Found His MySpace Webpage

[mic8565]

I am a new sub and experiencing some mixed emotions. i am currently searching for a new job and did a search on myself to ensure that i am not "out there" for potential employers. I decided to search to see if my Master had a MySpace account as well. I found that He does indeed have an account and one of His "friends" happens to be 10 mins from His job site. It appears that she had moved from Indiana to 10 mins from His work site.

Is this a concern?

[hopperboo]

I don't understand what you are asking.

Should what be a concern? Him cheating?

[snowflake]

I don't understand what you are asking.

Should what be a concern? Him cheating?

i am with you hopper.. so she moves within 10 mins.. that doesn't mean there is something there .. maybe you are hopping to conclusions??? {sorry for the pun}

and is this ony an on line relationship you and your Master have or is this one that is leading to you living together or are you living together?

very confused on where this is going .. so many lose ends not explained..

snow

[blythe spirit]

I think I understand what you are asking, but without more information how can anyone answer your question?

More than likely, you know the answer, or you wouldn't have asked in the first place.

[mic8565]

Sorry about the lack of information. I wanted to know if I should have a concern if....He tells me there is no one else. I can't help myself of having this vision of this other woman just 10 mins from his office and she is indeed something on the side. Or perhaps I am the something on the side. Lack of trust on my part?

[Little Man]

If he's your Master surely he must be allowed to see who he likes. Even if that causes you to curl up inside. If he is your partner as well then that may be different, it depends how you and he see your D/s relationship. My previous Dominant often used to talk to others and tease me with it. To be honest, I got very jealous to the point that I had it out with her. It was all part of the learning process for me. But if in doubt, talk to him. Good luck.

[blythe spirit]

If he's your Master surely he must be allowed to see who he likes. Even if that causes you to curl up inside. If he is your partner as well then that may be different, it depends how you and he see your D/s relationship. My previous Dominant often used to talk to others and tease me with it. To be honest, I got very jealous to the point that I had it out with her. It was all part of the learning process for me. But if in doubt, talk to him. Good luck.

Really, I don't know how the M/s thing works, but I would think that such things as this should be discussed prior to enterting into a relationship. If he had told her he was going to see/play with others, it should have been her choice whether or not to continue with him. And he's telling her there's no one else.

Lack of trust on your part, mic? Perhaps! However, there's a lot of players in the world. I once did something very devious to learn whether or not a Dominant was for real or not. I learned that he wasn't. He was a player and one of the biggest liars I had ever met, and damn good at it.

Was what I did ethical - probably not, but I saved myself a lot of future heartache so, to hell with ethics!

[denuseri]

Without trust and respect there is no relationship to begin with.

I don't know you or your man, so I can't judge weather or not you should be conserned, yet, the fact that you are asking us in the first place speaks volumes as to weather you think it should be.

Better to find out now than wait and become another victum of a BS artist.

The dominant that wants to fool around on the side should lay that on the table up front or stay out of the game.

Taking responsibility for the life of another human being is nothing casual.