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cream _(DNW)
08-09-2007, 10:58 AM
I wanted to tell you all that I have found an Master in real life now.I talked to him alot on the phone and we are going to meet this weekend in person.I am really looking forward to it.He is willing to take things slow with me seeing how I have never done this in real life before.I got him to join up here last night so that some of yall can meet him,giggles.And we are going to be doing post together soon as well to tell you all about what is going on with us.
Rhabbi
08-09-2007, 11:09 AM
Congratulations cream. Good luck and be safe.
Pertez
08-09-2007, 11:09 AM
Congratulations Cream
annie
08-09-2007, 11:19 AM
Hope you have a safe call arranged! Glad you found someone! Good luck!
Congratz cream!! Have a wonderful time this weekend!
pixie_dust
08-09-2007, 12:11 PM
Congrats!!! *does happy subbie dance*
have a safe and happy time.
Flaming_Redhead
08-09-2007, 12:39 PM
:exellent1
Sir_Russell
08-09-2007, 07:39 PM
just_annie I agree with you totally. Safe calls at set times with the friend knowing where you are and who you are with.
tired.of.vanilla{DJ}
08-09-2007, 08:38 PM
Oh you lucky duck! good luck and def keep us updated!
Logic1
08-10-2007, 02:51 AM
good luck to you cream
and be safe and take care this weekend :)
cariad
08-10-2007, 03:08 AM
Congratulations and I hope everything goes as you wish.
But....regardless of how wonderful he seems, and how much you trust him, please, please do follow the advice on safe calls (note plural). The more experienced your prospective Dom is, the more he will support, or even insist on you having them. It is not a sign of you not trusting him. It is a sign that you both care about your safety.
Also - please choose the person who is going to be making the calls with care. Are they the sort of person, who if things do go wrong, will be able to escalate the situation as appropriate, or will they just sit there and worry?
We really are pleased for you, and are not throwing any doubts onto your prospective Dom, just talking good sense, both for you and any others who might read this thread and be in the same position. If you are not sure about how safe calls work, please PM some of the people here who have been actively involved in the lifestyle for sometime, or have a look at the thread I am about to start...
Hope you have a wonderful time, and each of your calls are oozing with 'ohhhhhh he is wonderful'.
cariad
John56{vg}
08-10-2007, 03:12 AM
Cream,
I just add my thoughts to cariad's. She makes great sense and we are just making sure that BOTH of you have a good time. Be safe, hon.
John
Logic1
08-10-2007, 04:06 AM
Cream,
I just add my thoughts to cariad's. She makes great sense and we are just making sure that BOTH of you have a good time. Be safe, hon.
John
qfe
(quoted for effect)
TomOfSweden
08-10-2007, 04:56 AM
I'll wait with congratulations until I've heard the report on how wonderful he was. Lots of people are better looking on the Internet.
Logic1
08-10-2007, 05:42 AM
Lots of people are better looking on the Internet.
I am better looking irl :p
creams_slut
08-15-2007, 01:11 AM
Congrats Maam...glad you are happy
bad_kitty_77
08-15-2007, 01:41 AM
Congratulations cream _ {DMW}! I hope you two hit it off. :D
<<--- Is one of those people who looks waaaaay better on the intar-web.
Logic1
08-15-2007, 04:08 AM
yeah I might be wrong. I might look better on the intar-web too :p
personality shines through better irl though.
TomOfSweden
08-15-2007, 05:36 AM
So how did it go?
Logic1
08-15-2007, 08:50 AM
QUOTE=TomOfSweden;428790]So how did it go?[/QUOTE]
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11696[
she has some account issues so that post is from her.