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- Am I the only one?
- Trying to understand...
- Spanking and caning
- Whats it for?
- New Years Resolutions
- Suspension: Fantasy vs. reality
- Wow, what a night!
- definition of submission??
- Submission slavery and objectification
- true punishment
- Shaving
- Did you know ...
- How did you find out about BDSM?
- Thoughts on spanking
- A Quick Question About Domination Fantasies
- a cry for help....
- BDSM in Texas
- Wonderful Saturday
- Nipple Piercings
- Another Sat. night and I got a body...
- Boxer's BDSM Barn
- Wild Weekend
- Bukkake
- Looking for suggestions with my new sub
- Why do people do T/this?
- What a father's day!
- Favorite Positions
- First Real Experience!!
- Beastiality - The beast in all of us - The survey
- Poor me :(
- Innate or Learned?
- pet personalities
- What do Submissives want
- Seeking some relationship advice
- Hot weekend
- A Funny Thing Happened...
- a question for the submissives/slaves
- What was the first submissive thing you did?
- Orgasm Frequency
- Yoga Torture
- Domination...
- Contract Term Date
- On-line punishment
- Recieved A Gift Out of submission Today
- Now, the other side of on-line
- Damn it all to Hell! Help!
- a first meeting
- Orgasm Deprivation
- Request for advice (Corsets)
- Question about fetishes
- Online relationships 101
- Tied Nuts
- Ball Fucking
- Chastity devices ...
- Ass Fucking Humilation
- Why do I have these fantasies?
- Blocking, Followed by Rapture
- A Table's Table (Real Life)
- Submissive/Slave Names
- What toys you have and which one(s) are your favorites?
- Hardpoints
- bdsm tattoos
- Fantasy vs. Stark Reality...
- Ball torture
- Pet Peeves of the online community
- Comfortable in the lifestyle
- London
- Parameters of BDSM - questions from a novice
- Rubber Dipped Clothespins
- Intelligence, Education and BDSM
- Hi - we're back (again)
- Piercings
- Pony Training Information
- A question of space?
- shaving
- I love mental torture ...
- Where can I buy a real whip
- Dripping pussy
- Chafing/ Rope Burn
- Funny true stories
- Is it right to dominate a low self-esteem sub?
- Prejudice?
- looking for roleplay website
- Vanilla/Kink Crossroad
- Focusing help
- Corset: The Ultimate bondage
- turning a vanilla relation into an D/s one...
- Around the holidays
- Seek and you will find, ask and you will know
- for all to see ;)
- Seasonal Greetings (smile)
- First Draft Contracts
- BDSM Tourguide - A Question
- rubbing alcohol
- slave dilemma
- a question
- The place of sex in a D/s-bdsm relationship
- Conatct Lenses (Opaque)
- older masters
- Collared!
- Using a Dominatrix or a Professional Dominant
- Need support and advise
- Does an interest in BDSM indicate a pattern of abuse in earlier life?
- Is it just me or what???
- domestic servitude
- Great Valentine's idea
- So I'm back down south....
- Move out of Vanilla
- Advice Required
- Need a new punishment ...
- Slave Attire
- Is loving sadism an oxymoron?
- Advice on topping a first-timer?
- New and needing advise
- Airport Security
- Corporal punishment and parenting
- Thank you!
- Brown Shower
- Help Finding Wrist Binders
- Going public
- Gag question
- Talons
- clothes pegs/pins
- Bad Girl?
- Lactation
- OMG at my mother
- Personal Ad Overload!
- how to get partner involved?
- alternative collars
- Switching One Day A Week
- What about children?
- Mouthy sub
- Rules for your slave.
- What professions are most vulnerable to BDSM?
- Funny story
- Multiple Threads for Similar Topics
- Dirty names calling during sex...
- Getting the partner involved?
- A Question for Dommes
- My Pix
- Outing myself to a Nilla World
- Self-bondage
- Have a question, and hope this is right place to put it
- fetish night costume
- Check this new BDSM movie!
- Kink at bedtime
- Help a newbie young Married Couple
- About Younger Women
- A Poem
- What about size?
- softies
- So new and so lost
- Breaking
- How to get BF more into it? I want to be pushed.
- First time??
- Finding a True Submissive - How hard can it be?
- Why adveratise illegal kinks?
- I'm soo horny!
- Whips and floggers
- Let's really get to know each other!
- A question for the female dommes
- how do you get in contact with people that are into bdsm
- New to the scene
- My First Cock and Brain conference
- big toys
- Pointing out the wolves to the sheep ~ Opinions please
- A little help here
- The worst
- first toys
- Help with friend
- Stores in Cleveland OH???
- penis enlargement
- Help with online punishment
- New Life!
- A gag question
- Keeping in touch with Doms/Dommes
- Are all dominant women in it for money?
- BDSM & Marital and Emotional Infidelities
- self CBT
- Advice needed
- Tired of it, just sick and tired of it all
- Suggestions for punishments
- Predicament Bondage
- Bastinado
- Growth
- Because Cages are Fun and Useful
- BDSM vs. Abuse
- Personals - Do subs contact Doms?
- How much of a masochist or Sadist are you?
- Advice needed
- Sub or slave?
- What's In It???
- Not Really A "Lifestyle" Post But...
- humiliation scenes - ideas anyone?
- A need for input regarding...
- Aphrodisiac?
- Give me some punishment ideas please
- Public Displays?
- Buzz from pain
- raped for being sub?
- Feminization
- When Doms hit on Dommes
- How hard is too hard?
- Something happened on the way to the top
- Body Writing
- What type of submissive are you?
- Signs BDSM playtime is OVER: The cops show up!
- slave registry
- question from newbie
- caroline's humiliations
- Dilemma
- Punishing my Princess
- Death of a Dom
- first time...any suggestions
- Vanilla quotes with a deeper connotation
- Very worried that current bdsm is caused by past abuse
- Big Difference or Similarity Minute?
- Potential Hazards of Online Romances
- BDSM & Jerry Springer... oy vay
- My Life is Too Busy for BDSM
- Online vs R/L relationships
- A Matter of Time
- The Responsibilities of a Dominant/Master
- Oh yeah, that's embarrassing.
- How can a Couple find a Local F-Sub?
- Does you mother know?
- Voting Rights
- (long)You can't serve two Masters or three or four.... (rant/commentery/sounding off)
- Polyamory and BDSM
- Success in converting a vanilla partner?
- Helping Your Master Through Depression
- Why the 24 hour bdsm?
- Disheartened - Cyber Spouse
- Age in the lifestyle
- Just a rant
- owning a male sub...
- Horrible first time play party experience
- Any Ideas?
- New here and seeking advice
- A funny thing happened on the way to the dungeon
- Embarrassing momnents
- Wimps?
- lydia's response to Spike
- My Master's coming home!!!!!!!
- Professions
- Coming to Terms
- Blogging my slave's training
- Tantra, Shibari, and BDSM
- BDSM in Ottawa
- Should a Master be a slave?