Dry Anal Sex

[Eponine]

Has anyone experienced a dry ass-fucking? I would love to hear from you...
I'm sure it was painful. What type of after-effects did you have? Is it something you have or would done more than once?

[MrDom]

well me and my girl do anal all the time dry. she perferes it that way I just have to enter her slow and easy till i am buried in her. The slowly increase the rythmine aqnd speed.

MrDom

[ElectricBadger]

If my wife and I don't use enough lube, it tends to result in rather intense pain, with tearing and bleeding, and takes a couple weeks to heal.

[michael35]

My wife and I have anal sex twice a week. She loves it, but we do use alot of lube. I think there is a danger in infection if there is any ripping or tearing. It would be wise not to inflict pain without understanding the consequences.

[jiggy]

Has anyone experienced a dry ass-fucking? I would love to hear from you...
I'm sure it was painful. What type of after-effects did you have? Is it something you have or would done more than once?

Take a wild guess:rolleyes:

[Rhabbi]

Anal sex almost always results in teraing, and doing it dry increases the risk. I would never do this because of the danger.

[MrDom]

Well yes with most women there is usally a chance for them too tear. But some that do get use too it. My girl dosen't need any lube she maybe the oddball. but as long as i go slow on entry she fine.


MrDom

[Rhabbi]

Well yes with most women there is usally a chance for them too tear. But some that do get use too it. My girl dosen't need any lube she maybe the oddball. but as long as i go slow on entry she fine.


MrDom

Not the oddball so much as she has adapted. A Dr can always tell if someone regularly engages in anal sex because there is always evidence. There will be sacrring and evidence of recent tears. There is not always external bleeeding, but there is always damage.

The following is an exerpt from an article that explains the dangers of anal sex. These can be minimized with care and preparation, but not eliminated. (BTW, this article focuses on gay sex, but I chose to cite it because it does not whitewash the dangers.


Anal intercourse is the sine qua non of sex for many gay men.22 Yet human physiology makes it clear that the body was not designed to accommodate this activity. The rectum is significantly different from the vagina with regard to suitability for penetration by a penis. The vagina has natural lubricants and is supported by a network of muscles. It is composed of a mucus membrane with a multi-layer stratified squamous epithelium that allows it to endure friction without damage and to resist the immunological actions caused by semen and sperm. In comparison, the anus is a delicate mechanism of small muscles that comprise an "exit-only" passage. With repeated trauma, friction and stretching, the sphincter loses its tone and its ability to maintain a tight seal. Consequently, anal intercourse leads to leakage of fecal material that can easily become chronic.

The potential for injury is exacerbated by the fact that the intestine has only a single layer of cells separating it from highly vascular tissue, that is, blood. Therefore, any organisms that are introduced into the rectum have a much easier time establishing a foothold for infection than they would in a vagina. The single layer tissue cannot withstand the friction associated with penile penetration, resulting in traumas that expose both participants to blood, organisms in feces, and a mixing of bodily fluids.

Furthermore, ejaculate has components that are immunosuppressive. In the course of ordinary reproductive physiology, this allows the sperm to evade the immune defenses of the female. Rectal insemination of rabbits has shown that sperm impaired the immune defenses of the recipient.23 Semen may have a similar impact on humans.24

The end result is that the fragility of the anus and rectum, along with the immunosuppressive effect of ejaculate, make anal-genital intercourse a most efficient manner of transmitting HIV and other infections. The list of diseases found with extraordinary frequency among male homosexual practitioners as a result of anal intercourse is alarming:

Anal Cancer
Chlamydia trachomatis
Cryptosporidium
Giardia lamblia
Herpes simplex virus
Human immunodeficiency virus
Human papilloma virus
Isospora belli
Microsporidia
Gonorrhea
Viral hepatitis types B & C
Syphilis25

Sexual transmission of some of these diseases is so rare in the exclusively heterosexual population as to be virtually unknown. Others, while found among heterosexual and homosexual practitioners, are clearly predominated by those involved in homosexual activity. Syphilis, for example is found among heterosexual and homosexual practitioners. But in 1999, King County, Washington (Seattle), reported that 85 percent of syphilis cases were among self-identified homosexual practitioners.26 And as noted above, syphilis among homosexual men is now at epidemic levels in San Francisco.27

A 1988 CDC survey identified 21 percent of all Hepatitis B cases as being homosexually transmitted while 18 percent were heterosexually transmitted.28 Since homosexuals comprise such a small percent of the population (only 1-3 percent),29 they have a significantly higher rate of infection than heterosexuals.30

Anal intercourse also puts men at significant risk for anal cancer. Anal cancer is the result of infection with some subtypes of human papilloma virus (HPV), which are known viral carcinogens. Data as of 1989 showed the rates of anal cancer in male homosexual practitioners to be 10 times that of heterosexual males, and growing. 30 Thus, the prevalence of anal cancer among gay men is of great concern. For those with AIDS, the rates are doubled.31

Other physical problems associated with anal intercourse are:

hemorrhoids
anal fissures
anorectal trauma
retained foreign bodies.32

http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0075.html#07

Yes, I know this article is biased, but so are the others. I engage in anal sex, but I do so with the full knowledge of all the risks involved. SSC means knowing everything, not just what I like.

[tessa]

Rectal insemination of rabbits has shown that sperm impaired the immune defenses of the recipient.

Poor rabbits. :(

[Rhabbi]

Poor rabbits. :(

lol

[gagged_Louise]

Must be why you never see rabbits doing it in the field.

*looks around for *the* Rabbit*

[Ayla Silver]

Thanks for the info, Rhabbi.

I've never had anal sex before. Not sure I want to try, after reading that article. :)

[Rhabbi]

Thanks for the info, Rhabbi.

I've never had anal sex before. Not sure I want to try, after reading that article. :)

Now that you know the bad side, remeber that this article deliberately accented that. the actual risks of most of these things is low, but it is real.

The reason i took the trouble to post this article here is because very few people actually know the dangers of anal sex, and most of the available information downplays it. Just know before you go.

[MajesticFae]

Anal sex is a lot of fun if done safely with lots of lube. I wouldn't suggest dry anal sex.

[Masters_lilone]

Dry anal sex will cause major damage. you can get riped up there cause your lil anus does not make lube...Please use lube if you are gonna do anal

[ifonly61]

yum yum up the bum bum, smiles and of course no lube.

[ElectricBadger]

Anal Cancer
Chlamydia trachomatis
Cryptosporidium
Giardia lamblia
Herpes simplex virus
Human immunodeficiency virus
Human papilloma virus
Isospora belli
Microsporidia
Gonorrhea
Viral hepatitis types B & C
Syphilis25

Kay, I gotta call Bad Science. For the record, almost none of this is a danger of having anal sex. You don't get syphilis from doing anal; you get it from doing an infected partner. Yes, odds of transmission vary for types of entry, but if you're relying on less tearing to stay safe you're pretty much fucked, anyhow. Same goes for clamydia, gonorhea, hepititus, HIV, papilloma and giardia, and probably most of the rest up there; and tying cancer to physical trauma seems chancey at best. This list is more a commentary on subcultures than on anal hazards -- free sex is bad health.

[gloombunny]

I've been struggling to resist since this thread began, but I can't take it anymore!

*ahem*

Dry anal sex is a bad fucking idea.












I'm sorry.

[Tasker]

Hmmm. Lube, lotsa lube. Wouldnt do it any otherway

[angelic.zest]

i would rather have lube, never tried it w/o but im not afriad to do it w/o lube...

[jiggy]

a good slave will always do anal - no questions asked ;)

[Rhabbi]

a good slave will always do anal - no questions asked ;)

You know something jiggy, I did not miss you.

[Hime]

I think asking questions should always be allowed, especially when there is a health risk.

[jiggy]

with lube of course

[Rhabbi]

with lube of course

There may actually be some some ray of hope for you jiggy, but they should still be free to ask questions. Anal sex is also a health issue.

[Logic1]

I dont really see any reason do do Anal sex dry from my pov nor for the subs pov. It has got to hurt badly and will most likely bleed and hurt for a long time.
It is not a "pain" that I want to give my sub/gf whatever and I dont really think any woman/gay/sub male would want either.

If there is anything I have noticed during the years I have been doing this it is this: There is a huge difference between good and bad pain, the pain you want and the pain you dont want to endure/enjoy.
(on the other hand there are people that gets off on pain..)

[gloombunny]

It is not a "pain" that I want to give my sub/gf whatever and I dont really think any woman/gay/sub male would want either.

But non-submissive straight men love it? What?

(Yes, some straight guys enjoy receiving anal sex in a non-BDSM way.)

[moptop]

Lube, lube, lube. Even with it, you can tear. If it hurts, not good hurt - stop.

And it is best not indulged in too often, HOWEVER much you like it - give your poor little sphinctre a chance to recover! Preferably, do exercises (squeeeeeeeze release) inbetween times, to help strengthen. Whether the other medical information given was biased or not, leakage is a genuine threat. You don't want that. No no no.

[Eponine]

Well thank you all for your input-

I was looking more for personal experiences...

obviously dry anal does not sound like a good idea!

Anyway.. it's irrelevant at this point in my life anymore...

So thanks again!

*E*

[Logic1]

But non-submissive straight men love it? What?

(Yes, some straight guys enjoy receiving anal sex in a non-BDSM way.)

my bad, sorry forgot that so shoot me will ya ;)

[moptop]

Bang.


:D

[Eponine]

What does "Bang." mean in this thread, moptop?

[cadence]

What does "Bang." mean in this thread, moptop?

You have to read the thread before moptops to get the meaning

[Eponine]

oh.. whoops.. i missed that lol.. ok you can shoot me too... lol - WITH A TOY GUN only...

[Iron_Lynx]

Lube, lube, lube. Even with it, you can tear. If it hurts, not good hurt - stop.

And it is best not indulged in too often, HOWEVER much you like it - give your poor little sphinctre a chance to recover! Preferably, do exercises (squeeeeeeeze release) inbetween times, to help strengthen. Whether the other medical information given was biased or not, leakage is a genuine threat. You don't want that. No no no.

I never realized chronic leaking was a genuine possibility. It's good knowledge to have, though.

Anyway, when it comes to lube and anal sex, too much is just barely enough. I don't understand the reasoning behind going dry. Nothing against anyone who's tried it carefully and enjoyed it, but to me it sounds about as intelligent as using aluminum foil for a condom.

[TomOfSweden]

I wouldn't have dry anal sex because I don't like how it feels on my penis. I'm a lube kind of guy.

Here's some trivia. According to Dan Savage anal sex and even anal fisting has shown to decrease the development of haemorrhoids. Haemorrhoids develop when people don't move about enough and eat too much crappy food that doesn't exercise the anal muscle enough. Anal sex is healthy for your ass. Remember that kids.

[Logic1]

good trivia Tom.
and yes I think exactly the same. I dont like how anal feels without lube. Simply put too much friction for my liking.
lubelubelube

[Anthorn]

I actually asked a sex health worker this question about the dangers of Anal. She told me that there is more danger to the reciever than there is to the giver.

And for Oral its pretty much the same accept switched round

[_ID_]

Current sub and I do dry anal fucking. have used lube, but not often.