Is a fetish for foot worship a part of BDSM?

[MrFoot123]

This is my first post so please forgive my ignorance, but I wanted to ask, is a fetish for foot worship a large, small or no part of BDSM?

I ask because I have seen pictures of this subject on the various BDSM TGP's, yet do not know if it something forum members would like to hear my views on.

For me, this is a massive fetish, which involves specific settings, shoe-types, keywords and defined actions. In truth, only a few women I have known, have ever felt able to enjoy the experience as much as myself.

Interestingly for me, I also had a different experience when I went out with a woman who turned out to be extremely submissive. She enjoyed being spanked hard and then being made to kneel and suck cock with her wrists tied behind her back. (I loved that part!)

Apart from her enjoyment of being verbally abused as she was being spanked and having sex, she sometimes insisted her hands be tied over her head, and her knees roped and pulled wide, leaving her fully exposed. This was her 'rape fantasy' and she would plead and sob, begging not to be fucked and pleading for mercy.

I couldn't believe that just putting the ropes on her could sometimes make her come, but that is what she enjoyed. We split after two years, for other non-sexual reasons, although she did say my fetish for feet was really weird.

Inside I smiled, but I know one persons fetish can be absolutely nothing to somebody else. For me, well, the amount of 'knock-backs' I received are too many to number and although I love verbal derision as a part of footworship, I hate it in rejection.

Anyway, I would love to post more on this subject, so please give me some advice on whether it would, or would not, be appropriate for me to elaborate more on this site.

Thanks!

[chelsea99]

of course a foot fetish is a part..why wouldn't it be..i have many friends who are into feet...worshipping, spanking, tickling..cumming on feet..

[MrFoot123]

Thanks Chelsea, it's just that I am into specific scenarios, one of which involves 'praying'. Maybe that's an extreme form of submission, more mind driven than physical, if you get my meaning.

[lily27]

Not specifically. There are some people who are into BDSM who also have a foot fetish. There are people into BDSM who do not. And there are people who have a foot fetish who aren't interested in BDSM in the slightest.

So one is not "a part" of the other, but they aren't mutually exclusive concepts either.

[ponytrainer12]

I assume that everyone is different on this. When I play the dominant, I use it as a wet, humiliating beginning to her oral submission. I feel more in control when I can look down on my bound slave as she slurps away at my feet. Later when she is working on my cock I am (ummm) more "distracted."

[MrFoot123]

Yes, I enjoy seeing images of partly bound women servicing a pussy or a cock, but for me it's the 'Mistress' in her dark costume and open-toe high heels that does it for me. Especially one demanding, in a stern voice, that her toes be licked. That is wonderful for me.

[chelsea99]

praying? i don't understand...forgive me..

[Tufty]

Not specifically. There are some people who are into BDSM who also have a foot fetish. There are people into BDSM who do not. And there are people who have a foot fetish who aren't interested in BDSM in the slightest.

So one is not "a part" of the other, but they aren't mutually exclusive concepts either.

Couldn't have put it better myself. I don't have a 'foot fetish' as such - but seeing a girl in high, spikey heels is a different matter ;)

There's an article on foot fetishim here (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot_fetishism) if anybody is interested

[MrFoot123]

Chelsea, sorry, yes well in one scenario, the woman decides she wants to be treated as a Goddess and 'prayed' to, before she allows me to worship her feet. The prayers depend on whatever she decides I have to say. This happened to me only once, when I thought the lady only wanted her feet licked. The end result was mind blowing. Hope this clarifies matters.

[chelsea99]

Chelsea, sorry, yes well in one scenario, the woman decides she wants to be treated as a Goddess and 'prayed' to, before she allows me to worship her feet. The prayers depend on whatever she decides I have to say. This happened to me only once, when I thought the lady only wanted her feet licked. The end result was mind blowing. Hope this clarifies matters.

ahh yes...and mmmm i like the idea of being treated like a Goddess..and having my feet worshipped..massaged whatever..sighs...thanks for clarifying that..

[Tojo]

I don't think it's necessarily related to BDSM, but as lily says it certainly can be. It does seem a pretty submissive thing to do.

BTW- welcome :)

[alpha_Straye]

Not specifically. There are some people who are into BDSM who also have a foot fetish. There are people into BDSM who do not. And there are people who have a foot fetish who aren't interested in BDSM in the slightest.

So one is not "a part" of the other, but they aren't mutually exclusive concepts either.

yep lily covered it i figure.

really this is like asking if oranges are a part of cooking- it all depends on what you're wanting to make. *smile*

[Hime]

I think that foot worship is pretty unambiguously a D/s scenario -- any sexual situation where one person is worshipping the other is hard to separate from dominance and submission.

It's not part of *my* BDSM, though, because I can't stand having my feet touched. They're way too ticklish. :( So you'd have to worship them from afar. ;)

(also, Mr.Foot, I love your avatar. What a gorgeous woman!)

[MrFoot123]

Chelsea,
It's especially good when the woman really gets off on it too! As I said, on the one time it happened to me, her enjoyment really added to my own. It was such a shame it was all so short lived. Anyway, feel free to send me the kind of words you would like to hear before a humble slave slurps on your toes. I do love to learn.

Hime,
Yes, the woman on my avatar is rather stunning. Much more so than the super-slim ladies the media will have us believe are truly beautiful. Look at her as she sits there, just demanding worship. Such a heavenly sight, well to me anyway.

[Ozme52]

I think that foot worship is pretty unambiguously a D/s scenario -- any sexual situation where one person is worshipping the other is hard to separate from dominance and submission.

It's not part of *my* BDSM, though, because I can't stand having my feet touched. They're way too ticklish. :( So you'd have to worship them from afar. ;)

(also, Mr.Foot, I love your avatar. What a gorgeous woman!)


Heh, You would be the perfect 'victim for a foot fetishist dominant. Tied, bound helplessly, legs spread and suspended... forced to submit to the oral ministrations of a dom intent on using your feet to his hearts content...



See? Any fetish can stand on its own, separate from any kind of bdsm, or it can be incorporated into the lifestyle, by subs and doms both.

Good answer lily.

[Hime]

Heh, You would be the perfect 'victim for a foot fetishist dominant. Tied, bound helplessly, legs spread and suspended... forced to submit to the oral ministrations of a dom intent on using your feet to his hearts content...


OMG, not you too!

I was messing around with one of my friends the other day and she started sucking on my toes. RIGHT AFTER I told her that I freak out if someone touches my feet. Fucking doms. :p

[Ozme52]

Laffs, I was merely discussing a hypothtical.
I like spike heels for how they make the leg look, the way the tip the ass up, and for adjusting the height of the woman...

I'm a tall man you know... ;)