Need some ideas! [Archive]

Kelli

04-14-2004, 01:56 PM

somewriter

04-14-2004, 02:12 PM

Anal (both)

Does that include strap-ons? Or just other anal toys? That could be something new if you haven't tried it. You also mentioned public - is that city-style public? Sex (and bondage) out in the country can be different and also you usually have longer to do things. Blindfolding your partner and driving them out into the forest... mmmmm.

I know you've posted pics before - ever tried making a video of the two of you (for your own watching later I mean, not for here!), that could be an interesting project. I'm afraid my imagination is running a bit dry tonight

Kelli

04-14-2004, 02:16 PM

Don't have a video camera or we'd do that :) As for public, just some stuff in movie theaters, malls, and restraurants. Just anal toys, we are saving anal sex for the honeymoon ;) I will try anything at least once, he is a lil more cautious. Any scenes or ideas of how we could do something would be great. I like the blindfold ride idea, but I think we would need a little more time to set that one up...

jakoehn789

04-14-2004, 04:09 PM

:[
Well...what about a little harder bondage...restriction or suspension. Check out Jim's (Husband) website...may get a few ideas...

Christine
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Jims_fetishs_for_all/

somewriter

04-19-2004, 03:02 PM

So Kelli - how did your weekend go in the end?

Mobius

04-19-2004, 03:16 PM

Alright. My bf and I want to have a super sexual weekend and try stuff we haven't before. Here's the list of what we have done:

Bdsm (both ways)
Torture
Anal (both)
Light public (not much, not sure of what exactly we could do)

Okay I know this doesn't sound like much, but we cannot think of anything else to do. I know we want a threesome, but kinda hard to find someone. We are not really into scat and stuff like that, but if anyone has any ideas of public stuff, or any role playing ideas, please post. I am leaving tomorrow, so quick replies would be awesome!
It was a rebroadcast with Ginger Lyne and she was talking about Women Squirting, and the technique needed to achive this.
She said most Women have to have the assistance of a partner who use's the "come hither" Finger to stymulate the G Spot and if done correctly you will have an internal orgasm that will couse you to squirt.
There is a feather in your cap if you can do it.

fetish101

04-19-2004, 03:29 PM

lol..yeah..the "come hither" finger motion pretty much sums it up. But damn is it hard on the forearm (lol..works in nicely to a daily workout routine).

Kelli

04-19-2004, 05:07 PM

It went well. Wasn't as sexual as we had planned, but was still great. In three weeks I will be with him for the entire summer, so we will have tons of time to try out all sorts of ideas. Mobius great idea, we have actually tried that as well. Hasn't worked yet, althought I did get it to work myself a few years ago. Not sure how, but none the less.

krista

04-21-2004, 03:13 AM

There is a feather in your cap if you can do it.

I wonder if a feather can be used in achieving that too ;)

Kelli

04-21-2004, 03:16 AM

A feather is an interesting idea... I really want to try something in public. It doesn't have to be sex, just something sexual. Any thoughts?

Morphis

04-21-2004, 08:04 AM

A feather is an interesting idea... I really want to try something in public. It doesn't have to be sex, just something sexual. Any thoughts?

Maybe a buttplug under your clothes, you both know it's there, no-one will notice, but(t) it's still public.

Kelli

04-21-2004, 12:55 PM

Maybe a buttplug under your clothes, you both know it's there, no-one will notice, but(t) it's still public.

Yeah thought of that, but I guess we were thinking more along the lines of actually doing something, not just wearing something. You know what I mean? I've been practicing jacking him off with my feet, as a possibility for the future, but not quite sure what else we could do, and get away with :)

MrJerseyGuy

04-22-2004, 03:59 AM

They make a very nice assortment of remote controlled vibrating devices. If you're sensitive to that kind of thing it could be a lot of fun in a nice restaurant or other public place

acissej

04-22-2004, 04:19 AM

I haven't done much public play either, but I was once with a dom who liked to take me out and send me into the ladies room to remove pieces of clothing - panties, bra, camisole, you get the idea. I'd return, he'd check to make sure I'd followed orders. And since I'm not exactly a small girl up top (judging from the pics you've posted, Kelli, you're not so small yourself), the bouncing was particularly humiliating. He knew it and made me get on the dance floor with him. Same guy also liked to do public insertions - we'd be sitting at a bar, or in a club, and he'd slip some ice inside me. Or in the back of a cab, he'd put in a vibrator or slip nipple clamps on.

Kelli

04-22-2004, 01:31 PM

acissej - WONDERFUL ideas! I will have to tell my bf about those. Don't have enough $$ for wireless toys at thie moment, but if we do we will definitely invest :)

acissej

04-22-2004, 02:39 PM

Glad I could help, Kelli. If you try any of my suggestions, please let me know how it goes. Good luck!

muhshilltopper

04-22-2004, 09:40 PM

It has been mentioned in many other posts as well but putting a slit in a pocket of you (or his) pants. Then masturbating in a public place at your partners command and making sure no one notices. This can be especially hard at a movie theater because it is very quite.

mikey7

04-24-2004, 02:19 PM

You don't need a wireless remote control, just someting you can turn on (or he can) and buzzes away in one or the other of you. Nothing like trying to carry on a conversation at dinner while you are approaching an orgasam, especially if another couple is with you.

In public jerk him off or make him jerk off and squirt all over his shirt and pants, and go out like that. If it's your turn, he can come on you (face, breasts, etc) and you have to go around with it there.

zagadee

04-25-2004, 05:46 PM

you could try going to somewhere like a fancy restaurant then playing a game of 'dare'. Sounds like something teenagers do i know, but you take turns throughout the meal daring each other, starting off small, such as flashing underwear, then proceeding to retreating to the toilets or outsaide for more intimate dares and get more and more extreme until one person refuses to continue. Then the loser has to be the other's sex slave for the whole next day or something.

fetish101

04-25-2004, 06:50 PM

that's a good idea..but wouldn't it mean you'd have to have a switch instead of a dominant partner?

James2024

04-25-2004, 07:59 PM

fetish she said they are swtich

fetish101

04-25-2004, 09:32 PM

well go figure..

alright, then it stands it is a good idea!

LadyAmanda

06-24-2004, 09:10 AM

Here's another public idea:

It needs to be a kinda cool evening, so you have a reason to cuddle up together. You might want to wrap a blanket around yourselves the first time, but when you get more daring, forget it.

He has to sit on the ground first, and you have to sit on his lap. You have to be wearing a skirt or dress, no undies.

Can you guess the next step? Yep, full penetration, front or rear, your choice.

Oh, and try not to moan or scream, okay? Unless you're watching a fireworks display or something - which is where we first did this :D

slavedriver

06-24-2004, 09:45 AM

A nice idea for the ladies out there is to insert a pair of ben wah balls and then go for a nice long walk.You could also try to see how far you can go before you lose one or both(with or without panties on).Having done this with a young lady before i know just how difficult it can be to keep the ben wah balls quiet and if the lady is wearing tight jeans/slacks she will find it almost impossible to hide the results from anyone :) :)

MrJerseyGuy

06-24-2004, 11:37 AM

I realize that this is an old thread at this point. But I'll throw my suggestion in here in case a new reader (or Kelli) is interested. My ex-wife was something of an exhibitionist and interested in public play/humiliation. One thing we did one time was to take a long ride up the New Jersey Turnpike...a very busy public highway. She had the passenger seat fully reclined and was naked while masturbating with a dildoe. To add to the entertainment we had a CB radio...I think they are still around...tuned to channel 19 (the trucker's preferred channel).

By the time we finished I think we had a mile and a half of trucks that just kept passing us one by one to watch. They would all pass...slow down, and then pass again. It went on for quite some time! And the whole time we could hear the chatter going on between the truckers. We got a kick out of it. (although she was sore for days)

Another option if you live near one, is the local porn shop...most of them have small theaters. He can bend you over one of the seats and have his way with you while the other guys in the place watch and masturbate. Best to do that on a Friday or Saturday night when the place is a little crowded.

I love the whole public sex scene...very erotic!