View Full Version : Sodomy, sex or submission?
MissConfused
10-29-2008, 01:36 PM
Someone asked this wonderful question in the chatroom
Do you think sodomy is sex or is it a slave submitting to a master?
Ozme52
10-29-2008, 02:16 PM
Sodomy is sex. Plain and simple.
Now... how you feel when you do it, especially if you mostly do it to specifically please your master, says whether or not it is also a submissive act.
hopperboo
10-29-2008, 02:21 PM
Sodomy is sex. Plain and simple.
Now... how you feel when you do it, especially if you mostly do it to specifically please your master, says whether or not it is also a submissive act.
Yup. I agree with Ozme.
Muskan
10-29-2008, 02:29 PM
^
and I agree with both of you!
Pearlgem
10-29-2008, 02:33 PM
Yup, what else is there to say?
guest010609
10-29-2008, 02:35 PM
Sodomy is sex. Plain and simple.
Now... how you feel when you do it, especially if you mostly do it to specifically please your master, says whether or not it is also a submissive act.
Perfect! I agree with you. How about if you both enjoy it equally, but the slave would do it to please her Master, regardless? In that case I vote for- it's both.
FatherTimejr
10-29-2008, 02:53 PM
I agree. And I believe it can be both ^
Soaul
10-29-2008, 02:56 PM
it is either or both.
Diablo
10-29-2008, 03:01 PM
What they said.
leah06
10-29-2008, 03:35 PM
Sex.
sculptured_illusion
10-29-2008, 04:07 PM
actually i think it could be both... submission comes in all different forms...
but lets face it... sometimes its overly nice for a primal fuck there too
subserviant
10-29-2008, 04:20 PM
its sex alright but done in a sub dom situation it can be a sub submitting to her dom
meeker
10-29-2008, 04:30 PM
Depends on the people and the situation,could be just anal sex,could be a submissive submitting herself to her Dominant
Pearlgem
10-29-2008, 04:40 PM
Sex.
Or submission.
Have I reached 1,000 posts yet?
Ozme52
10-29-2008, 04:55 PM
When you're right... It's good to be first. :D
Pearlgem
10-29-2008, 05:46 PM
Or last.
Pearlgem
10-29-2008, 05:47 PM
66, 67, 68....
Pearlgem
10-29-2008, 05:48 PM
Hey! I got a 69 there!
Snigger
fellintobed
10-29-2008, 06:49 PM
Sodomy is sex. Plain and simple.
Now... how you feel when you do it, especially if you mostly do it to specifically please your master, says whether or not it is also a submissive act.
I completely disagree with this statement!!!!
Oh wait, no I don't. I agree with it, like everyone else. Well stated, Ozme.
Flaming_Redhead
10-29-2008, 07:39 PM
I agree with Oz. For me, sodomy is just sex, plain and simple. I enjoy anal sex, so I don't "submit" to it. Hell, I have even been known to initiate it. On the other hand, if I was topping a submissive male and decided to take his virgin ass, that would be a submissive act for him. Once we discovered whether or not he enjoyed it, I could then decide if any further sodomy was just sex or whether he was submitting solely for my pleasure.
The short answer is "yes". Sex can be a D/s act or it can be just sex.
But... a lot of people, both men and women, tend to think of ass fucking as subjection and degradation. I'm aware that it can be as loving and sharing as PIV, but I've never encountered it in any other context than BDSM, because I only relate to men that way. So for me, it's all domination.
HelenaKitten
10-30-2008, 12:12 PM
It's just sex...well most of the time. As said in previous posts depending on the situation it can be great sex or submission.
>.> for me it's more of submission! WOOO!
rsjankowski
10-30-2008, 03:52 PM
when it's that easy for one person to answer and all others to agree with him, what can i say, i agree too. it's both, only difference is the context in which it's done.
Pearlgem
10-30-2008, 06:22 PM
After hours of deep reflection, I've changed my mind.
Ozme52
10-30-2008, 08:33 PM
LOL. No!! You haven't!!
What's a dom got to do to keep you in line pearlgem? :rolleyes:
Buttfuck ya? ;)
:D
Pearlgem
10-31-2008, 10:49 AM
LOL. No!! You haven't!!
What's a dom got to do to keep you in line pearlgem? :rolleyes:
Buttfuck ya? ;):D
Buttfucking.....arousing.....yet dominating......
confusion!!!...confusion!!!....does not compute......must turn self off, erase memory, start again......
Piff!
There, that's better. Now, where am I? Let's see...BDSM Library? How charming. I love a nice read. Wonder what BDSM stands for.................... .................................................. .................................................. ....
People do WHAT??????
denuseri
10-31-2008, 10:56 AM
Personally I just love submitting (winks) to being fucked hard as hell up the ass.
Blushes,, did I say that? Covers my potty mouth with my naughty fingers. lol
guest010609
10-31-2008, 06:08 PM
Just wanted to add... today???-- Submission. LOL.
rsjankowski
10-31-2008, 06:23 PM
:camera2:if not today then when would be a good time? i'm sure there are plenty to accomodate. :camera2:
Arria
10-31-2008, 07:03 PM
It can be both.
It depends on how itīs done.
blythe spirit
10-31-2008, 07:53 PM
Okay, I'm gonna come in here and be technical. Sodomy is either oral or anal copulation and copulation is "sexual" intercourse; therefore, sodomy is sex. Whilst there's a negative connotation attached to the word, seems that folks were enjoying both the giving and receiving of anal sodomy since bibical times and probably before.
Is it thought to be a submissive act because of the subordinate position? If so, then even entering the vagina from behind would be a submissive act, no?
Pearlgem
10-31-2008, 07:57 PM
Can't believe this thread is getting so much mileage. I blame people like me.
Rowdy
11-02-2008, 03:39 PM
isn't it sexual submission?
whenever I ride a gf from behind they always suffer pain and bleeding
she always seems to get off from it
I've never sodomized anyone who didn't give their full consent
It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.
Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it? :D
Ozme52
11-05-2008, 03:59 PM
It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.
Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it? :D
Certainly not from his perspective. :rolleyes:
But yeah Hime. That's hot from the top.
sinderella
11-09-2008, 08:24 PM
Someone asked this wonderful question in the chatroom
Do you think sodomy is sex or is it a slave submitting to a master?
submission and discipline.
his_girl_l
11-09-2008, 08:44 PM
i can only enjoy it in a submissive context.
When i've tried it in a vanilla relationship it just hurt. A lot, and not in a nice way.
But as submission it feels totally different to me, and a lot nicer.
Well, nice might be the wrong word. But much more enjoyable anyway!
sassy75
11-11-2008, 05:07 PM
Love Love Love anal!!! I don't know why I wasn't doing it YEARS ago. Have only been doing it about a year now and wow. Awesome!!!! I don't see it as an act of submission since I love it so much. But, in a BDSM sort of way, I guess it could be an act of submission if a Dom really wanted it and was willing to take my ass forcefully ;)
TwistedTails
11-11-2008, 05:26 PM
Sex or submission? Either or both all according to my mood at the time.