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MissConfused
10-09-2008, 08:44 AM
I enjoy searching for BDSM websites on the internet
On one site they showed a drawing of a women with her body tied with rope
The style was Japanese and the ropes ran between her legs up to her shoulders
She was wrapped as if she was in a spiderweb
The command said she was to get dressed and wear the ropes in public
When I saw the drawing it was very clear that her clothing would cover the ropes
Has anyone ever worn ropes under their clothing in public?
Yes. However the shoulders were not involved but the rope did run between the legs...or to be more exact: between the lips. And there were knots in the rope running between the legs, were you would expect them to be ;)
It was both rather humiliating and ... ummm ... arousing at the same time.
deigja
10-09-2008, 08:53 AM
yes I have, not a complicated ropeharness but a crotchrope... its great If you feel it all the time and yyou know nobody would imagine what you are wearing underneath
yes I have, not a complicated ropeharness but a crotchrope... its great If you feel it all the time and yyou know nobody would imagine what you are wearing underneath
umm, although i "knew" that nobody would imagine what i was wearing underneath the skirt, my mind still told me they all know just about everything about it :rolleyes:
MissConfused
10-09-2008, 08:58 AM
Are you able to walk in a normal fashion?
Is your face flushed all the time
Sometimes I wear a crotch rope when I am alone at home
I do enjoy it
I feel my face burning the whole time
fetishdj
10-09-2008, 09:02 AM
I have also worn ropes in public under clothes, though not as extensive as you describe. I have had my balls tied with rope under clothes and it is awkward to walk and you are aware of things sticking out a lot.
MissConfused
10-09-2008, 09:06 AM
fetishdj did you injure yourself?
Ocassionally I cause my husband pain by licking and sucking his "boys" too hard
i enjoy wearing it outdoors :) generally its breast harnesses, crotch harness although i have worn a kikkou in public (the description you gave in your OP sounds like the kikkou aka tortoise shell tie) although it was adapted so my legs and arms were free.
the girl in the pic would not be able to stay outdoors for very long in that particular tie!
ive also worn a single wrap harness with a butterfly knot on my clit which first started out very pleasant but soon became a little painful :)
MissConfused
10-09-2008, 10:21 AM
Does anyone ever notice the ropes under your clothes?
Do you ever wish someone would notice the ropes?
fetishdj
10-09-2008, 01:53 PM
No injuries no... they were just tight enough to be noticeable but not enough to do any damage. I have quite resiliant genitals anway :)
MissConfused
10-09-2008, 02:00 PM
fetishdj when you say you have resiliant genitals are you saying your boys are hard and leathery?
Shouldn't they be warm and lickable?
(god did I just say that?)
Logic1
10-10-2008, 03:47 AM
I had my ex with a ropeharness on downtown for an evening dinner and another time just with a crotchrope. No you couldnt see it but naturally you need to adjust the clothing a bit. Too tight and it WILL show. No no side effects unless you count great sex afterwards that ;)
painslut4him
10-10-2008, 02:40 PM
Master has often had this slave wear a crotch rope under her clothing in public. Some time ago, he switched it to a cunt-chain. The cunt-chain serves as his "collar" for this slave and the cold firm links serve as a constant reminder of his ownership.
orchidsoul
10-10-2008, 04:15 PM
I've worn rope under clothing as well.
It was noticeable to me in the breast ropes because, well, I have an ample bosom. My rope bra was of a strapless variety, therefore my breasts took on a slightly different shape (aka my breasts looked ginormous and heaved outwards). I wore a loose sweater and I think some folks might have double took though not sure if they recognized why I appeared as such.
*note on safety- you run the risk of damage to keep a rope tight around the breast for more than 10-15 min.*
The crotch rope, unless you're wearing tight or fitted pants, is harder to detect. Skirts work well.
Karada is a great full body rope harness to wear for a duration, or at least that style 'bra' up top.
mmmm rope how I love thee
denuseri
10-10-2008, 04:49 PM
ahhhhhhhh rope, i love the feel of it on my flesh
sometimes i am privelged to be allowed to wear it under my clothes when i go to work or school. we sometimes go to the beach while i have a bit of rope around each wrist and each ankle as if they were braceletts
I had an especially wonderful treat when my owner took me out recently in a more public venue and i was bound for all to see, my favorite was when we went to a not so local goth/punk club that also served food with my arms tied behind my back in an Ushiro Takatekote (arm box tie), while i was collared and leashed. He fed me by hand and everything it was a blast
collared_kitten75
10-10-2008, 06:58 PM
Mistress has been making me wear a cock harness of late (not exactly rope), but there are definitely issues of noticibility. I feel like it makes me walk funny and "stick out." I'm constantly adjusting my pants to better hide it. Of course all of this is complicated by the too loud bell that Mistress clips to the D-ring at the tip of my penis.
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cadence
10-10-2008, 07:56 PM
I've worn a body harness, crotch rope and a makeshift bra out of rope.
Some of the breast bondage and the crotch rope were made to reveal just a tiny bit when I was out in public. That was the point of me wearing it though. I didn't mind much, until I saw someone actually notice it.
I have also used saran wrap as an alternative to bra and panties, and have used duct tape.
I don't recommend either, unless you plan to wear it for a short period of time
AdrianaAurora
10-11-2008, 02:09 AM
Hubby thinks practicing Shibari is an artistic outlet, lol. So the answer to your question is yes, I have worn it in public. We are not into (public) humiliation, so it was done in such a way that there was almost a zero chance of exposure. At first it is exciting, but as time goes by I can even forget I am wearing it, then a little movement reminds me - and I cant wait for Him to take me home, lol.
Hi sweetie. I really like all of you questions! You know thaare are no silly questions, only silly answers.
As I'm a dom... I of course haven't worn rope in public. But I've often had my slaves do it. It's very easy to make a nice and tight "body" bondage that cannot be seen. But it's of course also possible to make it clear for all that she's tied. As I'm into public humiliation it's my favorite.
But it can be make "mental" bondage. Another of my favorites are the invisible handcuffs. As there isn't such a thing, or nobody just haven't found them yet. It's all in your mind, as you have to act and behave as your hands are cuffed together. If it's forgotten the result will of course be a very hot and sore butt.
hiiro
10-11-2008, 03:08 AM
Yes. Whenever I'm around my Mistress in both public and private life, I am to always wear a crotch rope.
MissConfused
10-11-2008, 09:20 AM
Hubby thinks practicing Shibari is an artistic outlet, lol. So the answer to your question is yes, I have worn it in public. We are not into (public) humiliation, so it was done in such a way that there was almost a zero chance of exposure. At first it is exciting, but as time goes by I can even forget I am wearing it, then a little movement reminds me - and I cant wait for Him to take me home, lol.
Adriana do you know where I can go to learn Shibari?
Is it possible to bind yourself with this tecnique?
I would love to try it out in public
here's a couple of links.
tatu if you've not already heard of him is a well respected rope Master and definately worth taking a look at.... http://www.ds-arts.com/siteindex.html
the guy who runs this site is an excellent rigger and a great teacher, i wouldnt recommend him if he wasnt.
check it out he has some great links too.
http://www.touwtjes.tk/links_e.html#tutorials
you could try looking up midori, the two knotty boys and esinem too
the best tutorials etc are by randai mai, however it is pretty costly but if you're serious well worth the money.
there are many courses out there, but be careful, look around and do plenty of research before you decide on one.