View Full Version : WOW am I kinky
thebiggame
08-08-2007, 04:45 PM
Sometimes I wonder if there is something wrong with me because I always think of super kinky fantasies involving my wife. Many years ago I had this idea and we expressed doing it while in the middle of the event. Never discussed it before or after. Well I discussed it and verbalized during my dirty talk every now and again I would say we were going to do it but then never did. Well it finally happened Saturday night. My wife finally made me do it. I'm excited right now thinking about it. I'm new to this. I'm not into the pain or life style really. I just really like being kinky and dominated during sex and nothing else. Recently we bought anal beads and we used them on me. We had a few times and I am taking baby steps towards convincing my wife to dominate me. So Saturday she was giving me oral and I said "when I cum take it in your mouth and then make me kiss you". I had said it a few times the last couple weeks but it never happened. She looked at me and said are you sure? I'll do it!! My response was yes do it you are my master and I'm your slave. So at the first shot she glided over and gave me a big kiss. During the moment it was kind of gross but it has turned me on all week after thinking about it. I think I may ask again tonight. I want to drop it on her tongue and chin and then have a big kiss.
So is there something wrong with me?? Why oh why do I want to do this kind of stuff. I think I watch too much porn. Do others here go down this avenue? Is this normal for kinky people?
Rhabbi
08-08-2007, 05:29 PM
Why does everyone who has fantasies think there is soemthing wrong with them? This is nothing but cultural conditioning.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
angelic.zest
08-08-2007, 06:01 PM
agrees with Rhabbi wholeheartedly!
jeanne
08-08-2007, 09:41 PM
Another agreement here. And no, porn does not make you something that you weren't, maybe it just helps you accept that part of yourself.
gagged_Louise
08-08-2007, 09:55 PM
Agree with Rhabbi too, and you should see what 'super kinky' ideas some of us have, and have even left on the walls of this Forum.
TomOfSweden
08-09-2007, 12:16 AM
You came to the right place
Logic1
08-09-2007, 01:59 AM
There is nothing wrong with being kinky. NOTHING at all. We all have things that turns us on, some more than others but that sure doesnt make it bad.
ElectricBadger
08-09-2007, 10:31 PM
Kink is good. Kink is like enjoying strawberry-rhubarb pie. Not everyone likes it, and it's not nice to make those who don't eat it...but if you do like it, why not have a piece now and then, savor it and enjoy life? It's just tastes, what we enjoy and doesn't harm anyone else.
Yeah, the stuff we do is out of the ordinary (although I could go on at length about how thoroughly inundated mainstream culture is with power exchange icons) but we're SUPPOSED to be unique and special beings. We should enjoy that, not struggle to fit into a boring world.
Logic1
08-10-2007, 02:16 AM
mmmmmm
strawberry-rhubarb pie
damn tease ElectricBadger.. :p
pixie_dust
08-10-2007, 06:30 AM
My thought is this... EVERYONE is kinky in some way, shape, or form. It's just that we are the only ones that are willing to admit it.
TomOfSweden
08-10-2007, 07:05 AM
My thought is this... EVERYONE is kinky in some way, shape, or form. It's just that we are the only ones that are willing to admit it.
I'd like to see it from another angle, that we're all normal. People who do things that hurt others are the perverted ones.
Snark
08-10-2007, 07:16 AM
Being a bit kinky is normal. Imposing your kink on others, however, is not. Enjoy your uniqueness and hope your SO can assist or at least not belittle you for it. Better yet, embrace it. Acting out your fantasies in a way that is not injurious can provide relief, excitement and inspiration. It CAN be difficult to give oneself permission. Just work on it. Guilt for no valid reason is corrosive to the mind and soul.
pixie_dust
08-10-2007, 09:12 AM
*nods in agreement with Tom*
Yep, you're correct. Thanks for phrasing it in a better way. :)
sledger
08-13-2007, 08:14 AM
nothing wrong great idea for the bedroom i hope you enjoy it
Austerus
08-13-2007, 10:58 AM
Every relationship has a more dominant and a more submissive person in it, it's all just a matter of degrees. As long as you are both enjoying yourselves and aren't hurting anyone else, then there's nothing wrong with you. The whole point of a relationship is to be more happy than you are without the relationship. If doing something consensual and not harmful to others with your partner makes you both more happy, then it seems perfectly natural to me :)
moptop
08-13-2007, 11:25 AM
I think it's great. I hope the two of you keep going, sharing your fantasies verbally and in fact. Maybe your wife will start to open up on some of her fantasies soon, and make you do things... mmm... that'd be fun, eh!
Clevernick
08-13-2007, 12:51 PM
You have come to the right place, that's for sure.
Maybe it will give you some even kinkier ideas if I mention that my wife, who learned English as a second language after we were married, always pronounced it "strawberry-robbery pie".
H Dean
08-13-2007, 02:55 PM
Sometimes I wonder if there is something wrong with me because I always think of super kinky fantasies involving my wife. That isn't that kinky. I have fantasies about her too.
Flaming_Redhead
08-13-2007, 04:19 PM
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tessa
08-13-2007, 06:02 PM
That isn't that kinky. I have fantasies about her too.
You can be so wrong sometimes, Mr. Dean!
~giggles~
I think I watch too much porn.
That's not possible.
:wave:
H Dean
08-13-2007, 09:23 PM
I may be wrong, but I am damned funny.
Austerus
08-13-2007, 10:28 PM
I may be wrong, but I am damned funny.
sure, sure, but looks aren't everything.
/I keed, I keed
H Dean
08-13-2007, 10:37 PM
sure, sure, but looks aren't everything.
/I keed, I keedHey, don't go trying to steal my comedic thunder!
Austerus
08-13-2007, 10:43 PM
*snatch* *run* *cackle*
H Dean
08-13-2007, 10:48 PM
You cackle like a girl.
Austerus
08-13-2007, 10:53 PM
hmmm...*DEEP BASS CACKLE* better?
H Dean
08-13-2007, 10:54 PM
Kinda scared me, even.
Austerus
08-13-2007, 11:00 PM
Exxccellent
H Dean
08-13-2007, 11:04 PM
Easy there, old man.
Austerus
08-13-2007, 11:11 PM
Old? OLD? Them's fighting words! Wait, I did just turn 30...crap.
Clevernick
08-14-2007, 10:12 AM
When I turned 30, I was a bit worried and depressed about it, and how old it felt. On the day, during the party, I got a surprise call from my grandmother.
All she said was "So you're thirty. Think you'll survive?"
What a great lady.
tessa
08-14-2007, 11:33 AM
When I turned 30, I was a bit worried and depressed about it, and how old it felt. On the day, during the party, I got a surprise call from my grandmother.
All she said was "So you're thirty. Think you'll survive?"
What a great lady.
Thank you for that, Cevernick. Well, thank your Grandmother. Indeed, what a great lady. :)