embarrassing question

[spammik]

I don't know where to list this question and it may have been listed before...but here goes.
Last night while my husband was spanking me tied up and stimulating me with a vibrating butt toy and dildo in my pussy I had a very intense orgasim and felt like I might be wetting the bed, it was a very different orgasim. I am really concerned that I might wet the bed or on my husband. After sex, especially if I have several strong orgasims I always need to go to the bathroom and it's almost the same feeling. Am I crazy or what?

spammik

[Euryleia]

Congratulations, spammik. You're a female ejaculator. You're neither crazy nor wetting the bed.

Here's a wikipedia article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation

[tired.of.vanilla{DJ}]

Congrats! That is wonderful! If you are worried about the bed just buy puppy pads and put them under the sheets. It can even be a part of the scene!

[spammik]

Thanks to both posts. I will take the suggestion for part of the scene/game. I guess it's never too late to learn.....ha.

[wingsofanangel]

It freaked me out the first time too..

but its totally normal. It doesn't happen everytime for me... infact I often times hold back because it still freaks me out.. the sensations are soooo intense!

My ex- online Dom saw me do it on cam and he was amazed....

you are perfectly normal and should be very happy to be able to achieve such a wonderful orgasm!

-anya-

[spammik]

Anya,
Thanks, it is really a freaky feeling. Now that I know it's normal I might be able to relax a little more and go with the flow.....ha.

[Sir_Russell]

spammik

I have a suggest go to the bathroom before the session and void completely, or yes go with the flow but first talk to your Dom. I know I would not be pleased to be wetted down.

[wingsofanangel]

I know when I do it..

even if I go potty before.. it STILL happens. regardless...

[Sir_Russell]

lol I will remember that if I get the chance.

[wingsofanangel]

-waggles finger-

Tis not a bad thing.... -evil grin-

-anya-

[John56{vg}]

My experience (with the one woman that ejaculated like this) was that the fluid didn't taste or smell at all. So it definitely wasn't urine. And I just wanted to say it was kinda hot to be wetted down in this dfashion, especially knowing I helped to get it started, LOL.

[Logic1]

I am with John here. It sure isnt urine.
I was lucky enough to find a woman that could come like that too and it is totally amazing for the both of us.
Congratulations. Just let go and enjoy the ride !

[tessa]

What's with the "potty before sex" comment?? We aren't talking about urinating here, folks. Some females ejaculate while having sex. It's fluid, certainly, but it's not urine. That wikipedia link up there explains it well.

And the title of the thread, "embarrassing question", well there's nothing embarrassing about being a squirter. Nothing at all. Why would there be?? Are guys embarrassed because they ejaculate? Now that was a rhetorical question, but you get my point, I hope.

So, relax, let go and feel all you have to feel. It's a grand thing to be sure. Don't let anyone tell you differently. :)

tessa :wave:

[TomOfSweden]

I had a lover once who always ejaculated and who always was ashamed of it. But I'm really into wet sex so I loved it. I never did manage to convince her how much I loved it, especially getting it in my face. hmm...silly girl.

Your craziness Spammic, is if anything, that you have a problem with it. It's a gift. Cherish it and be proud of it. Tell your husband he's a lucky man.

[His_blizzard]

The poseur Dom I dated before I met Dragon tried so hard to get me to "gush" but it never happened. Before him I was not even aware there was such a thing. But a wise old Dragon knew just what to do to have it happen to me, and now I can even do it too myself. It is amazing!
I too was scared to death the first time it happened. I thought that he had broken something. *grins* It is nothing like urinating. No kegal muscle in the world could stop the flow until it is over. And Master did make me smell and taste it to prove to me it wasn't urine. The is no smell or taste. Of course he always puts a towel down it he is in the mood to make me squirt.
spammik...enjoy this wonderful phenomenom. Most guys really dig it!

[mysc]

Hi Spammic,

Like the others said; Nothing to worry or to be embarressed about. Eventho I know what you mean. I never had this feeling until about 6 months ago, but I was on top then and I thought I was just really really wet... well untill yesterday that was.. when I had the same thing and I was squirting all over my Master (before that it just happened when I was on top of him facing him). He really liked it, but I couldn't help but feel really ashamed by that fact. And yet I would never ever give this up again... this kind of orgasm is very intensive and I should just get over this feeling and enjoy it.

[John56{vg}]

Now this may not be appropriate here, but subs that wouldn't think twice of enjoying us men cumming on various parts of their body are worried about them getting us wet with something that has no taste or smell and is induced by us?

Why wouldn't we enjoy that as much?

I know I do!!

John

[sassycat4him]

I have only cum like that one time and I thought that I was peeing! I tried to hold it half way through but realized just what it was and let it go! It is a weird feeling when it's not something you're used to. wish I could cum like that more often!!!

[spammik]

Hey now that I know what is going on for sure I am not embarrassed, I do plan on going with the flow LOL and enjoy. My husband/master does enjoy it and want to make sure it happens alot. Thanks for all the support and comments. I am really glad I joined this site.
:wave:

[John56{vg}]

We are glad you did too spammik and very glad that you are part of the family. :-)

[thrall]

All right i just have to jump into this..............sorta like a pool.........ROTFLMFAO........

All i can say..........is it gives a whole new meaning to the term "wet spot"

Just be prepared because it can shoot across the room.........LOL





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[Rhabbi]

As others have said, this is actually totally normal. I remembered reading about this here before so I dug up the link.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5523&highlight=female+ejaculation

[spammik]

One Thing for sure, I can be having a pretty bad day and I can always count on smiling and laughing when I read the threads. Yea.

[tessa]

No kegal muscle in the world could stop the flow until it is over.

Ain't that the truth!


Just be prepared because it can shoot across the room....

Or up to the ceiling...or all over the headboard...or all over the camera...

Hey that reminds me. Cover any and all media equipment you plan to have close by with see-through plastic.

The things one learns...

:wave:

[violet girl{MM}]

i guess i'm one of the lucky ones, too... :rolleyes:
*thinks of starting a female ejaculators' club* ;) :rolleyes:
all of my intense orgasms are just like you have described spammik... :eek:
in fact, i have "wetted down" my partner before... ;)
he did not seem to mind, and yes, it is odorless and colorless, so enjoy!!! :D

[bad_kitty_77]

Jesus, I'm jealous. Seventy-five percent of the time I can't even reach a regular orgasm, let alone supra-squirter status. Most of the time it's: "Geez, got my hopes up for nothing again," wash "Magdelena," put 'er back in the drawer, roll over and go to sleep. :(

[mysc]

Don't worry Bad Kitty... Be patient with your body. I am 30 now and I wasn't able to until 6 months ago. And I wasn't able to masturbate until a week ago (I tried years ago, but I gave up on it). I think I faked orgasms for along time just because I didn't know how to cum and I was ashamed of that fact. And when I finally did orgasm (not in the squirting way) I only had them 40% of the time at first. It took me two years to learn how to reach an orgasm every time. Right now I am able to have multiple orgasms and squirt. But it took me a long time to get there..

[spammik]

Hey, I am over 50 and just getting into all of this. It's only been in the last year that orgasms have been really good. Like fine wine, we get better with age!! LOL Life is full of surprises and I am very willing to keep on keeping on.

[Noelani]

I was over 40 before I experienced squirting/gushing. Like others have said, it is tasteless and odorless and definitely not urine. My problem is that I can, at times, ejaculate so much that I soak Everything! I've soaked through folded up beach towels and made many a mess on the tile floor that I had to mop up. I actually had one guy ask his BIL doctor about it because he had never seen such volume before. That part is kind of embarrassing for me.

[spammik]

Hey,
Now that my husband/master and I know what is going on he wants it to happen a lot, I just can't turn it on and off like a faucet.....so he is going to have to be happy with the times that it does. Who knew.....like someone said earlier, you could try a puppy pad or something of that nature if you don't want to mop. Also as one of the earlier responses told me, it is nothing to be embarssed about!!!