Help! I need a few answers .... i think.

[.x.Cole.x.]

Im not going to hold back. im going to just tell it how it happened so you can maybe understand.?

ok so last night i was with my Dom. We were having sex and i was told to force out a few orgasms. i did one natuiral then had forced 3. As he kept going i said i didnt think i could do anymore., he wanted me to do some with no stimulation at all and i couldnt. i tried though. then he came back over and started to stimulate me. i had one more natural and was told to force another. For every natural i was to force one. the last time i did i had an intense pain surge from my lower back down my left leg. at that point i wasnt able to talk and all. the pain was unbearable i just start cryin and try to contain myself enough to stay concious. i was so scared. he was freakin out tellin me to look at him and not let my eyes roll but they kept doing. i was cold and shivering. what the hell happened to me?!

is it possible to have a forced orgaasm with no stimulation?

was i just over done and exhausted?

i hurt still. my leg still has moments where my nerves pinch. im scared.

[Wordsmith]

It sounds to me that you just over strained. A few days rest should help. If in 3 or 4 days it's not better the I would go see a doctor. It sounds like you just over did it and need to rest.

[issyrj]

This sounds like sciatic nerve. Perhaps you twisted wrong during one of your many intense orgasms and something pinched. Pretty much any time there is a shooting pain it is going to involve the nerves. Now the big question is what caused it.
My slave has had many problems with sciatic nerves over the years, and what has helped her is chiropractic care and yoga. She does yoga at least once a week and sees a snap-crackle-pop Doc whenever she feels tightness or pain in her back or hips. If I were you I would go to a regular doctor first and see what they say, then go to a chiropractor. The Chiropractic Doctors that we have seen seem to be under the impression that you can just grab someone and twist like hell to fix all of life's problems. A GP doc will probably give you anti-inflammatory pain ***** first to reduce any inflammation and swelling that could be pinching the nerves.

The not being able to talk for a bit - probably related to the intense pain you suffered. Same thing happens during that moment of silence after smashing your finger in a door, or stubbing your toe in the dark on a chair leg. :28:

Take it easy for a couple of days, don't try to overdo anything. If you don't feel improvement in the next few days go see a doctor. Hopefully it is nothing serious and will correct itself with rest.

[thrall]

Hugs...im sorry you are in pain

It does indeed sound like a sciatic nerve thing...you may have twisted or strained to hard trying to force the orgasm.

If the pain does not get better soon......i would highly suggest seeing a doctor...even if all he says is the same them you see here....


Is it possible to have a forced orgasm with no stimulation?.....simple answer...yes.

You may come to a point that you will come on command.......

[Warbaby1943]

Im not going to hold back. im going to just tell it how it happened so you can maybe understand.?

ok so last night i was with my Dom. We were having sex and i was told to force out a few orgasms. i did one natuiral then had forced 3. As he kept going i said i didnt think i could do anymore., he wanted me to do some with no stimulation at all and i couldnt. i tried though. then he came back over and started to stimulate me. i had one more natural and was told to force another. For every natural i was to force one. the last time i did i had an intense pain surge from my lower back down my left leg. at that point i wasnt able to talk and all. the pain was unbearable i just start cryin and try to contain myself enough to stay concious. i was so scared. he was freakin out tellin me to look at him and not let my eyes roll but they kept doing. i was cold and shivering. what the hell happened to me?!

is it possible to have a forced orgaasm with no stimulation?

was i just over done and exhausted?

i hurt still. my leg still has moments where my nerves pinch. im scared.I won't play doctor but I will tell you this, with proper training a sub can be made to cum just by being ordered to without any stimulation what-so-ever.

What makes these types of orgasms great is the fact that once trained your Dom could tell you to cum for him now and no matter where you are you would have to obey because you would be conditioned to do so. Imagine the possibilities of trying to hide your orgasms from the public's eye.

Believe me I know this is possible and I have only had on line relationships, yet by listening to my recorded voice she had no choice but to cum for me in the middle of a shopping mall when she was ordered to listen to the recording.

[.x.Cole.x.]

hey thanks for letting me know. i have been looking to talk with someone who has been there to experience it and could tell me what was up. im finally walking now but that was intense.

[denuseri]

just be careful sis, orgasm control conditioning, or what my owner calls "cum training" is a longer proccess than many people realize, it should be done slowly in small increments

the pain does sound like a pinched nerve caused from the sometimes violent spasms experienced during ,,, make sure yu stay plenty hydrated and limber, i reccomend tantric meditation and yoga for the mental and physical asspects of those that are attempting to achieve full orgasm control,

it can be a very wonderful and rewarding experience if done correctly if you ever need any help feel free to ask boo, ive been there, winks

hugs and kissess

[Warbaby1943]

just be careful sis, orgasm control conditioning, or what my owner calls "cum training" is a longer proccess than many people realize, it should be done slowly in small increments

Actually I think this is as individual as everything else is. I have found it to be a very easy process not requiring much time at all without even trying hard. However, I am certain that is not the case for everyone. Actually I feel confident in saying that not every one can be trained to cum on demand. Again, everybody is different but it seems she already has a start on this training and may find it easy to cum when she hears a certain permission word issued by her Master. I say permission word because that is one way to help in the training by not allowing any orgasms without hearing her permission word. That in itself can help condition her to only cum when that word is issued, thus aiding in the training of cumming on demand. I don't know how thrall was trained but I know the method I just briefly described works great.

[fetishdj]

From what I have seen, cum training of this type is basically a form of classic conditioning. You switch the physical stimulus for another one, i.e. you swap the food (the clitoral stimulus) for a bell (the command) and the dog salivates (the lady cums).

However, humans, unlike dogs, have a little more resilience to this sort of thing so as stated it will take time. Conscious control is stronger (though this is largely offset by the subs consent) and there are other complications in the human psyche

If your Master wants to achieve this sort of thing he needs to start by associating the command with both the physical act and the pleasure - i.e. he needs to do both at once. Then you remove the physical in slow stages (less and less stimulation) and if at any point you lose the orgasm go back to the previous step.

[Snark]

While I have had superb results from the "right" "back cracker", having had more than my share of sciatic issues you might try an accomplished deep theraputic massage therapist. The hour or so of decompression can work wonders!