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Hime
03-04-2008, 10:38 AM
I was just wondering if anyone else is turned on by watching two men fighting or confronting each other. In TV and movies my favorite scenes are often when guys start to get in each other's faces, shove each other, or grapple. Something about the aggressive energy between them really gets me. After watching an action or martial arts movie like <i>The Bourne Identity</i> or <i>Ong-Bak: The Thai Warrior<i>, I really want to go home and get busy. :o

Am I the only one who has this reaction? I have never heard anyone else mention it as a kink or turn-on.

annie
03-04-2008, 11:45 AM
I wouldn't say it is a kink for me but I do enjoy watching two strong men in battle. Reason being... I tend to equate strength with dominance so to see two strong men in battle provides the head rush that comes from obeying a dominant male.

Not sure that makes sense....

gemmy
03-04-2008, 11:49 AM
makes perfect sense annie and goes right along with what i would say as well

it's the Testosterone thing that makes all us subbie's go weak i think - knowing they have that brute strength to protect and take care of us with *winks*

i'm sure your 'fetish' is rooted similarly Hime *smiles*

TomOfSweden
03-04-2008, 11:51 AM
Watching people fight is quite a common kink. Just check out the porn sections. I think you'll find what you're looking for in the gay section.

If by weird you mean uncommon, I'm afraid you'll be disappointed. But of course, fighting women is far more popular to watch than blokes.

Hime
03-04-2008, 11:58 AM
Watching people fight is quite a common kink. Just check out the porn sections. I think you'll find what you're looking for in the gay section.

If by weird you mean uncommon, I'm afraid you'll be disappointed. But of course, fighting women is far more popular to watch than blokes.

Oddly, even though I generally prefer women physically, watching women fight doesn't do anything for me. I guess it really is a testosterone thing.

And I don't really want to be the only person into a particular thing... that would make me feel lonely! Although I do have a friend who once won a contest by being the only person in the room who had a fetish that the visiting sex/sociology lecturer hadn't heard of. :p

TomOfSweden
03-04-2008, 12:06 PM
Not as lonely as this guy

http://www.worldfamousart.com/Politics/SoRoneryCap.jpg

Ozme52
03-04-2008, 10:24 PM
hmmm, is it the sweat and fists and/or grappling... or is intent important too?

If so, check out the SCA... Men in armour fighting for the hand of a lady... and also attracting many who would offer themselves up as chattel to the winner.

DOMLORD
03-17-2008, 03:17 PM
i think they found erotic grafitti that refferenced women's favourite gladiators in pompeii. apperently the fantasy was to have a trained killer as a lover.

gloombunny
03-17-2008, 08:10 PM
If that's weird, then I hate to think what my lesbian-swordfighting fetish makes me.