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loveperfection
06-06-2008, 10:17 AM
did getting spanked as a kid ever get anyone off?
because my parents never spanked me but i remember as a kid, like really early 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 ish really wanting to be spanked like my friends were.
Lamb2005
06-06-2008, 10:56 AM
My answer is yes and no
I didn't get many spankings from my father. His attitude was to spank as little as possible when they had to happen to really make them count. I don't ever remember being aroused by a parental spanking, but I do remember many pre-teen fantasies involving spanking, and they always turned me on.
A Very Good Question
loveperfection
06-06-2008, 11:20 AM
lol i guess that makes sense. thanks ;)
I am a huge fan of erotic spanking, but I never got spanked as a kid. Conversely, one of my friends/sometimes partners was spanked a lot as a kid, and as a result it's a hard limit for her.
i was only spanked a couple of times but yes i got off on it bigtime, although by then id already discovered if something hurt that it made me feel good and i soon discovered that certain body parts were used for more than just the bathroom :) and when one time a belt was used it hurt like hell made me cry but the minute i was sent to my room...well it dont take rocket science to work it out lol i was tied to the chair a few time too and i loved that! id get into all sorts of trouble just so i could be 'punished' and i encouraged all my friends to 'punish' me too ...i was a very imaginative child and gave a whole new meaning to the term playtime ;)
Borgs_slave
06-08-2008, 05:42 PM
My parents never spanked. I do however love them as an adult. :)
denuseri
06-08-2008, 06:40 PM
noy me, my mom slapped faces, and my dad would give me a stern talking too or grab my ear. lol it didnt turn me on but it sure got my attention
Naomisagoodgirl
06-08-2008, 11:31 PM
I got spanked as a kid but it didn't turn me on. I use to fantasize about being locked up in a cage when I was little, but I didn't fantasize about being spanked until I was much older. I think the spanking that turns me on wasn't born out of that parental spanking. It's something separate.
ThornsOverRoses
06-08-2008, 11:47 PM
Now being bent over your lovers leg and being spanked in a short skirt is a little bit different that being spanked as a child.
Pleasure, passion, erotic... whatever your reason is the difference. (Opinion)
Mastrovenice
06-09-2008, 12:13 AM
Dad spanked all of us when we got too unruly. It hardwired connection between 'love' and discipline for me, as well as felt good! Since there wasn't a lot of hugs and touching in the family, this became a model for interaction... Soon we all (two brothers and me) started to play prisoner games and explored other slave/captive roles... We all turned out kinky, though I couldn't tell you which side of the dom/sub divide they're on today.