TwstdKittie
11-11-2008, 02:13 AM
Alright, just a bit of gushing because I am THRILLED!!
So for years now, I've occasionally had to try to explain to people (both people I dated and people who just had a question about it) the nature of being a submissive. I mean, what it means to me and what I look for in a dom. It's not too complicated if you get it. But I hadn't been able to figure out if anyone would ever just "get it."
Well, tonight, my boyfriend (who, in my opinion is the guy I've always loved and always wanted, but just recently found) pretty much summed up what it means to ME in about a paragraph. It was exactly what I was looking for, and exactly what I'd tried to explain for YEARS! I was astonished. I still can't believe he said it, the way he said it, the words he used, any of it. I have wanted for so long to feel that I was the best sub I could be and I think I can finally feel that way! : )
So for years now, I've occasionally had to try to explain to people (both people I dated and people who just had a question about it) the nature of being a submissive. I mean, what it means to me and what I look for in a dom. It's not too complicated if you get it. But I hadn't been able to figure out if anyone would ever just "get it."
Well, tonight, my boyfriend (who, in my opinion is the guy I've always loved and always wanted, but just recently found) pretty much summed up what it means to ME in about a paragraph. It was exactly what I was looking for, and exactly what I'd tried to explain for YEARS! I was astonished. I still can't believe he said it, the way he said it, the words he used, any of it. I have wanted for so long to feel that I was the best sub I could be and I think I can finally feel that way! : )