drake7
04-09-2004, 06:24 AM
I have a young friend who is relatively inexperienced sexually.
She is nineteen years old and is not happy with her current relationship, the only partner she has had at this point. She does not find sex with him to be satisfying.
I suggested that perhaps it was his technique that was causing this lack of interest, he is nineteen and equally inexperienced, but she also said that most time she simply does not feel aroused at all. When I asked her about masturbation and her fantasies she then told me that the fantasies she has all have to do with her being in control and "throwing him around" as she put it.
I am not well enough acquainted with how females get in touch with their dominant side to give her what I feel is sound advice. I can tell her from a male perspective but I don't think they are the same. I had recommended she read some of the stories here on the site- I gave her the web address, but she has a dial-up isp and doesn't seem to think she will have much luck accessing the stories.
If any of you can give me some insight into how you first realized you liked being sexually dominant and also if, as she said, sex was not very fun before that revelation it would be greatly appreciated.
Drake.
She is nineteen years old and is not happy with her current relationship, the only partner she has had at this point. She does not find sex with him to be satisfying.
I suggested that perhaps it was his technique that was causing this lack of interest, he is nineteen and equally inexperienced, but she also said that most time she simply does not feel aroused at all. When I asked her about masturbation and her fantasies she then told me that the fantasies she has all have to do with her being in control and "throwing him around" as she put it.
I am not well enough acquainted with how females get in touch with their dominant side to give her what I feel is sound advice. I can tell her from a male perspective but I don't think they are the same. I had recommended she read some of the stories here on the site- I gave her the web address, but she has a dial-up isp and doesn't seem to think she will have much luck accessing the stories.
If any of you can give me some insight into how you first realized you liked being sexually dominant and also if, as she said, sex was not very fun before that revelation it would be greatly appreciated.
Drake.