Need New Public bondage Ideas

[joannah]

I was surfing looking for new ideas for bondage or play
in public.. I thought I would ask all of you for new ideas. We do
this from time to time and I wanted to hear some new ideas. Many of
ours center around casts because that is one of our fetishes. Casts
and orthopedic braces are one of the few forms of bondage that the
public can see that doesn't offend the public. That's what I'm
interesed in. Public bondage that doesn't offend the public.

Full arm casts covering all the fingers on both arms and a neck brace
for a dinner out. Your Mistress/Master has to do everything for you.
This can be combined with diapers for a humiliating public
experience. Of course having your Dom/Domme help you in the public
bathroom can be embarassing too.


A body cast attached to an arm casts (shoulder spica). This is not as
restrictive as the 1st one but it sure does get a lot of attention!

Leg casts and wheelchairs. I've also read stories about being tied
into a wheelchair, legs tied together, vibrators applied and a blanket
over the legs for a night on the town.


Ok, so any cast is restrictive and somewhat like bondage.


Watersports can be done in public too as long as the public thinks
your drinking beer or wine from that glass that your Mistress or
Master gave you.


Plugs, dildos and vibrators are always fun, and can be added to many
scenes.


Those are a few of the things we have tried. I'm curious to hear
other ideas.


joanna

[fetishdj]

You can bind breasts or balls in such a way that it is not obvious. You could consider corsetry to be a form of bondage as well. Chastity devices are another method.

Could head braces be adapted into a form of gag, perhaps?

[cadence]

I have done breast bondage with ribbons, so that really no one will second guess that I have it on. No bra with tight a shirt that isn't loose fitting, unless someone is really staring they cannot really know.

I have also worn a crotch rope set high enough with a top that barely covers and have bent over to reveal it in a public area. No one can get offended unless you are being overly flamboyant about it.

I have worn a dog collar in public, but with a top that could make it visible.
I was constantly aware of it, although I doubt others were.

[ObjectivistActivist]

Do you think wearing a collar really counts as public bondage?

[DowntownAmber]

Though not a painful or neccesarily restrictive form of bondage, I would agree with candence that, indeed, the collar in public certainly qualifies.

When I wear Master's collar out I am VERY aware of it and of its significance; more so, I think, than I would be of something that was physically more inhibiting. It's the mental aspect of the act that makes it thrilling for someone like me.

That being said, if J and I "play" in public our tastes tend to leam more towards words or phrases that are significant to us but could be taken as a passing vanilla remark by anyone that overhears. We both enjoy teasing and playing but knowing we have to wait to do anything about it. I know that strays slightly from the OP's question, as it's more mental than physical play, but I do like to keep a good thread going.

[ObjectivistActivist]

Huh. Hadn't considered that angle. I have belle wear my collar all the time, and have a more "subtle" one for when a collar isn't necessarily socially appropriate, so I equated it more with a wedding band than a bondage game. I mean, I wear my wedding ring out in public, but I'm not always poignantly aware of it or its significance.

Something for me to consider, at any rate.

[joannah]

You can bind breasts or balls in such a way that it is not obvious. You could consider corsetry to be a form of bondage as well. Chastity devices are another method.

Could head braces be adapted into a form of gag, perhaps?

Very interesting idea. I don't know how but that could be fun. I have stumbled across sites that sold braces you could apply. I wonder where you could find headgear that would force your mouth closed or open as the case may be

Joannah

[joannah]

Do you think wearing a collar really counts as public bondage?

If it is locked on, and unremoveable and restricitve enough. To the post a minute ago, a collar could be a public or private sign of submission though.

[fetishdj]

Many wear ribbons around the neck as a 'fake collar'. You can also wear jewellry that is significant - i.e. 'this ring/bracelet/necklace is a sign of your submission'. Its bondage but not physical bondage. The concept of significant words or phrases to indicate what behaviour a sub should be following is another example of this - restriction of behaviour not movement. I suppose position training is another example - give a command, sub must stand/sit/kneel in a particular way. You can have quite subtle positions that are not obvious to onlookers but which the sub knows about.

Not bondage but how about intimate body jewellry with weights on or even body jewellry (nipple, labial or clit rings) which are linked together with chains or string? Possibly a bit extreme for many but you could, for example, 'lace up' the vagina by connecting a series of labial rings with string. Both of these could be under the clothes without anyone noticing. Similarly, nipple clamps could be on under clothes but you don;t want to leave them on too long...

As for vibrators... you may want to consider dildonics. These are vibes connected to a mobile phone which activate when you get a message. The intensity and frequency of the vibe is signalled by the content of the text message.

[icey]

just a few tried and tested ideas
if you have a clit ring you could put a padlock on it the pleasure soon turns into an 'uncomfortable' reminder and can make you feel very concious especially when wearing a short skirt and no knickers.

maybe a bra with a couple of pintacks pierced through the material ..be careful how you move or bend over lol

or sellotaping your nipples down wearing a light see through blouse.

or a bit of rope bondage in your hair attached to your collar if you're wearing one or a sturdy enough choker of some description..can be done if your hairs long enough,not loose but not too tight either or you'll end up scalping yourself lol it looks good feels good and people do notice it.

a bit of rope round your toes coming up slightly above your ankles, with some light strappy shoes/sandals ..takes a lot of practice but worth it,

(on the boring side..make sure wherever you are especially if alone that anything you do is easily removable when necassary,even light forms of bondage can after a while affect your circulation.)

[SirTimothyk]

placing anal beads in either/or your pussy or anus. no panties, of course. nice short skirt....

ever been spanked in a public park? over your clothes of course....or under your skirt.....Tim

[joannah]

I've been spanked many times in public at play parties, clubs etc. Never in a vanilla setting and that is what I'm looking for in this post. I need new ideas for very kinky play without anyone but the Dom/Domme and myself knowing. The risk and thrill of getting caught are wonderful concepts, but that's actually getting caught is not the intent.

Joannah

[deigja]

Under loose clothing you can easily wear a ropeharness that makes you very very concious of your body... every movement reminds you of what you are wearing and nobody around will notice as long as the knots are placed in strategical places.. most not overly restrictive bondage will be interpreted as underwear by outsiders if you wear it the right way... also interesting is to be hobbled under a long skirt, either at ankle or knee height.. so you have to take small steps.. actually there are skirts that are kind of restrictive all by themselves because they are cut pretty tight around the knees.. all a question of interpretation.. if you and your Dom/me talk about a situation and find some sexual connotation in it it will be fun, wether or not it is something that would be rather normal in a vanillacontext or not... It has the same significance as calling each other with private Slave/Master names that make you think of your special relationship but that sound perfectly normal to vanillas ;-)

[butterflySlave4u]

if you have a clit ring you could put a padlock on it the pleasure soon turns into an 'uncomfortable' reminder and can make you feel very concious especially when wearing a short skirt and no knickers.


i have, within the past few months, actually obtained such a piercing :)

Master has suggested a small bell attached to the ring, the feel as it dangles between your thighs is a constant reminder of His presence, and also it draws attention to yourself in public....where's the jingling coming from??

[babygirl1204]

I havent read this whole thread but have you tried somehting like having both top and bottom lip pierced and have like hook rings with something connecting them together (smiles....a smile chain) for like being punished for talking back or speaking out of turn

[Hiro Protagonist]

Under loose clothing you can easily wear a ropeharness that makes you very very concious of your body)

Yes, a karada under a suitable dress is lovely... especially if the crotch rope has some really good knots at JUST the right spot... but make sure you have panties on! And ones with a significant amount of fabric in the crotch.

[joannah]

I havent read this whole thread but have you tried somehting like having both top and bottom lip pierced and have like hook rings with something connecting them together (smiles....a smile chain) for like being punished for talking back or speaking out of turn

I haven't tried that but it is an interesting idea. I don't have my lips pierced though

[ashtonDs]

If a corset seems too much like a regular piece of clothing try a rope corset. Twisted Monk shows how to tie one on:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=vnY-ZFao7nk&feature=related

Also, if the subbie is wearing long pants and sleeves, a set of rope cuffs might be fun. They can be nice and firmly tied but still not enough to cut off circulation. They would be felt as the arms and legs move and with the right kind of rope can leave some quite attractive rope marks when removed. (I love rope marks ;))

[denuseri]

lol butterfly i have a small bell for my clit ring,, sometimes we use a leather strand and tie a slightly lager bell on it to dangle between , have to extra careful or it jingles, remind me to tell yu my first gyn visit story with the bell on,

[underdog]

A correct sized padlock around the balls connected to suitable chain (the two ring ended dog choke chain is a perfect fit for me) looped over the neck and snapped into the padlock behind u.The owner has the key ect,and hides well under your shirt...Posture is acheived by the length of the chain..great fun..lol

[rce]

There are these anoraks, often with hoods, that have a pocket in the front that goes all the way through. With such an anorak, you can tuck a hand in each pocket hole and cuff them together. It would only look like the sub was walking with her hands in the anorak pockets, but since her hands are cuffed, she cannot withdraw them from there.

[livy]

they make breast binders that are not noticble, but they can be as tight or loose as you like. and a small bell attch to crotch rope works as well.

[Sir James]

I have taken my bride out in public naked and bound! She was wearing smoke colored thigh high hose with black high heels. Her wrists were in leather cuffs, locked behind her back. I had her wear a black cape which buttoned down the front. Otherwise, she was naked and bound. We have been to a couple of shopping malls like that, and even grocery shopping at Safeway. The cape pretty much hides her, except for her legs. The cape comes down to about three inches above her knees. I usually leave the bottom button, or two, undone so there are delicious flashes of nylon clad leg. I have also left a couple buttons on top open so she is showing a lttle cleavage.

I took her to a shoe store where I bought a pair of shoes while she sat next to me, naked and bound under the cape. When she sat down, the cape rode up showing a lot of leg and thigh. I left it that way. The shoe salesman got an eye full of a pair of nice legs. Of course, she was helpless to cover herself.

She is always a little nervous, but all in all we have fun with this. We can always duck into a darkened secluded area and I can get reach inside the cape and feel some delightful breasts, et al.

We have even gone to a movie theater that way. In the dark of the theater, there are all kinds of possibilities with a naked, bound lady, wearing only a cape!

JKM

[underdog]

love the cape endeavour thanks Sir James,
I've had plenty of fun with car seat belts in the past.Usually they are wonderfull for a fast restraint while you can prepare for a better position for intimacy, but don't forget that depending on the vehicle the flattening of the front seats can produce an excellent make shift rack in the location of your choice and with the rear lap belts as tentiners then your victim is not only comfortable but secure.
For us i drove into a dark woodland and did just this with all the doors open and watched quietly in the shadows lol.
Ps. practice is a good idea for a surprise lol

[ElectricBadger]

ankles shackled together beneath a long skirt (use rope to avoid too much noise).

Cut a couple holes inside the pockets of a pair of jeans or shorts, and connect cuffs inside. Looks like you're wearing bracelets with your hands in your pockets, but you can't move them.

A ping pong or golf ball held inside the mouth, covered with words in permanent ink: slave, slut, whore, bitch, fuck me, rape me -- no external gag, but obviously you can't open your mouth or speak.

Slightly less public, but more extreme in it's own way, is to be tied and naked in the trunk of a car. Particularly if master does his errands and throws things in now and then. Alternatively, the same but under a blanket in the back seat or foot area.

Similarly, placed naked in a large, empty box, a large trash container (new and clean, unless you want it otherwise, and not on a trash day) or other object, which is moved outside - into a front yard, for instance -- not allowing you to get inside until after dark. Cut holes for air and viewing fun.

Being left alone and naked in a changing room at a public store, or in a public restroom.

Wearing inappropriate garments that aren't illegally exposing can also be very humiliating in public: a bra instead of a bikini top at the beach or sunbathing, a swimsuit to a restaurant, etc. These will be taken as "odd", but are shy of offensive.

[Rowen]

For guys there is also the possibility to tie a rope behind the ball-sac (make sure circulation stays good, or even better, use a chastity tube!) attach a thin, nearly invisible string (fishing line works well) to it, pull it through his fly he is most effectivily leashed. The girl can simply knot the string to her belt and he has no choice that to follow her on the whole shopping trip - meanwhile being constantly teased and excited...There is a small chance it will be noticed, but that's really a slim chance.

[ElectricBadger]

btw, I'd love to hear if you try out any of these ideas. Quite a few of them sound pretty damn fun!