Looking for ideas to do while starting a bdsm relationship

[chinwan]

My husband and I are thinking about starting a bdsm relationship, with me being the dom. In order to experiment with it, we are going to start off with one night him listening to me whatever I tell him to do.
The problem is, as of now, he does alot. So I am looking for Ideas for what I can tell him to do. (In bed and around the house, but espeially in bed).
We established that the harder/ more reluctant he will be to do them, the better.
So I am looking for some good ideas for the first night, and if all things go well, then for other nights as well. I guess the first night should be to ease him into it, but not to slowly of course.

THanks

[boo]

put make-up on him- feminise him a little. make him your sissy.

[beldonna]

Have him do absolutely everything on his knees. Instruct him to remove your shoes when you walk in the door and hello Mistress.

[Laila]

Hm... I probably don't know what I am talking about - but why don't you let it come naturally? I once tried to make it work with a Dom who used lots of tricks and planned it all and it didn't work for me... it seemed so forced and not real.
My Master now lets things come slow, he adds one thing at a time when it feels right and it makes me really happy. Plus it always keeps me on my toes as to what he has left up his sleeve.

[frostbite99]

i agree the more natural things feel the more both u and ur husband will enjoy it, if it feels to planned things can feel awkward,

let it come naturally, u will find ur footing, as a first time dom myself, i find the more relaxed u feel and the more natural the athmosphere, the more u will want him to do things u want