New, & asking for online training/ relationship advice

[darlingUK]

Hi,

I am quite new to the site, but have been discussing with my boyfriend the possibility of online training for me with an experinced Dom, or of similar virtual experiences (real life could be possible much later on), and was hoping that someone could give me some advice on how to go about this.

Should I start a thread saying that I'm seeking? (If so where?) Are there any general tips taht anyone can give me who has been in an online relationship?

Any advice eagerly sought, and greatly appreciated!

kisses,

darling UK
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[denuseri]

Well sis, i am sure you will find no end to dominants that are willing to help you in this.

The main problem will be filtering the good ones from that bad.

Just make sure "saftey" first boo.

We have a "personels" section to make an add, to help you find that special someone.

Myself I just go to the chat room, and get to know the dominants one on one by talking to them and such before I initiate any kind of more intimate conversation or engadeing in any online play directly (me following orders at home given over the computer). Comunication is key. Establishing hard limits and safe words etc takes time.

Placeing your desires in your profile is also a good way to "advertise".

I dont reccomend jumping in too deep with any one dominant to begin with. Explore and keep your options open, shop around. Find the "right" dominant for your and your boyfriends needs. One that is going to respect your real life arrangments and not try to push your man out of the picture.

Feel free to pm myself or my owner Kuskovian if you have any questions or conserns.

We take mentorship of my sisters under the whip very seriously and are allways willing to help.