technology (1 replies)
  45. Where to start? (1 replies)
  46. New and needing help/advice (1 replies)
  47. Dom/sub Agreements? Collaring? Sub-space? My head is spinning! (11 replies)
  48. SUPER New to Acting on my Submissive Curiosity..and I'm a Bit of a Brat to Boot! (8 replies)
  49. Electricity (1 replies)
  50. Internet safety for the fucktarded explained in simple terms.... (2 replies)
  51. were knew to BDSM and seek help. (2 replies)
  52. What am I ? (7 replies)
  53. Online resources needed (1 replies)
  54. BDSM vs. Abuse (3 replies)
  55. limits list (4 replies)
  56. new and seeking advise/information (13 replies)
  57. Basic etiquette (5 replies)
  58. From Vanilla to BDSM (7 replies)
  59. what to do (7 replies)
  60. Dominate or Submissive? (3 replies)
  61. Wife and I had our first experience last night...now where do I go? (3 replies)
  62. new and confused (0 replies)
  63. Curious and frustrated (9 replies)
  64. Looking for a Master to Teach Me (10 replies)
  65. That bit of trust that wont allow complete submission? (29 replies)
  66. Dazed, confused (3 replies)
  67. Wants to learn more. (5 replies)
  68. how to let go? (3 replies)
  69. new here wondering whats in store for me :) (22 replies)
  70. newbie here looking to learn (4 replies)
  71. approaching the subject with a new lover (1 replies)
  72. A Submissive's Bill of Rights (18 replies)
  73. The lost meaning of Safe, Sane and Consensual (4 replies)
  74. Article link, New Doms (6 replies)
  75. BDSM - Books to Read....What do you think? Helpful or Not? (12 replies)
  76. Painless domination? (6 replies)
  77. Newbie (9 replies)
  78. Fire cupping (15 replies)
  79. Power Exchange (9 replies)
  80. Internet Satety 101 (14 replies)
  81. Something I can't shake.. (3 replies)
  82. Is it possible to break down those walls with her? (8 replies)
  83. Living a second life completely in your mind... (10 replies)
  84. What have you done in training? (3 replies)
  85. what is a good way to meet a dom (13 replies)
  86. The Online Age: Or, a Young Online Dominant's Illustrative Primer (36 replies)
  87. Control Self? (5 replies)
  88. A great read for new and old members (16 replies)
  89. please give me advice (13 replies)
  90. i am very submissive however i am not sure how to tell my man suggestions? (22 replies)
  91. How to approach the topic with a spouse... (8 replies)
  92. LDR with a Master (2 replies)
  93. What Do You Recommend (0 replies)
  94. When does sharing fantasies become topping from bottom (10 replies)
  95. Odd newbie question (10 replies)
  96. New to this in a way. (2 replies)
  97. the virgin mistake (4 replies)
  98. how do i know what i am...and where 2 start? (5 replies)
  99. Bondage is Freedom (1 replies)
  100. Husband/master finds it hard to to "mean" to me (29 replies)
  101. Is there any type of bondage that doesn't involve pain at all but involves kinkiness? (11 replies)
  102. girlfriend help (4 replies)
  103. A woman longly！ (3 replies)
  104. New to this, where to start? (21 replies)
  105. New to the concept, but wanting to learn! (4 replies)
  106. Dominant, Mentor, Master (20 replies)
  107. Is this BDSM? (1 replies)
  108. new with a question (3 replies)
  109. I'm a Dom with no sub and no way out (15 replies)
  110. Too Young, Never Too Early? (6 replies)
  111. What Is BDSM? (An Essay I Wrote Long Ago) (6 replies)
  112. how to be sure if your submissive or a switch (9 replies)
  113. Husband isnt dom but Im a sub (25 replies)
  114. Finding My Inner Sub (5 replies)
  115. BDSM Information and musings ive been collecting (25 replies)
  116. I'm a little confused..... (17 replies)
  117. Wife is experienced sub, Husband new to Dom (14 replies)
  118. The first of my millions of "is this normal" posts. (4 replies)
  119. Who am I? (13 replies)
  120. Long distance BDSM relationships (17 replies)
  121. Kink and dating (3 replies)
  122. New here ... (11 replies)
  123. Bondage Advice (3 replies)
  124. Leather 101-FYI (0 replies)
  125. another question (yes, I'm still here!) (1 replies)
  126. Where did you start? (31 replies)
  127. Seeking Advice (2 replies)
  128. This seems sort of bothersome and self-serving, but I have some questions (13 replies)
  129. please need some answers :) (10 replies)
  130. BDSM clubs - submitting to (or dominating) 'strangers' (26 replies)
  131. Newly Divorced and Exploring the idea of Submission (5 replies)
  132. Sub wanting to take relationship farther (5 replies)
  133. How to be safe? (43 replies)
  134. Some advice needed (5 replies)
  135. Worried I'm asking too much? (10 replies)
  136. Underage on an adult website (4 replies)
  137. new, need help (3 replies)
  138. Need helpful training ideas and punishment ideas for my slave. (2 replies)
  139. Orgasm Denial (5 replies)
  140. Wanting a master (1 replies)
  141. Surprised by my boyfriend (11 replies)
  142. Disapointment (9 replies)
  143. cages (1 replies)
  144. Wanting to become a Master (2 replies)
  145. My life changed today (3 replies)
  146. Red flags for those new to the lifestyle (90 replies)
  147. Still new and trying to make this work... (10 replies)
  148. new here (1 replies)
  149. New Female Sub looking for information/books/instruction (7 replies)
  150. Not sure if my girlfriend is interested (4 replies)
  151. How do I start? (6 replies)
  152. search fetish novels pls help (2 replies)
  153. I need to know the "how" of being Top (5 replies)
  154. Need help! (4 replies)
  155. Any realistic sites out there (10 replies)
  156. Wife with a submissive fetish/husband without a dominant streak (8 replies)
  157. Reasons for punishment (11 replies)
  158. Legal Question (4 replies)
  159. BDSM Toys (18 replies)
  160. Does Science Fiction and Kink Mix (14 replies)
  161. The New-Sub Jitters (10 replies)
  162. How do I even start? (4 replies)
  163. Just got my nippples pierced!! (1 replies)
  164. Reasonably New and Need Help (9 replies)
  165. Confused Newbie (9 replies)
  166. Numb/tingling feeling during bondage (7 replies)
  167. What would you recommend? (5 replies)
  168. In the closet submissive... (7 replies)
  169. Anal Play Enjoyment (27 replies)
  170. Ball Stretchers (3 replies)
  171. slave and her Master (7 replies)
  172. Question on BDSM Toys (7 replies)
  173. Breath Control /Erotic Asphyxiation (17 replies)
  174. i need some advice... from both subs and doms (5 replies)
  175. tickle torture session in nyc--where's a good place (1 replies)
  176. New, Need suggestions. (7 replies)
  177. scat (7 replies)
  178. Myths about Slaves. (39 replies)
  179. Chauffeuring (21 replies)
  180. feeling comfortable with yourself (9 replies)
  181. BDSM/vanilla (8 replies)
  182. Boot camp (18 replies)
  183. Putting on Figure 8 ball spreader? (4 replies)
  184. Need help with the subject of analingus (8 replies)
  185. bdsm DIY (6 replies)
  186. training or just playing ? (9 replies)
  187. What to do when a Master is NOT doing? (3 replies)
  188. What do you call "it"? (98 replies)
  189. newbie (1 replies)
  190. All by myself... (14 replies)
  191. What A Bad Combo, and What Can I DO? (27 replies)
  192. Who has the most power? (45 replies)
  193. what is the differences between... (16 replies)
  194. looking for information on breast bondage (1 replies)
  195. Safety-nets for 1st meetings (17 replies)
  196. Cages (7 replies)
  197. help a girl out? (40 replies)
  198. Who/what brought out the inner sub in you (38 replies)
  199. lessons for new Dominants (1 replies)
  200. BDSM exploration vs Pregnancy safety (18 replies)
  201. How far is too far? (1 replies)
  202. Online Relationship (12 replies)
  203. What would you ask Jay Wiseman??? (7 replies)
  204. Some of the basic submissive rights (31 replies)
  205. sub (0 replies)
  206. problems with butt plug (9 replies)
  207. vanilla relationship, but i NEED more! (33 replies)
  208. he just isn't doing it.... (10 replies)
  209. Questions of a (complete) Newb (7 replies)
  210. Sexually Unfufilled (7 replies)
  211. just my rambling on why girls need to be spanked . (6 replies)
  212. How Long To Take to Get to Know Someone Before You.... (13 replies)
  213. punishments. (8 replies)
  214. How to "Bring it Up" and Marriage (12 replies)
  215. Why is it written W/we ? (15 replies)
  216. Interested in femdom/worship/lt. humiliation (0 replies)
  217. Instructions to make this rope gag (4 replies)
  218. Electricity (2 replies)
  219. submissive or masochist Dom? (6 replies)
  220. to pee or not to pee....that is the question (38 replies)
  221. Strap On (3 replies)
  222. Lost On How To Get Started (4 replies)
  223. Who am I? (10 replies)
  224. Definition of Pet ? (25 replies)
  225. Safety Question (8 replies)
  226. where to start... (2 replies)
  227. needed: CREATIVE public humiliation suggestions (17 replies)
  228. New sub/slave both on line and in life needs guidance (19 replies)
  229. What books which you suggest? (20 replies)
  230. How to find "The One" (17 replies)
  231. How did you get started online? (31 replies)
  232. Dominants: Who am I? How did I get here? (31 replies)