Need suggestions and advice

[cameronlcaley]

Hi,

I just entered into a NSA relationship with someone that is into D/s. She said she is a sub and wants me to learn how to be a dom. I am a curious cat and am interested in exploring this new area of sexuality.

I am looking for advice on what to do, how to act, and so on and so forth. PLease assist me in this new endeavor.

Cameron

[jeanne]

Okay, I'll be stupid...what's "NSA"?

[blythe spirit]

I'm pretty sure, NSA = No Strings Attached, jeanne.

Welcome to the BDSM community and the Library. There are more learning threads here than you'll even need. So my advice is to read, read, read.

[frostbite99]

as i first time dom myself i have found that the best way to get advice is to just read what other people are doing, get some ideas on how u think u might procceed in you own relationship, if u feel like u want to be in charge of this sub, then start by bein forceful with her, let her call u master and the rest will come naturally, my best advice to new people is to take things naturally, plan a safeword so u can fully explore both your limits without things becoming awkward, communication between doms and subs is important so talk to each other about what u each want and go from there,

best of luck with the lifestyle and enjoy =)