tendertop
03-24-2004, 07:25 AM
Looking for help, advice, links etc. on master training. Would like perspectives from both doms and slaves. I'm particularly interested in proper master dialogue towards the slave who is also a live in lover.
BDSM_Tourguide
03-24-2004, 01:30 PM
There are websites available for anyone interested in learning more about BDSM, if you take the time to do a search.
Castlerealm has always been the go-to for many in the lifestyle, but it's quite out of date and I don't believe the site has been updated in over a year. You can find it at http://www.castlerealm.com
A Dark Whisper is a newer site with a lot of information, but I find more of it to be opinion pieces than pure knowledge. You can find that site at http://www.adarkwhisper.com
Otherwise, I'd say look here. There are threads on a variety of topics and subjects. Do a search for whatever you happen to be looking for and I bet you'll find it. If not, start a thread on the subject. The search button can be found at the top right of your screen.
As for dialogue, that is something for you and your partner to work out individually. Not everyone likes to be called a cunt or a whore, but to others it's a wild turn-on.
Similarly, not every dominant likes to be called Sir or Master. Again, work it out. Communicate with your partner about these things, but ask us for advice.