How to give the BEST blow job?

[redEva]

OK! Yeah, I know – it is not pure BDSM, but still, one of the never ending mysteries ( for me at least ;)). Not that anyone complained so far (not that I would admit even if they had :p) but… apart from the all around fantasy of deep throating (and that one too – if someone could enlighten me – how exactly do you manage to do it for extended period of time without evacuating last few meals?! :confused: ) and some other imaginary always-in-the-story described actions - what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.

And… just by-the-way did you ever tried blowing strong raspberries on His balls? :[

[Jones, Nikka]

… apart from the all around fantasy of deep throating (and that one too – if someone could enlighten me – how exactly do you manage to do it for extended period of time without evacuating last few meals?!) and some other imaginary always-in-the-story described actions - what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.[

The secret, in my humble opinion, is Location! location! location! It may take more than a few tries, but if you manage to find the most sensitive part of his penis and massage it with the softest part of your tongue, you could keep him on the verge of orgasm until kingdom come.
Contrary to popular belief, blowing or sucking with lips sealed around the shaft do not give the man any more pleasure than licking and massaging. I have been told that my hot breath on his erection as I tried to speak without letting him out of my mouth was a very sexy detail.

Once, after reading a story here in bdsmlibrary called High-Heeled Hell, F and I decided to try a bit of breath play during oral sex. Like in the story, a rope was wound around my neck with a metal ring handle that could be twisted to control my breath as I went down on him. The whole thing sounds very exciting on paper but I was not in the mood for passing out from the pain and besides F happens to be a safety freak so the rope was tied in a non-constricting, no-slip manner and he barely touched it during play. He did say it made me look very helpless and sexy. I was so turned on by the idea of being strangled as he fucked my mouth that I was holding my breath all by myself without the rope really chocking me. I had two orgasms by the time he came inside my mouth.
And of course, all men find it incredibly arousing to see me us girls swallow.

[Gallardo]

Strong raspberries on his balls??? Care to enlighten me =P

[lilli]

what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.

This is not strictly in the BDSM line of things but someone I 'knew' loved the alternate sensations of hot and cold while getting a blow job, the secret is a hot cup of something (tea, coffee, Water etc) a couple of ice cubes and of course teeth that are not sensitive!!

The alternate sensations of hot and cold used to drive him absolutly wild! :)

[redEva]

Strong raspberries on his balls??? Care to enlighten me :p

you know how kids blow "raspberries"? well, have your partner put their lips firmly against your balls and than do that = blow raspberries, but not gently, strong ;) . I've been told it sort of tickles, kind of like from inside :D

[mmmmmmm]

Well, I haven't been able to get past having a strong gag reflex, so I can't help with that one, but I'm happy to pass along what else I've learned ...

* Loving having a cock in your mouth, admiring it, inspecting it visually, kissing it reverently ... well, enthusiasm in general seems to go a long way.

*For me, kneeling between His legs works best. I am most comfortable there, can get good access to everything and I don't get a backache from it ... so I can keep at it much longer from this position.

* Nikka is right about location, location, location. That place underneath where the head meets the shaft (whatever that's called) ... mmmmmmm ... that seems to be the golden spot. Lightly licking and kissing there ... rubbing your lips there ... that always seems to yield a variety of groans and moans.

* With your perfectly manicured, ladylike nails, gently hold the shaft while you are doing something a bit naughty like glossing your lips with precum ...

* Alternately kiss and lick the underbelly of the shaft -- trace a vein with the tip of your tongue. I'm quite a licker in general ... up the shaft, over the balls, under the balls, over the head ... I give more of a lickjob ...

* Since I can't really deep throat, I tend to hold the base of the shaft and squeeze/jerk a bit when I finally do get to sucking and bobbing on the head (if it ever gets that far ... ) Or, sometimes I just keep my mouth open with the cockhead at my lips as I jerk Him off, milking the cum into my open mouth (or other places).

I'd still like to figure out how to deep throat someday ... I have this fantasy of being able to take a cock all the way in and swallowing on it to make my throat tight on it ... mmmmmmm ... someday ... :)

[Gallardo]

Interesting, thanks Eva.

[redEva]

Hehe…. Yeah, sensitive spots, the line from under the tip all the way to the ass… yeah, nice tingling spots.

And, yes the bloody gag reflex…. Now, there is something that works for me: if I’m high enough (sexually aroused that is – not on illegal substances ;)) I swear I could swallow the horse (ok maybe a little exaggeration – but you get the picture). There is a trick to it … lay on your back on the bed and let your head fall down over the edge. You will be spread and exposed to your lover to play with you as he might. Your throat will be nice and open, too, so when you are ready – he can drive it home! Word of caution: have your hand handy by his balls or… the deep throating play will turn into breath play ;)

[Lord Thomas]

For those who like hot and cold sensations, a few suggestions...
Wintergreen, Pepermint Life Savers; and/or Cinnamon Altoids.

Oh and of course there are poprocks... ;)



Of course breath play makes the whole thing much better. Nothing like feeling the throat beneathe your bare fingers as you slide in and out...

And there is always, for those who can't do the breath play, try holding a switchblade to that pretty throat while you use it.




Just a few of my personal favorite suggestions, now open wide ladies....

~LT~

[Katmandu]

Honestly, my Lord; from true experience or written/ imagined fantasy?

[Lord Thomas]

Katz, it does say Knowledge Base on the top of the page, not fantasy. ;)

[Barton]

Glad to see Pop Rocks get mentioned. And the most important thing of all No teeth!!

Barton

[Driveslikeagirl]

So glad to see this topic brought up. If only men knew how much women wanted to learn how to give absolutely perfect blow jobs!

That damn gag reflex! They taught us in nursing school (for different purposes of course) to tell patients to breathe through their nose, but that doesn't completely make the gag reflex magically disappear...

I've read a lot online that men like gentle play with the balls during a blow job, but I have yet to meet one in person who would admit it, let alone give pointers.

And why do men so like women to swallow? Hey, I'm all for it if the man likes it. But my question is, are there some men out there who either don't care, or who are actually repulsed by a woman who swallows?

[sweetplymate]

Glad to see Pop Rocks get mentioned. And the most important thing of all No teeth!!

Barton

*lol* i think this may be a matter of opinion for some as i was always taught this until now...my Master loves teeth used on both cock and balls....must admit NOT using them is a hard habit to break...gonna have to be careful too if i ever end up having to move on in life to another partner ;) good thing right now that isnt an issue...

as far as the gag reflex issue...i have found for me anyway that practice really does make perfect :p the more we play around with the deep throating the easier it has gotten for me, though i dont think my gag reflex will ever entirely go away...i have also found though, that even tho i gag i dont ever feel like i will actually throw up...

RedEva's suggestion of laying with ones head over the edge of a bed works wonders as well!

[MrJerseyGuy]

I don't know that it works for everyone...and I have no "first hand" knowledge other than educating a few ex-girlfriends who appreciated the advice...

But if you keep swallowing...or trying to swallow, it will stop the gag reflex at least temporarily. And the sensation feels good to your partner...a kind of "massage". You can start out taking it all the way down for a short amount of time, but you'll find that you'll soon be able to give a world class deep throat! (Practice makes perfect!)

This is the technique medical professionals use when they have to put a tube down someone's throat who is conscious. They always instruct the patient to keep trying to swallow. It seems to work.

Best of luck

[myri_SN]

SN says if i use teeth that would be a one way ticket home for me :(
guess he don't like teeth...
but my problem is if somethign touches my tongue my stomach turns upside down, that isn't quite as bad anymore but i still can't move my tongue or the same happens. :(

[slavelucy]

Oh and of course there are poprocks... ;)

Oh yeah, someone (i forget who) mentioned pop rocks to me once, they sound kinda cool, sadly, we don't have them over here.

As for the ideal BJ - heh, tricky....in my experience most guys seem to really go for the whole deep throat thing...as for how you do it, i find that the swallowing thing that MrJG advises works pretty well, combined with some serious application of mind over matter.

sl

[myri_SN]

i read once that the perfect training for blowjobs would be eating magnum icecreams. hmm i just wonder..... cause i first bite all the chocolate off then take bites off the rest.... :p anything wrong wif dat?? bats eyelashes and looks even more innocent than i am. :D
ic an remember that the first time i mentioned that in chat i got a few 'BITCH' replies and some men just went really quiet. i wonder why :confused: :rolleyes:

[slavelucy]

i read once that the perfect training for blowjobs would be eating magnum icecreams.

LOL! Ah, now, that's the sort of training little luce would happily live with! :p

i have quite sensitive reeth though, so i tend to just suck the whole thing (i'm still talking about icecreams)..it takes quite a while.

See, now all this has put me seriously in the mood for one...

*goes to listen out for ice cream van* ("i'm only after your choc ices good fellow" :D )

sl

[Pandora's Box]

I've loved reading this topic. :D

My tricks:

I can't do the deep throat thing either, although Jersey I might have to try your trick next time I get the chance. ;) Instead, I have made sure to use my hand in tandem with my lips and tongue.

Butterfly licks up the ridge on the underside of his shaft. Basically, flicking your tongue alternating up each side of the ridge.

While he's full in my mouth, I like to make eye contact and "smile" (well as best as possible with a mouth full of cock LOL) with an impish look in my eyes.

And Barton, some guys do like teeth. :D However, it has to be gentle. I have found through my "adventures" ;) that many men have greatly enjoyed a light "scrape" much to their own surprise. Trick is to treat the skin of the penis as if it is fine parchment paper.

I actually really enjoy giving head. It is a form of communion, so to speak, for me. It's a very intimate experience.

[Kelli]

I found using my mouth and hand works the best, since I can't deep throat either... yet... ;)

I start by just using my mouth, taking of much of him in as I can, while my hand fondles his balls and perinium. Then I start to slide my hand over his cock, my hand in the shape of an "O." When my hand slides down, I slip my mouth over the head and give it a quick swirl, then bring my hand back over the top. As I bring my hand up, I twist it, which is what he says drives him wild. With my free hand, I caress his anus (he has yet to let my finger in, even though we both think he would like it, he's a little homophobic), so I just lightly caress the opening, which drives him crazy as well. I keep pumping, gradually increasing, and as he cums, I pump my hand as hard as I can over his shaft. He shoots over his head sometimes (he's 6'1" with a long torso). If anyone else uses this, lemme know what you think.

[angelpet]

I love to pleasure a man by giving him a blow job. Being able to deep throat...takes a lot of practice indeed. I found the best position for me is…that if I’m on my knees in front of him and my head is tilted back with me basically looking up into his eyes. If he takes it nice and slow at feeding me his cock and softly massages my throat with his hand as he pushes it deeper, I can deep throat him.
The main thing I have to do on my end…is just relax.
(talking nasty to me, telling me I’m the best cock sucker you have ever had…always helps)
The secret for me is relaxing my throat…
I found with practice, relaxing…helps my gag reflex tremendously.

As for using my tongue…I do this squiggly movement with my tongue on the underside of the shaft…going down and coming back up…this seems to drive him wild. Sucking the head in and out of my mouth…seems to be pretty effective also.

But I believe one of the biggest turn-ons to giving a good blow job is…..
The sounds…the slurps, the slops, the moans and the groans…the SOUNDS of a cock sliding in and out of a moist wet mouth is a turn-on within itself. I love those sounds. :D :eek: :D

[naomi]

But I believe one of the biggest turn-ons to giving a good blow job is…..
The sounds…the slurps, the slops, the moans and the groans…the SOUNDS of a cock sliding in and out of a moist wet mouth is a turn-on within itself. I love those sounds. :D :eek: :D


i agree 100% angelpet! i've enjoyed reading this particular thread very much. my man does not allow me to touch his cock with my hands when i am giving him a blowjob. i'm usually kneeling, with my hands behind my back. a particular turn on for me is having his hand tightly gripping the hair at the back of my head. he is able to control me that way (speed and depth) and i can just relax and concentrate on the sensation of his shaft sliding over my tongue and opening myself to the deepest penetration of my mouth and throat possible. i am a bit of a drooler, which turns him on to no end.

respectfully,
n.

[janie]

Why are nearly all the replies here from females?

I rather hoped for some detailed description from men as to what they really like.

Is it just that the men receiving the attention really just don't care much how so long as they are getting it at all, or what?

*remembers "queer as folk" where the best instruction was given by gay men*

janie

[GaryWilcox]

The most important thing for me is not just suction, but focusing that suction entirely on the egde of the lips. You can use the whole mouth to do that, but that just speeds along the process, and I want it prolonged and intense in one area!

I think the most important sensation is the lower lip on the underside of the shaft. Outside of that, I like a vocal girl, someone who is actually turned on by doing it, someone who doesn't mind when I take charge of it with a grip on the back of her head, balling her hair into my fist...

Pulling out of her mouth and making her take long licks across the length, with the lights on and in the living room, is great fun.

[janie]

:) That's better. Thanks.

[new master]

for me variety is best a little sucking a little kissing along the length alot of slurping some deep throat kissing the balls and maybr im the only one but i love it when my wife'sub slaps her face with it

[privatedesire]

Actualy maybe someone could help me with this.. I use to be able to give excellent head! and I LOVED doing it..

but with my SO now.. he's the only guy i've ever been with that still has his foreskin and my passion for give head has compleatly changed, and i can't get him to cum just by giving head :(

is there a trick that I might be able to use? :confused:

[new master]

Actualy maybe someone could help me with this.. I use to be able to give excellent head! and I LOVED doing it..

but with my SO now.. he's the only guy i've ever been with that still has his foreskin and my passion for give head has compleatly changed, and i can't get him to cum just by giving head :(

is there a trick that I might be able to use? :confused:
fear not private desire some of us just dont come from a blow job. the only way i can cum from a bj is to face fuck my wife sub. ask him if other women were able to make him come from a bj b4 and if he says yes then ask him what they did that your not. communication is key to everyaspect of a relationship even sexual

[jaro_99]

K - well, deep throat looks fantastic and I know women who've wanted to master it...two who have...

But truly its not that fantastic as a physical experience - IMHO!

I think that's mainly cos the pressure from the mouth/tongue/throat doesn't quite get to the right places on (my) cock.

But my current sub and cock slut really loves the sensation of truly taking as much of my cock into her mouth/throat as she can manage. For her it was partly about the challenge and partly about proving she can do anything she sees on a porn video. She loves the position with her head haning off the end of the bed BTW...but that's more in the forkm of face fucking for us from where I can torture her nipples and cunt simultaneously.

So what does work? Well, in my view women often miss the point that its the *down* stroke which counts the most. Just cos we ejaculate upwards does not mean you have to milk it out of us!

Really, I think in terms of maintaining a nice pressure/stimulation there's actually a point maybe about three quarter way down the shaft where your lips should be and this allows your tongue to do its stuff up near the head. Tonguing along the underside is pretty helpful!

But of course the basic up and down thing is the main element.

Its great when a woman wants to play her tongue around all her favourite parts of my cock - I'd encourage that of course! *grin* Licking of (shaved) balls and some *gentle* sucking is also a great starting point.

But yeah - in the end its the up/down or in/out...the sights and sounds. So I guess I'd say just take your time and enjoy it and communicate that enjoyment. There is no *right* way - the fun is in the journey!!!

Cheers.

J

[Nacht]

And there is always, for those who can't do the breath play, try holding a switchblade to that pretty throat while you use it.


I would recommend a spyderco Endura or Delica trainer (http://www.spyderco.com/online_product_info.asp?sts=8%2F6%2F2004+5%3A36%3A 58+PM&pfid=C11TR&deptId=1010&mscssid=RXL3X904J3U48KWG7CW47T0BJMNA1LA4) blade. The lock on those won't break and the blade isn't sharp and has no tip on it, but it works psychologically to a similar effect (especially since you can "flick" it out very easily).

If it doesn't quite feel sharp enough a common trick is to freeze it first.

[AndrewBlack]

I'd missed the bit in this thread about the blowjob from 'High Heeled Hell' where the woman is being garotted while giving head, my god that was such a turn on for me man! Don't know if i'd try it in real life, might get a bit carried away

A great blowjob for me requires above all else enthusiasm on the part of the girl. I love to look down and see her really going for it and getting into it, that's a massive turn on. From a technical point of view I like to feel her mouth along my entire length, I don't mean that she totally swallow me but I do mean that I like to feel her on every part of me that's in her, so she keep her lips and cheeks firmly on me. I like a position where I can dictate the pace and depth and essentially fuck her mouth as well, this is pretty much the same as the above. Most of all I like to fuck her mouth while 69ing, seeing her get turned on, turns me on.

I found having a whip nearby helps getting a good blowjob too;)

[jaeangel]

My husband (I don't tell him this, of course, it would be a terrible blow to his notoriously fragile male ego) has a rather...small penis. It measures about five inches erect. So with me the problem hasn't been deepthroating, it's been how to create enough pleasure all along the amount of shaft I do have to get him to cum.
I usually start with a good ball-licking. I can suck both his balls into my mouth at the same time, and he loves it when I roll the testicles inside his sac with my tongue while holding the whole thing inside my mouth. When I let them go the next thing i do is lick his anus (he always washes with soap and water before we have sex, by the way) and then his perineum, the tender skin from his anus all the way to his balls. Once I have him moaning from that, I lick in a straight line all the way from his anus to the frenulum (the sensitive skin just behind and under the head). I'll use just the tip of my tongue for a light sensation, then use the broad flat of my tongue to almost push his balls up into his body. The contrast between feather-light touches and firm swipes gets him going. It's also a really good way to get his precum out (for some reason I don't mind the taste of precum, although I don't like swallowing regular cum).
Then I take the tip of my tongue and swirl it around the head of his cock, which can be tricky sometimes, if I set myself some kind of no-hands rule before we start. Hubby is completely vanilla, and has no idea why I would want my hands cuffed behind me when I'm giving him a BJ, but he's willing to go with it as long as it means he gets to cum. Most of the time I don't bother with the cuffs, I just tell myself 'no hands' and that works for me. Mental handcuffs, so to speak.
Annyway, I pull my lips down to cover my teeth and then take the head of his cock between my lips like that. Then I swirl my tongue around the head of his cock, again using both the tip and the broad side to alternate the pressure and feel. Tastebuds are more concentrated around the tip, so the tip feels better, with more bumps for friction. Then, and only then, do I take his cock in my mouth.
I wrap my upper lips and the corners of my lips around his cock; I keep my tongue extended down the length of his shaft, and press my lip to the underside of my tongue, with my teeth still tucked inside my lip to keep from nicking him by accident. I've even, once, placed a wad of gum against my back teeth on either side and up and down, to keep him from feeling them when I take him in. He hates feeling the hardness of my back teeth on his head. He hates feeling anything hard against Mr. Happy period.
Once I've done that, I start moving my head up and down his shaft, while simultaneously flicking my tongue in and out of my mouth. The flat upper side of my tongue swipes the underside of his shaft, and when I withdraw, and because his cock is filling my mouth, my tongue kinda has to curl up to fit in there, and the tip brushes up against his frenulum again. I'll do this in a straight up-and-down motion for a few strokes, then, the third or fourth time, I'll turn my head a little to the left or right (ten o'clock or two o'clock) as I go up, then turn the other way as I go back up. The side-to side motion does a lot for his end of the sensation, though I have to be careful and keep my eyes closed, because I get disoriented if they're open and I turn my head without having my glasses on to focus my vision. In fact my eyes are usually closed for the whole thing. Sex too; glasses get fogged up when we're going at it, and i found it easier to just take them off and keep my eyes closed. Most of the time he's looking through his Penthouse magazines while we do this, so he doesn't really notice whether my eyes are open or not.
I'll retract my tongue into my mouth and curl the edges of my tongue up to cradle his cock, and do this in an up and down motion for a while, then I'll wrap my lips around his cock and suck on him like a lollipop. I have to be careful not to suck too hard; the intense pulling gave him an ache once and he asked me not to suck so hard. Usually at this stage the magazine goes down and his eyes close, and he comes after that.
I give him a blowjob twice a week, full blowjobs. The rest of the time, I start by giving him a blowjob and finish up riding him. This is mostly because with his small size, my pussy doesn't clamp as tightly on Mr. Happy as she used to before I had two babies. As he puts it, I'm all stretched out now, and it doesn't feel the same. I've suggested he try it in my butt, but he hasn't been receptive to the idea, and I won't make him try something he's not willing to do.
I don't know if all of this helps anybody out there...

[whippedcream]

Someone suggested being on your knees in front of him, but I've always found it impossible. Try having him lie on his back, and you kneel next to him or over him (almost like a 69 position, but not quite because you're on your knees and your cooch isn't in his face). Of course, it probably depends how he's shaped or curved or whatever, but I've always found that that way works. Swallowing it down really works, but it's difficult to go in and out and in and out that way, because eventually the gag reflex does kick in. If your man really wants to hold the back of your head and face-fuck you, you can take your time and get it all the way in yourself, swallow it down, and then let him go to town without ever pulling himself all the way from your throat. The only problem with this method is it's only good for one lungful of air at a time...but the breath aspect can sometimes be fun.

[masterkurt]

in ten years of relationship, caroline has become an excellent cocksucker. I required that she should learn from each master she was used by, the cocksucking techniques he liked most, so she learned a lot of tricks.

She learned deep throating with a lot of experiments on me, than I had her trying it even on more enodwed males .... Helen had her succeeding in deepthroating her husband Mark, applying some incentive to her footsoles (cigarette burns)....

There are a couple of tricks she was very good at: first of all licking the balls while deepthroating .... she was able to sneak the tongue out when the shaft of a cock was completely inside her throat and tried to lick the balls ... it was a great show.

second nice trick, was alternating the blowjob with the licking of a fruit-ice ... it was very pleasnat to feel the chilled mouth and tongue around the cock.

The last variation I would like to quote was having her giving head after having had her running (naked of course and with tied hands) around for a good while ..... it was very nice to have her trying to make a good blowjob while panting heavily ....

I add a picture of n. 2

[Aquilegia]

Take his cock as deep into your mouth as you can. Start to move up and down the shaft very slowly. As you move up and down, with your lips firm on his shaft, draw little figures of eight with your nose. Make them about three or four inches across. After a few strokes reverse the direction of the figure eights. Swirl the tip with your tongue whenever you can reach it.
This drives my master wild!

He also like me to open my mouth slightly and breath in on the upstroke, this cools his cock. Then I breath out on the downstroke, and warm it back up again!

[Mobius]

It is amazing that the BJ has become so comon it is about the same level as the hand shake. Back in the day it was petting maybe getting to first or second base. you might touch 3rd base but that was rare.

No some 30 years later I hear girls talking about giving BJ's at the end of the date just to be rid of the "loser" so she does not have to give it up. These 15/16 year old girls talk about it as if it is nothing. I have had girls on the bus that are talking about anal play. So they can keep there verginity intact. Yes it is nice that is short bus I can hear all. I dare not make any comment on any of it. "Tonto get in heap big truble". And Yes I am sopose to write them up for such talk. But it is kind of enlightining to hear what they think is normal behavor, versus what was normal behavor back in my day (late 70's).

Oh and the most sensitive part of the dick, is just under the base of the crown. Almost like a male clitoris. you tickle that and I will follow you any were.

And for the deep throating thing. Other than sword swollowers I think it is a big Myth. Even in porn flicks I see the starlets choking and gaging. And these are realy big dicks 12-14 inches. Sorry I think for the most woman it is a fable that they can deep throat. Right up there with the 12 in cock that every man has. :)

[NaturalSub]

Okay, this is going to sound as if I am bragging, but.... I am a sword swallower, I many other things as well, I eat fire, I walk on glass, I do magic, I put things up my nose and bring them out of my mouth and I hammer 6" nails up my nose. None of this has anything to do with BDSM, I just wanted to give you an idea of my background when it comes to this stuff. The human body is a wonderful thing, and I have found ways that things I do on stage can be converted to things I do in the bedroom!

Out of all the things I do, I find sword swallowing the hardest, mainly because of that wretched thing called the gag reflex. The first time I put anything up my nose to come down my throat and out of my mouth, I spewed up, and considering I was in the middle of a resturant at the time, it wasn't pretty (long story, but thats what bored magicians do!). However, after I got used to the tickly feeling, I still gag a little, but I didn;t puke, it's a good starting point!

I asked for advice on controlling my gag reflex, with the origional intention of being able to do the nose/mouth thing without the risk of spewing, this later led to me starting sword swallowing, which later led to my Master being happy that he didn;t need to force me to deep throat him, because I was perfectly willing to do so anyway!

The most important thing is the angle! Which ever position you are in, to truely deep throat, your head needs to be at a 90 degree angle to your neck, this allows the greatest space, and the easiest straight entry, because the throat curves, when you hit the back of it with anything, let alone a hard cock being shoved into it, you will gag, it's a reflex that you just can't get away from.

The next thing to do is just practice. Every morning, and I still do this, when I have my shower, I take my tooth brush with me. I put my head at the right angle and put my tooth brush in as far as I can go, for a while, this is gonna make you gag, however, you get over it,and your body gets used to the feeling and it just sort of stops.

There is no great secret to it. It truely does just take practice!

[spike]

Long ago I had a wife who did not like to even say, ‘suck’. She never learned how to do it and in eleven years of marriage I never came from a blowjob. Some time later, mid 90s, there was someone who would sub for me at times and I made sure to make up for lost time in this field.

I am uncircumcised with a loose foreskin that often turns inside out and back with each stroke in normal sex. She tried to do that with her mouth but it didn’t work for me. The best sensation came if she used her hand to retract my foreskin then went at the corona (the rim of the head), the frenum (fold of skin linking foreskin to base of the head), and the meatus (the hole in the end – penile anatomy lesson FREE! :D ) with her tongue-tip rhythmically and relentlessly. Her hand remained near the base to stimulate the part stroked by the labia during straight sex and to press quite hard about midway between scrotum and anus at the moment of climax.

Deep throat, she had serious psychology about and I didn’t mess with the mafia.

But, contrary to:


While he's full in my mouth, I like to make eye contact and "smile" (well as best as possible with a mouth full of cock LOL) with an impish look in my eyes.

(back in May, I know, but I just got here), the best psychological effect for me came from making her blow me when crying. The picture I attach isn’t her and I am unsure of its provenance but it was one of the very first I downloaded and kept when I had an internet connection. It still does something for me.

Spike

[mythicat]

My personal experience...and we won't talk about how much that might be ;)...is that every guy is different. Or at least they fall into various groupings. A prime example of this is teeth...some guys absolutely hate &/or fear it, some like gentle scraping, and I've even known one who liked fairly aggressive chewing (not to break the skin tho, just firm pressure without any sliding around to cause tearing). A lot depends on their anatomy and psychology. And congrats to you less well-endowed guys, cus you're a LOT easier to blow than your horse-hung counterparts. Can do a lot more tricks when your mouth isn't completely stretched to capacity!

As for breath control, the trick is to time your breathing to when he's pulling back. As long as he's moving in and out for friction there will be a time when your throat is clear, you just have to be ready to take advantage of it. Breath restriction enhances orgasm anyway, so try to go with it. *eg*

privatedesire, new master was right...some guys just don't cum from a blow job and even the ones that do won't always. Heck, I couldn't cum from oral for years either. Even today I have to find the right headspace...the sensation is just too subtle, too much like tickling, for my liking. *shrug* But one very determined ex-boyfriend got me over it eventually (bless his heart :D) and expanded my horizons. So perhaps for those guys it's just a matter of "training" the response too. And if the guy still has his foreskin, try pulling it back while you go at him. And also try different positions...cus sometimes a guy will get into it more if he towers over you with you on your knees and his fist wound tightly in your hair (purrrrr), but sometimes he can't fully relax and enjoy it if he's standing because it distracts him trying not to fall over when his knees go weak! lol

Driveslikeagirl...there are a lot of men out there who don't care if you swallow or not, in fact I'd say most either don't care at all or only have a preference for swallowing but will certainly not turn ya down over it. ;) And I've run across a couple who do think it's gross. As for ball play, it's a lot like breast play for women...most like it, some a whole lot, some not at all.


And I can't find who posted it, but someone mentioned a guy who liked to slap his penis across her face. My husband loves to do that! I've always found it a little funny myself (humorous funny). Only guy I've ever been with that does it; but I've seen it once or twice in porn, so I guess it's not too isolated of a phenomenon. And if your guy did it too, then I guess that makes mine ever so (very) slightly less weird than I thought he was an hour ago. :D

Now to go try that raspberries trick on him...Thanks redEva!

[redEva]

...Now to go try that raspberries trick on him...Thanks redEva!
*grinning* how sweet was it? :D

[mythicat]

I fed him a big ol' yummy dinner when he got home and now he ain't good for nuthin. Some thanks that is!

I'll have to get back to ya on it. :cool:

[duktig flicka]

Wow, Allyslittleone, just wow. I am extremely impressed and jealous. You almost make me long for a Y chromosome. I am, however, most inspired. ;)

[mythicat]

*grinning* how sweet was it? :D

I tried it and asked how it was.
He reported "a little painful."
So of course I then asked, "But did you like it?" :[
His reply was a hesitant/grudging, "a little."
So I tried it again, this time a bit softer.
He said it still hurt, and when asked did not want me to keep doing it.

His bouncy bits are not overly sensitive at all. I wonder if I'm doing it right? Or in the right place? I was directly on a testis...

[spike]

sometimes a guy will get into it more if he towers over you with you on your knees and his fist wound tightly in your hair (purrrrr), but sometimes he can't fully relax and enjoy it if he's standing because it distracts him trying not to fall over when his knees go weak! lol

You said it mythicat! When those knees start going it's too late to keep your dignity. The handful of hair is sufficent domination. A guy should sit down. Can't the person in charge be comfortable? :)

Spike

[mythicat]

You said it mythicat! When those knees start going it's too late to keep your dignity. The handful of hair is sufficent domination. A guy should sit down. Can't the person in charge be comfortable? :)
Spike


But...but...the pirate in my fantasy wasn't sitting! Now put the eye patch back on and get off your duff! lol :p


I agree that the one in charge should be however they're most comfortable (at least usually). I would much rather my partner be able to relax than take forEVER to cum. Because that's just going to wind up making me uncomfortable. lol

You have to admit tho...a guy sprawled out in his easy chair isn't as visually intimidating. :rolleyes:

[spike]

But...but...the pirate in my fantasy wasn't sitting! Now put the eye patch back on and get off your duff! lol :p
It's not that kind of Spike. :cool:


You have to admit tho...a guy sprawled out in his easy chair isn't as visually intimidating. :rolleyes:
It depends what you most recently remember him doing to you. :D Intimidation first. Blowjob to follow. Always the best plan. And keep the crop somewhere very handy in case she starts blowing raspberries!

Spike

[Curtis]

Let's see... deepthroat is unneccessary, but you should be able to get half of it in; very, very, very wet; alternating licking with sucking (alternating more quickly as you near the climax); use one hand to grip the bottom half, and keep the skin pulled taut at all times; with the other hand, keep tension on my scrotum (your whole hand will fit between my balls and my body); licking and sucking my balls would be a winner, but not near the climax (unless you were trying to draw things out); eye contact (though not every second) and obvious enthusiasm are hugely important; swallowing isn't neccessary in a casual relationship, but makes a guy who already is serious about you feel all warm and protective (I think it's an act of submission); if your knees can stand it (try a pillow), kneeling in front of me, topless and with conveniently long hair to hold is just icing on the cake (while you're kneeling like that, you can rub my wet cock over your neck and breasts, if you want to slow things down -- and the feeling of your nipples against my thighs...); and rubbing my perinium in time to the contractions when I cum wraps thing up nicely, though it would certainly require lots of practice to get the timing down.

Thank you for starting this thread, Eva!

[redEva]

Thank you for starting this thread, Eva!
hehe , you most welcome , and thank you for picturesque description :D

[Eraser]

ohh goodie, next to breat bondage my favorite topic!

well I don't have a "technique" and my prefrance varies greatly by the intensity of the evening or on the other then of the spectrum how calm my days been. If's I've had a really long stressful day, most often not in a throat raping face fucking pounding BJ mood. Nice slow even steady. What RedEva said about using your skin (breast nipples etc) works very well espcaiily if your going for a more pleasent or oh dare I say "romantic"? BJ. But then again if it was a pissy day or one of my employee's pissed me off yea it may be a throat pounder.

One thing I greatly enjoy is I love scraping teeth, forget folding those lips I want to feel those pearlly whites! One other technique that work extremely well if you can't deepthroat (more on this topic in a sec) is drool it up girls, I know its reflex not to but let it go and don't just use your hand to hold, add it to the motion it, if you can get your timing down and drool enough, the sensation is very very simular to being deepthroated. The favorite technique my girl uses is she take her hand off or down to 1-2 fingers on her down stroke and adds the rest of her hand on the up stroke. The pressure has to be matched to the mount of tongue pressure as well.

Now on the deepthroat topic yet again. First off I am not an "average" size I'm not gonna sound like a lame braggert or wanna be and spout off numbers, so lets just say above average. Let me say I've had it done more then once it CAN be done.

as a second form of proofm I'm actually going to point to a porn:


this isn't some stupid trick of the camera or faking or anything. I know cause I was there holding the camera :)

[jaeangel]

... and rubbing my perinium in time to the contractions when I cum wraps thing up nicely, though it would certainly require lots of practice to get the timing down.
Hey, you're right, I just tried this (two minutes ago) on my hubby and he came like there ain't no tomorrow!! Thanks for the tip!!!

[redEva]

*beaming with pride* t’is my baby (this thread) and is growing so nicely, and even giving back to society! You see!

Joke aside – good advices, I’m glad they are getting use!

On the other note – impressive swallowing on some of those pics – but that dark haired one – did not seem to happy having full throat!

What I really like to see is girl taking it deep and seeing her throat gets thick with the rod. *drooling*

[Prpackaged]

:-[
OK! Yeah, I know – it is not pure BDSM, but still, one of the never ending mysteries ( for me at least ;)). Not that anyone complained so far (not that I would admit even if they had :p) but… apart from the all around fantasy of deep throating (and that one too – if someone could enlighten me – how exactly do you manage to do it for extended period of time without evacuating last few meals?! :confused: ) and some other imaginary always-in-the-story described actions - what is in your experience really really cool, and details please – maybe we can learn something.

And… just by-the-way did you ever tried blowing strong raspberries on His balls? :[

Got a chance to read all the other posts first. My two cents on this topic is that deep throat is not that necessary. Hitting the places where the nerve endings reside has the greatest affect.

For deep throating: The sub who swallowed swords has the right idea. Practice practice practice. I would recommend starting with a banana. It has the right shape and is also stiff. Should it go into places where is should not be (causes a gag response), it will not be so stiff and hard that it will cause damage.

The gag reflex is a safe guard to protect you from having foreign substances enter the lungs. Nothing goes in if everything is going out. The banana can be slowly pushed down the throat yet removed when the gag response start or if you suddenly find a need to breathe :yuck: With practice the throat can become accustomed to having something like a banana or other similar item :rolleyes: placed in the immediate area.

As a male, I like the idea of having a sub paying such close attenting to that area. The Crown has the most nerve ending and thus can give the greatest response. The perineum is another excellent place to stroke. Consider that this area is used by most animals to induce responses, mostly research from mothers cleaning their newborn. Whether it goes all the way down or not does not increase my responses. Whether the sub is paying attention and playing appropriately gains a greater positive response. Best BJ is one that comes from both partners wanting and enjoying.

[Kaori-san]

Oh yeah, someone (i forget who) mentioned pop rocks to me once, they sound kinda cool, sadly, we don't have them over here.
sl

We may not have poprocks over here, but we do have Sparx Magic Popping Candy, which is not quite as good but it does change colour ;)

[Spitman]

I found using my mouth and hand works the best, since I can't deep throat either... yet... ;)

I start by just using my mouth, taking of much of him in as I can, while my hand fondles his balls and perinium. Then I start to slide my hand over his cock, my hand in the shape of an "O." When my hand slides down, I slip my mouth over the head and give it a quick swirl, then bring my hand back over the top. As I bring my hand up, I twist it, which is what he says drives him wild. With my free hand, I caress his anus (he has yet to let my finger in, even though we both think he would like it, he's a little homophobic), so I just lightly caress the opening, which drives him crazy as well. I keep pumping, gradually increasing, and as he cums, I pump my hand as hard as I can over his shaft.

Kelli, everything you have described fits in with the very best I have experienced. Your partner is a very lucky man!

There is one suggestion I can make that is not in your description, although you might be doing it anyway! One very sensitive area is the groove on either side between the scrotum and the anus. With your fingers in a vee, reach underneath from behind, and run your parted fingers in very lightly on both sides of the groove simultaneously. Talk about going from hard to solid rock! The feel of a woman's fingers doing that is indescribable, and combined with the rest of what you are doing with your mouth, I'm sure it will be fantastic.

There's one general comment I would make to all of you women who want to make a big impression on us men. Perhaps the most common mistake a woman makes is to presume that ejaculation = male orgasm. Not so. As I'm sure you all know, you can cause a man to ejaculate very quickly with all kinds of techniques, but there is very little, if any pleasure involved. In fact, there are two different processes going on and they happen at very different speeds. If you get it wrong, the ejaculation occurs long before he is anywhere near a real orgasm.

As many people have said in here many times, the most erogenous zone is the mind. I would add that the second most erogenous zone a man has is a woman, the third is anywhere except where you think it is, and the fourth is exactly where you think it is. For a man to achieve maximum pleasure there needs to be a slow buildup, so his mind becomes focused on all those visual, tactile and other erotic sensations. During this buildup remember the order of those erogenous zones. He needs to be in the mood, then he needs to be able to touch and feel you, then he needs to feel your touch, arousing his whole body, focusing his mind so that he is fully aroused and ready and desperately wanting you to touch him in those very obvious places. Use techniques like those described by Kelli but take your time, let him stay hard for a while while he feels the intense sensations that he can only enjoy in that state of arousal, and then, when you sense that he is ready, tip him over the edge and you will get an ejaculation that fully justifies being described as a male orgasm. Those special sensations of pleasure come from all parts of the genitalia, especially the most sensitive areas like around and beneath the scrotum.

Some men may like it when you close your thumb and forefinger around his ball sack and pull his balls gently away from the body while you do all those wonderful things with your mouth.

[JohnZ]

some times a picture is worth a 1,000 words.


But to me - I need to fee the woman's breasts between my thighs and pushed up at my balls -- that is a sensual feeling for me.

I have only cum once from receiving head. My wife thinks that my cock might not be as sensative as most men. Is there a possibility that when I was having my cercumsision when I was a boy -that some nerve endings were cut? I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.

My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.

anyway - those are some of my thoughts.

John

[learningtopleez]

I have only cum once from receiving head. My wife thinks that my cock might not be as sensative as most men. Is there a possibility that when I was having my cercumsision when I was a boy -that some nerve endings were cut? I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.

My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.

John

John...I am not positive about the nerve endings being cut during circumcision, but it makes sense. I have read and heard that men w/o circumcisions have more feeling...so I guess it is possible.

As for never having cum but once from receiving head....Max was sort of like that. The first time I gave him a bj....nothing...nada...so I'm thinking to myself....well, I suck at this and not in a good way!:p But he explained that it is very difficult for him to cum while getting a bj. But on my next visit, he had abstained from masturbating for about three days...plus he gave me incentive...I couldn't cum until I made him cum! Btw...he told me this after he already had me squirming from oral! So I proceeded to give him the best bj I had ever given. Ya know how sometimes...the rhythm of your hands and your mouth just come together perfectly?? Well the ladies probably get this! :p So anyway....it worked! And I got two rewards that day!

I am sure that you may have already tried this...but I thought I would throw in my 2 cents!:)

[Nikita]

Posted by JohnZ: My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.

Not that the title of this post has anything to do with the subject, butt, it triggered the thought of circular thinking. John, both your statements point to personal 'head games'. (That phrase wasn't intentional, but hey, it worked out that way.:p )

And that is what orgasm is anyway, a head game. Women have that same inner dialogue that eventually leads them to give up or die trying to cum. But their dialogue runs along the lines of "if I enjoy this, he'll think I'm a slut" or the usual "good girls don't cum from oral sex." Most of the soccer moms I know look like they gave up. I NEVER give up...:D and glad I still don't!

(Anyway, thought I'd give you a little insight into thinking of women in the Bible Belt);)


I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.

See! It is a head game with yourself. Personally, I don't believe in your theory of 'not being in control,' as a possible reason for not reaching orgasm with a bj. The silent way you do orgasm has to do with your mind.

I'm with LTP, whose 2 cents is worth 4 bits, then 6 bits, and finally, a whole dollar. She wisely hinted that a little abstention accompanied frustration will quickly cure you of any hesitancy about cumming from a bj on that special person's lips.:eek:

Nikita

[JohnZ]

I'm with LTP, whose 2 cents is worth 4 bits, then 6 bits, and finally, a whole dollar. She wisely hinted that a little abstention accompanied frustration will quickly cure you of any hesitancy about cumming from a bj on that special person's lips.:eek:

Nikita

Well I will agree that it is most likely a "head game" - it is all in my head (though do not discount the control thing - since that is a head game in itself - for who is ever in control really?)

As for the abstention - that theory has been tested to no avail. -- But I will say - the one time that I did come from a BJ - it was from my lovely wife, when she was determined to make me cum. She kept at it -- to take me over the threshold. Unfortuantly I get to the point normally- but do not crest. (so it can be done, I just have not have had the patient partner, though my wife's jaw did hurt from the time she spent on me that time, and has not rallied that kind of desire again - I guess it was something to check off her list - and then - not worry about it any more.)

Thanks for the feedback -

John

[somewriter]

I have a spare moment or two so I thought I'd add my thoughts to this discussion, trying to address various points I've picked up in the other threads.

First-up, on the subject of deepthroating. I agree that for men it is not the be-all and end-all of blow job sensations - it is good, but it is not the best that can be done. However, as we all know, the mind is the main erogenous zone and I can't held but be turned on by the knowledge that a girl is close to choking on my cock which is filling her mouth. :o

Jaeangel - five inches isn't that small - I imagine it's still hard to get it all in. Between the regular blow-jobs, the handcuffs for the purpose, and your offer of anal, you get high marks from me!

Anyway, mouth plus hand covering the rest of the shaft is a good way to go, combined movement of the two. It is quite rare that I come from only contact with her mouth - I need the firm grip of a hand as well to finish me off, might just be me though! However, if I'm being dom and go for a long face-fucking, that can turn me on enough to do the trick.

Continuing with the all-important-mind theme, there are two accompaniments to a blow-job that really do it for me (especially when I'm sub and tied up). One is teasing; tempting me with the promise of a blow job at first, but then making me wait, and beginning slowly. The other is facesitting - with or without blindfold and/or gag, the smell (and perhaps sight and taste) of a woman that I cannot escape from is all the extra arousal I could ever need. Do the other guys agree on the last point, or am I isolated in that view?

[MrJerseyGuy]

Guy walks into a bar and orders a shot of Jack Daniels. He follows it up with another and another until his 6th.

The bartender finally walks over to the customer and asks "Are you celebrating something???"

The guy replies "My first blow job."

Bartender says, "OH!!! Congradulations, let me buy your next shot!"

The man thinks for a second and says, "Nah...if the first 6 didn't get that taste out of my mouth nothing will."

[learningtopleez]

ROFLMAO!! Thanks MrJerseyGuy! I needed that! :D

[pejanon]

some times a picture is worth a 1,000 words.


I have only cum once from receiving head. My wife thinks that my cock might not be as sensative as most men. Is there a possibility that when I was having my cercumsision when I was a boy -that some nerve endings were cut? I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.

My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.

anyway - those are some of my thoughts.

John

Nerve ending cut!? No, as far as I know, Supposedy the nerve endinging get desensitized on exposed glans - possiby a myth too.

I will go with the control factor - very powerfull. I can cum :D but tend to shy away from it. I see it more as a reward I like to give for great effort.:cool:

Deepthoating is for me more metnal dominat thing then great plasur - at last I haven't receved one yet that was pure pleasure ... hmmm


uncut Pej

[learningtopleez]

I haven't receved one yet that was pure pleasure ... hmmm
uncut Pej

I am soooo NOT going there!! But man do I wanna!:D

[pejanon]

I am soooo NOT going there!! But man do I wanna!:D

NOT?


wanna?


there are ways of making pipe dreams come true...
Then - there are OTHER ways.... of making it treu


P

[charlestudor]

NOT?


wanna?


there are ways of making pipe dreams come true...
Then - there are OTHER ways.... of making it treu


P

"pipe dreams?" -- maybe this is what i should call it when i close my eyes, and visualize a beautiful woman wrapping her lips around my cock, as i inevitably have to resort to getting myself off. :p

ct

[Domtotrain]

So glad to see this topic brought up. If only men knew how much women wanted to learn how to give absolutely perfect blow jobs!

That damn gag reflex! They taught us in nursing school (for different purposes of course) to tell patients to breathe through their nose, but that doesn't completely make the gag reflex magically disappear...

I've read a lot online that men like gentle play with the balls during a blow job, but I have yet to meet one in person who would admit it, let alone give pointers.

And why do men so like women to swallow? Hey, I'm all for it if the man likes it. But my question is, are there some men out there who either don't care, or who are actually repulsed by a woman who swallows?


Preface: Everyone is different. I speak in generalitys for the masses but in specifics for me.

Why do we like women to swallow? I think the majority will agree that the most intense form of pleasure for a man is a well performed blow job. The climax is just that, the epitome of the intense feelings. Imagine that at the magic moment when you are feeling the best feelings possilbe they stop! Any interruption is magnified at that moment. A man's orgasam doesn't last that long in the first place. Even if it is substituted by a hand, or lips on the side of the shaft. Nothing can replace that engulfed feeling of a warm, wet, flexible, mouth that conforms to the exact surface of your penis. If the pressure is perfect (a little suction causes the sides of the mouth to come in contact with the shaft, extending the feeling over more of the lenght} as well, it is heaven! I for one do not care if the woman swallows. Just as long as she doesn't pull off or stop until I am completely expended. Spit, drool, swallow, gargle, while I enjoy the descent to the present, I don't care. I might not even notice. If the lady is talented enough to be doing the BJ handless and uses one hand to stimulate the balls while using a finger of the other hand to massage the prostrate, she is a keeper. I would make her my sub regardless of any less than perfect redeeming qualities.

Deep throating is a worthy goal ladies so keep trying. I am lucky/unlucky in that most women can deep throat me. Not right away, if they are not at least somewhat skilled, but with a minimal amount of effort. It is the one benefit of an "average" cock.

This may sound funny, but when I wanted to really learn how to eat pussy, I watched and studied lesbian porn flicks and later real lebians in action. I learned a lot. So, watch gay flicks and if you can observe them in action, go for it.

Return comments welcomed.
Domtotrain

[Barton]

A novel idea.

[Hime]

For the guys who have trouble getting there during oral: are you in the habit of, um, going commando? While sexy as hell (IMHO), it can have effects on sensitivity.

[Ozme52]

Commando? LOL. This modern era. Back in my day, it was called going regimental.

BTW, nothing quite so nice as wearing a kilt, regimental. The women love checking out your sporan...

[Sir_Russell]

oh well MJG how you doing been awhile since we chatted. I agree with my friend again from no actual experience on my part but I have coached a few ladies and it helps to swallow and to swallow before the gag starts. This is not a total quick cure but when practiced on a regular basis it works.

I would also say that mmmmmmm is right that licking is very good and hastens along the final mmmm out cum. Try taking your tongue out the side of your mouth the run it across your lips, and the cock, to the other side. This technique is best for me when done from the same side to the same side not back and forth, but that may just be me.

[orchidsoul]

I find deep throating so unbelievably horny, but have one question.

There's been the repeated mention of swallowing before hitting the gag reflex... but how does one swallow without teeth closing? :confused:

[Ozme52]

I find deep throating so unbelievably horny, but have one question.

There's been the repeated mention of swallowing before hitting the gag reflex... but how does one swallow without teeth closing? :confused:

Practice. :rolleyes:

[~hellish one~]

I find deep throating so unbelievably horny, but have one question.

There's been the repeated mention of swallowing before hitting the gag reflex... but how does one swallow without teeth closing? :confused:

stick your finger in your mouth and close your lips around it...kinda suck a little bit and then see if you can swallow. i don't know if others can do this, but i can swallow without my teeth biting down hard on whatever is in my mouth.

[Charlie Brown 169]

Well admittedly I have not given blowjobs, only have I been on the receiving end. My former girl friend was great and she swallowed too. She had the ability to take my cock all the way to the base and when I would cum she just sucked it down. At the end she would pull out and then jack my cock up and down to extract the every last drop. She is great. :icon176:

[OttifantSir]

When my hand slides down, I slip my mouth over the head and give it a quick swirl, then bring my hand back over the top. As I bring my hand up, I twist it, which is what he says drives him wild.

This technique was described in a show on Norwegian TV3 a while back. They called it "Lighting the Fire"

[OttifantSir]

I have only cum once from receiving head. My wife thinks that my cock might not be as sensative as most men. Is there a possibility that when I was having my cercumsision when I was a boy -that some nerve endings were cut? I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.

John

Well, a study I read about a few years back said that un-circumcised men have 8 layers of skin on the tip of the cock, in general. While circumsised men have 14 layers of skin in general. Your cock-head isn't anatomically much different from your fingers and what happens when you do something too much? You get calluses. That's what happens. So, no cut nerve-endings, just a bit more skin to get through to those nerves.

[orchidsoul]

stick your finger in your mouth and close your lips around it...kinda suck a little bit and then see if you can swallow. i don't know if others can do this, but i can swallow without my teeth biting down hard on whatever is in my mouth.


Ooh Hellish- thank you for this. I didn't succeed so well at first, but with Ozme's suggestion of practice, I think this is a great way of practicing to not bite when swallowing.

[nowgirl]

Once, after reading a story here in bdsmlibrary called High-Heeled Hell, F and I decided to try a bit of breath play during oral sex. Like in the story, a rope was wound around my neck with a metal ring handle that could be twisted to control my breath as I went down on him.... He did say it made me look very helpless and sexy. I was so turned on by the idea of being strangled as he fucked my mouth that I was holding my breath all by myself without the rope really chocking me. I had two orgasms by the time he came inside my mouth.


just started reading this thread but... now must run to read the aformentioned story............. sounds delicious!

[gagged_Louise]

*just bumping this one because it seems to hold a wealth of useful talk and advice, and waiting for the A-Z alphabet to reach "O" ;)

[Isabelle90]

*just bumping this one because it seems to hold a wealth of useful talk and advice, and waiting for the A-Z alphabet to reach "O" ;)

This was a great one to bump!! Hellish Ones' advice on swallowing was extremely educational for me!

Darn it, Louise! I'm far too impatient to wait for O!!! I hadn't really given it a thought......until now!!!! Perhaps you should start a new thread for my fellow impatient ones!!! :am:

[gagged_Louise]

Thanks isabelle, seems delia just started up a new thread on D for - guess what?? ;blo :)
I'm sure some new talk will flow into both that one and this here old one - and the "O" letter? Might possibly deal with the mental side of taking a deep blow job...

[ThisYouWillDo]

Missed this first time around.

Why aren't many guys responding? Not so many guys actually give BJ's, so they're not able to advise on technique I guess. Anyway, the male response did pick up afterwards.

I heard on one of these late night programmes on cable tv (I guess my IPS must've been down that night) that porn stars use throat sprays with an antisceptic component to help them deepthroat. And making sure that the penis and the throat are well lubricated is important too.

I've never been deepthroated, so anyone who wants to practice, call me ;-)

TYWD

PS - spit or swallow. I guess if you spit, you're saying that you don't like it ... and by extension, him.

PPS - guys - drink/eat fruit - avoid red meat and coffee and the like. The theory is, if you taste nice, they'll be keener.

[MrDom]

here is something that was sent too my pet by one of her friends and she sent too me read and have fun.



How to give a proper world class BJ....

The cock is not a complicated thing. Stroke here, lick there, suck
here, and don't forget to fucking close your eyes when he cums (that
shit stings, asshole). Although giving a blowjob isn't complicated,
it ain't easy either, especially if you want to go down in his memory
as the best goddamn head he ever had–and I mean when he hears your
name or your favorite fuck me song five years later he gets a distant
goofy look in his eyes and a little bit of a hard-on which he then
has to explain to his now-wife.

There's a process here. Years of cock-sucking research have gone into
this. Years. RESPECT THE YEARS.

The key to good head is to mix it up. Keep him guessing what's coming
next. Granted there are many types of blowjobs: the one-minute
quickie (good for commercial breaks during the football game), the
loving head (long and slow and a bit of schmoopie talk), dirty-whore
head (fast, deep, hard and dirty), S&M head (biting, grabbing him by
the balls, "you'll do what I say, you hear me, you prick?"; or he
grabs your hair, forces your head down, "you'll suck my cock and
you'll like it, bitch" (mmmm… sooo hot), but what I'm aiming for here
is the looong head (which in many cases only translates into ten
minutes) that will have him whimpering, begging, and calling my name
when I finally let him cum.

My method involves teasing the poor bastard right until he's about to
blow his load–and then pull back. Build up, pull back, build up, pull
back, each time building up a little more than the time before. All
the build-ups lead to a huge blow-out. He may hate you a little each
time you do that, but he won't give a fuck in the end.

Note: this post is not comprehensive. There are many more little
tricks and techniques, but I'm writing this in one night and my left
hand is already exhausted from masturbating.

Another note: you know there's no actual blowing in a blowjob, right?
Don't they teach you anything in high school?

After paying due attention to his balls (DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE
ORGASM-INDUCING POWER OF THE BALLS), it's time to work your way
toward Three-Point Contact. Before I go into detail, I want you to
keep the following "mix it up" styles in mind: fast vs slow, deep vs
shallow, long strokes vs short strokes, and consistent vs varied
rhythm.

FIRST POINT OF CONTACT: hand

One hand, whichever one is the easiest to control and has the most
endurance. Typically but not always the hand that you write with.
Clasp it around the base of the shaft and begin stroking up and down,
slowly at first and then gradually increasing speed.

I'd like to take this time to point out that manicured fingernails
look super hot when wrapped around a hard cock. I'm no girly-girl,
but I know the power of vixen-red nails. Especially since I've now
been on the receiving end of a glorious set of painted nails. WOW.
They look even hotter going in and out of pussy. And I don't mean
masturbating. But for fuckssake, don't have those super long pointy
these-are-made- for-choking- you acrylic fingernails. Those things are
scary. I wouldn't want a set of those anywhere near my penis. –
shudders–

Don't pump away on dick like it's a chore. It is not a chore, IT IS A
PRIVILEGE. You should be so lucky to have a dick standing up to say
hello. Show him that you love having his dick in your hand. Get up
close where you can see everything. If he's lying down, stroke his
dick up and down while your face is directly behind it so he can see
your hands, his cock, and your wicked smile all right there.

Every once in a while pull back to concentrate on a different area.
The head and the frenulum (the tight little bit of skin on the
underside of the head) are the most sensitive areas of the dick. Work
this. Work this hard. Lightly circle the ridge of the head with your
finger tip (your manicured fingertip). Tickle the frenulum ever so
lightly (the sensitivity can work against you if you've gone hard
faster than he was ready for).

Bonus points if while you're stroking him you're giving yourself a
little hand-action.

SECOND POINT OF CONTACT: mouth

Just because the mouth is coming in, it does not mean your hand is
done. Nuh uh. We're building up, not making substitutions. No matter
how good you are with your hand, the mouth is better. It simulates
the cock by virtue of being warm and wet. And besides that, it's
fucking sexy as hell to see your dick in a girl's mouth, to see her
taking it all in and wanting more. Remember the sex eyes? Make sex
eyes. Although if you love what you're doing, the eyes will show it
without you having to even think about it.

Pull back from his dick slowly, with your hand caressing the top as
you pull away. Squeeze the tip of the head until you see a little
drop of pre-cum. If this is your thing and you know it's safe, wipe
the pre-cum up with your fingertip, look directly into his eyes, arch
your back, grin like the cock-loving girl you are, and lick it off
your finger.

Once his eyes have popped back into their sockets and he realizes you
are for real, it's time to bring out your best stuff. Bite your lower
lip and give him a naughty grin. Crouch down so you're hovering over
or next to his dick. Starting at the base, lick the shaft ever-so-
very-slowly with the tip of your tongue. End at the head with a
little flourish of the tongue. Make eye contact. By this point he
should be able to read your dirty dirty mind through your eyes.

Go back down on the other side, with your tongue stretched out so he
has the full luscious view. Come back up along the top, still slow,
then bring your hand back in. Clasp the base of the shaft with your
hand, put your head down in the position to begin sucking, but just
before you do, look up at him–

Have you noticed I'm being totally obnoxious about the eyes? THAT'S
BECAUSE GIVING SEX EYES IS THE HOTTEST AND MOST UNDER-UTILIZED THING
YOU CAN DO. SO WORK IT, GODDAMNIT. Flirt with your eyes, tease with
your eyes, fuck with your eyes, take him in with your eyes.

–now dive in. You've been moving slow up to this point, so diving in
with a visible hunger is a powerful contrast. Since his dick is
mostly dry, take in a couple inches and run your tongue down the
shaft to give it a little lubricant.

On the second run, take in as much of his cock as you can. The best
way to do this depends on the proper positioning of your head/throat
relative to his dick. For what I'm outlining in this post, the best
body position is with him lying down and you kneeling so you can
extend/crouch over him. You have to support yourself fully with your
legs, because soon both your hands are going to be busy. If your head
is directly over his dick (use your hand to hold it straight up into
your mouth), it's your best shot to take in all of the average-sized
cock. If you have a bad reflex.. practice? I don't really know what
to say. I was born to suck dick, so I've never had much of a gag
reflex. If it makes you uncomfortable, go slow and try to relax.
Being tense is NOT what you need to be right now.

To begin the licking and sucking, keep your shoulders steady and move
your head with the neck only. As you get going, let your body follow
the sex vibe. Kneel so that you lift up your hips to grind in the
air. Arch your back and roll your ass around in small circles. Don't
think about it too much… just let your body do what it feels inclined
to do. There's a hard cock in your mouth. Enjoy it.

What to do with the tongue. At the beginning it's easiest to place it
underneath the cock as you take it in. Don't let the tongue just BE
there, occupying space in your mouth. Press it up against the shaft.
Once you get going, lick side to side with your tongue while sucking
up and down. Lick all around. Meanwhile you can bring in the hand as
needed for another source of pressure/sensation. Or to act as a
stopping point so you don't accidentally take in too much and summon
the gag reflex.

Meanwhile with the mouth, keep it in a tight ring around his cock
because they are yet another key contact in the blowjob. Just watch
it, because lips can be the first thing to cramp up.

The mix of textures, pressure, speed, rhythm–there' s so many options
to try out. You don't ever have to give the same blowjob twice if you
know how to mix it up.

THIRD POINT OF CONTACT: the other hand

This is why you need to be supporting yourself with knees/legs only.
One hand is on shaft, mouth is on dick, and the other hand is what
rounds this out as an all-round mind-blowing blowjob. While sucking
and pumping, bring in your other hand, which hopefully up until this
point has been keeping you nice and stimulated (masturbating, rubbing
between legs, pinching nipples).

Start by playing with the balls again. BOYS LIKE IT WHEN YOU PLAY
WITH THEIR BALLS. Especially while you're doing all the other stuff.
Lick them, strum against them with the tip of your tongue, juggle
lightly in your fingers, cup in your palm, whatever. Don't be rough,
they're very sensitive, although the degree depends on the guy. Keep
stroking his shaft with your hand and sucking on the head. You are
now in scoring position.

*BONUS* POINT OF CONTACT: exactly how good are you with your hands?

Time to hit the magic sweet spot. (No, as much as I love poking
something up a guy's ass, that's not what I'm referring to–not this
time).

After a minute or so, close your index finger and press it middle-
knuckle first into the tissue just underneath the balls. I'm not sure
what this is called (I don't think it's the same thing as the
perineum, because that's farther away), but it hits the interior base
of the shaft. If you apply pressure with your knuckle, according to
some guys it feels amazing. If you're really talented, you can apply
pressure with your knuckle or finger while continuing to fondle his
balls. Massage the spot gently while you massage the balls as well.
Not many people know about this magic spot, so it has a powerful
effect on those who are fortunate enough to experience it.

THE ENDING

If you don't want to swallow, then you can finish him off with hand
job only, or suck until the final thirty seconds and then switch to
manual. Just watch your eyes!! Cum in contacts = OW MOTHERFUCKER.
Most guys are understanding about not wanting to take them in your
mouth, whether for personal or health reasons. If you still want to
finish with a flourish, you can pull my favorite porn star move of
letting him ejaculate on your stomach or breasts. I think it's fun,
but lots of people seem to think it's degrading. I don't care. I like
it.

Don't ever take it in your mouth and then spit it out. That's just
rude. If you don't want it in the first place, fucking say so.

Note on taste: what the guy eats and drinks beforehand directly
corresponds to the taste of his cum. Drinking a lot of beer (a lot,
not just a two) beforehand leaves a NASTY taste. That is my only icky
memory of a blowjob. In general, the healthier the food he eats the
better (less bad, whatever) it tastes. Fruit and fruit juice has the
best influence for a non-offensive taste. Let me just say again:
being able to somewhat deep-throat means you never have to worry
about taste.

If you're comfortable swallowing, you can avoid the taste by taking
him in as deep as you can right when he cums. That gets it past the
taste buds. If you know the guy well enough to know his "tells" for
when he's on the verge of cumming, that makes it a lot easier to time
your technique. If this is a new guy, then you may need him to give
you some indication or ten-second warning. Guys: this is why MOANING,
or, you know, SPEAKING like EVER during sex is beneficial. Why are
guys always so fucking quiet? BLEH. Get over it.

When it's coming down to the finale, I like to finish hard. Up until
the last couple seconds, going deep and fast helps the intensity. At
the very end, take in as much of his dick as you can, ideally enough
so that the head is pressed against the back of your mouth. The extra
bit of pressure blows his mind–and wad. Continue licking the
underside of the shaft with your tongue with as much pressure as the
tongue has left in it. In the final second or two, move your head up
and down just enough so that the tip of his dick rubs against the
back/roof of your mouth.

As he cums, hold on. DON'T BREAK THE SEAL. That can make for a big
sticky mess. Keep your mouth closed tightly around his cock until
you're sure he's done, which can take as long as ten seconds. When
you hear the post-orgasm sigh, slowly retreat. Keep the seal around
his cock as you pull away, and as you get toward the tip use your
tongue to scoop up the cum in your mouth so it doesn't dribble out
your mouth. Although a single drop of cum can be damn hot, if you
lick it up with the tip of your tongue and then give your final
naughty and self-satisfied grin.

Still Need More.. PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE to get better.



MrDom

[ThisYouWillDo]

... porn stars use throat sprays with an antisceptic component ...



I meant anaesthetic component, of course - but no-one seemed to notice.

TYWD

[Isabelle90]

I meant anaesthetic component, of course - but no-one seemed to notice.

TYWD

We knew what you meant! No worries!!

[tessa]

I was too busy trying to figure out who took all those notes. It definitely wasn't me as my hands were wrapped around a much different type shaft than the one used to pen all those luscious words.

Throat spray as anaesthetic before? Why??? And miss all that delicious pain of a hard cock pushing down into a tight throat?? :confused:

Now afterwards, when all the delicious has been replaced by no-endorphins-post-euphoria, makes a little more sense to me.

Fun thread.

[Logic1]

here is something that was sent too my pet by one of her friends and she sent too me read and have fun.



How to give a proper world class BJ....

The cock is not a complicated thing. Stroke here, lick there, suck
here, and don't forget to fucking close your eyes when he cums (that
shit stings, asshole). Although giving a blowjob isn't complicated,
it ain't easy either, especially if you want to go down in his memory
as the best goddamn head he ever had–and I mean when he hears your
name or your favorite fuck me song five years later he gets a distant
goofy look in his eyes and a little bit of a hard-on which he then
has to explain to his now-wife.

There's a process here. Years of cock-sucking research have gone into
this. Years. RESPECT THE YEARS.

The key to good head is to mix it up. Keep him guessing what's coming
next. Granted there are many types of blowjobs: the one-minute
quickie (good for commercial breaks during the football game), the
loving head (long and slow and a bit of schmoopie talk), dirty-whore
head (fast, deep, hard and dirty), S&M head (biting, grabbing him by
the balls, "you'll do what I say, you hear me, you prick?"; or he
grabs your hair, forces your head down, "you'll suck my cock and
you'll like it, bitch" (mmmm… sooo hot), but what I'm aiming for here
is the looong head (which in many cases only translates into ten
minutes) that will have him whimpering, begging, and calling my name
when I finally let him cum.

My method involves teasing the poor bastard right until he's about to
blow his load–and then pull back. Build up, pull back, build up, pull
back, each time building up a little more than the time before. All
the build-ups lead to a huge blow-out. He may hate you a little each
time you do that, but he won't give a fuck in the end.

Note: this post is not comprehensive. There are many more little
tricks and techniques, but I'm writing this in one night and my left
hand is already exhausted from masturbating.

Another note: you know there's no actual blowing in a blowjob, right?
Don't they teach you anything in high school?

After paying due attention to his balls (DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE
ORGASM-INDUCING POWER OF THE BALLS), it's time to work your way
toward Three-Point Contact. Before I go into detail, I want you to
keep the following "mix it up" styles in mind: fast vs slow, deep vs
shallow, long strokes vs short strokes, and consistent vs varied
rhythm.

FIRST POINT OF CONTACT: hand

One hand, whichever one is the easiest to control and has the most
endurance. Typically but not always the hand that you write with.
Clasp it around the base of the shaft and begin stroking up and down,
slowly at first and then gradually increasing speed.

I'd like to take this time to point out that manicured fingernails
look super hot when wrapped around a hard cock. I'm no girly-girl,
but I know the power of vixen-red nails. Especially since I've now
been on the receiving end of a glorious set of painted nails. WOW.
They look even hotter going in and out of pussy. And I don't mean
masturbating. But for fuckssake, don't have those super long pointy
these-are-made- for-choking- you acrylic fingernails. Those things are
scary. I wouldn't want a set of those anywhere near my penis. –
shudders–

Don't pump away on dick like it's a chore. It is not a chore, IT IS A
PRIVILEGE. You should be so lucky to have a dick standing up to say
hello. Show him that you love having his dick in your hand. Get up
close where you can see everything. If he's lying down, stroke his
dick up and down while your face is directly behind it so he can see
your hands, his cock, and your wicked smile all right there.

Every once in a while pull back to concentrate on a different area.
The head and the frenulum (the tight little bit of skin on the
underside of the head) are the most sensitive areas of the dick. Work
this. Work this hard. Lightly circle the ridge of the head with your
finger tip (your manicured fingertip). Tickle the frenulum ever so
lightly (the sensitivity can work against you if you've gone hard
faster than he was ready for).

Bonus points if while you're stroking him you're giving yourself a
little hand-action.

SECOND POINT OF CONTACT: mouth

Just because the mouth is coming in, it does not mean your hand is
done. Nuh uh. We're building up, not making substitutions. No matter
how good you are with your hand, the mouth is better. It simulates
the cock by virtue of being warm and wet. And besides that, it's
fucking sexy as hell to see your dick in a girl's mouth, to see her
taking it all in and wanting more. Remember the sex eyes? Make sex
eyes. Although if you love what you're doing, the eyes will show it
without you having to even think about it.

Pull back from his dick slowly, with your hand caressing the top as
you pull away. Squeeze the tip of the head until you see a little
drop of pre-cum. If this is your thing and you know it's safe, wipe
the pre-cum up with your fingertip, look directly into his eyes, arch
your back, grin like the cock-loving girl you are, and lick it off
your finger.

Once his eyes have popped back into their sockets and he realizes you
are for real, it's time to bring out your best stuff. Bite your lower
lip and give him a naughty grin. Crouch down so you're hovering over
or next to his dick. Starting at the base, lick the shaft ever-so-
very-slowly with the tip of your tongue. End at the head with a
little flourish of the tongue. Make eye contact. By this point he
should be able to read your dirty dirty mind through your eyes.

Go back down on the other side, with your tongue stretched out so he
has the full luscious view. Come back up along the top, still slow,
then bring your hand back in. Clasp the base of the shaft with your
hand, put your head down in the position to begin sucking, but just
before you do, look up at him–

Have you noticed I'm being totally obnoxious about the eyes? THAT'S
BECAUSE GIVING SEX EYES IS THE HOTTEST AND MOST UNDER-UTILIZED THING
YOU CAN DO. SO WORK IT, GODDAMNIT. Flirt with your eyes, tease with
your eyes, fuck with your eyes, take him in with your eyes.

–now dive in. You've been moving slow up to this point, so diving in
with a visible hunger is a powerful contrast. Since his dick is
mostly dry, take in a couple inches and run your tongue down the
shaft to give it a little lubricant.

On the second run, take in as much of his cock as you can. The best
way to do this depends on the proper positioning of your head/throat
relative to his dick. For what I'm outlining in this post, the best
body position is with him lying down and you kneeling so you can
extend/crouch over him. You have to support yourself fully with your
legs, because soon both your hands are going to be busy. If your head
is directly over his dick (use your hand to hold it straight up into
your mouth), it's your best shot to take in all of the average-sized
cock. If you have a bad reflex.. practice? I don't really know what
to say. I was born to suck dick, so I've never had much of a gag
reflex. If it makes you uncomfortable, go slow and try to relax.
Being tense is NOT what you need to be right now.

To begin the licking and sucking, keep your shoulders steady and move
your head with the neck only. As you get going, let your body follow
the sex vibe. Kneel so that you lift up your hips to grind in the
air. Arch your back and roll your ass around in small circles. Don't
think about it too much… just let your body do what it feels inclined
to do. There's a hard cock in your mouth. Enjoy it.

What to do with the tongue. At the beginning it's easiest to place it
underneath the cock as you take it in. Don't let the tongue just BE
there, occupying space in your mouth. Press it up against the shaft.
Once you get going, lick side to side with your tongue while sucking
up and down. Lick all around. Meanwhile you can bring in the hand as
needed for another source of pressure/sensation. Or to act as a
stopping point so you don't accidentally take in too much and summon
the gag reflex.

Meanwhile with the mouth, keep it in a tight ring around his cock
because they are yet another key contact in the blowjob. Just watch
it, because lips can be the first thing to cramp up.

The mix of textures, pressure, speed, rhythm–there' s so many options
to try out. You don't ever have to give the same blowjob twice if you
know how to mix it up.

THIRD POINT OF CONTACT: the other hand

This is why you need to be supporting yourself with knees/legs only.
One hand is on shaft, mouth is on dick, and the other hand is what
rounds this out as an all-round mind-blowing blowjob. While sucking
and pumping, bring in your other hand, which hopefully up until this
point has been keeping you nice and stimulated (masturbating, rubbing
between legs, pinching nipples).

Start by playing with the balls again. BOYS LIKE IT WHEN YOU PLAY
WITH THEIR BALLS. Especially while you're doing all the other stuff.
Lick them, strum against them with the tip of your tongue, juggle
lightly in your fingers, cup in your palm, whatever. Don't be rough,
they're very sensitive, although the degree depends on the guy. Keep
stroking his shaft with your hand and sucking on the head. You are
now in scoring position.

*BONUS* POINT OF CONTACT: exactly how good are you with your hands?

Time to hit the magic sweet spot. (No, as much as I love poking
something up a guy's ass, that's not what I'm referring to–not this
time).

After a minute or so, close your index finger and press it middle-
knuckle first into the tissue just underneath the balls. I'm not sure
what this is called (I don't think it's the same thing as the
perineum, because that's farther away), but it hits the interior base
of the shaft. If you apply pressure with your knuckle, according to
some guys it feels amazing. If you're really talented, you can apply
pressure with your knuckle or finger while continuing to fondle his
balls. Massage the spot gently while you massage the balls as well.
Not many people know about this magic spot, so it has a powerful
effect on those who are fortunate enough to experience it.

THE ENDING

If you don't want to swallow, then you can finish him off with hand
job only, or suck until the final thirty seconds and then switch to
manual. Just watch your eyes!! Cum in contacts = OW MOTHERFUCKER.
Most guys are understanding about not wanting to take them in your
mouth, whether for personal or health reasons. If you still want to
finish with a flourish, you can pull my favorite porn star move of
letting him ejaculate on your stomach or breasts. I think it's fun,
but lots of people seem to think it's degrading. I don't care. I like
it.

Don't ever take it in your mouth and then spit it out. That's just
rude. If you don't want it in the first place, fucking say so.

Note on taste: what the guy eats and drinks beforehand directly
corresponds to the taste of his cum. Drinking a lot of beer (a lot,
not just a two) beforehand leaves a NASTY taste. That is my only icky
memory of a blowjob. In general, the healthier the food he eats the
better (less bad, whatever) it tastes. Fruit and fruit juice has the
best influence for a non-offensive taste. Let me just say again:
being able to somewhat deep-throat means you never have to worry
about taste.

If you're comfortable swallowing, you can avoid the taste by taking
him in as deep as you can right when he cums. That gets it past the
taste buds. If you know the guy well enough to know his "tells" for
when he's on the verge of cumming, that makes it a lot easier to time
your technique. If this is a new guy, then you may need him to give
you some indication or ten-second warning. Guys: this is why MOANING,
or, you know, SPEAKING like EVER during sex is beneficial. Why are
guys always so fucking quiet? BLEH. Get over it.

When it's coming down to the finale, I like to finish hard. Up until
the last couple seconds, going deep and fast helps the intensity. At
the very end, take in as much of his dick as you can, ideally enough
so that the head is pressed against the back of your mouth. The extra
bit of pressure blows his mind–and wad. Continue licking the
underside of the shaft with your tongue with as much pressure as the
tongue has left in it. In the final second or two, move your head up
and down just enough so that the tip of his dick rubs against the
back/roof of your mouth.

As he cums, hold on. DON'T BREAK THE SEAL. That can make for a big
sticky mess. Keep your mouth closed tightly around his cock until
you're sure he's done, which can take as long as ten seconds. When
you hear the post-orgasm sigh, slowly retreat. Keep the seal around
his cock as you pull away, and as you get toward the tip use your
tongue to scoop up the cum in your mouth so it doesn't dribble out
your mouth. Although a single drop of cum can be damn hot, if you
lick it up with the tip of your tongue and then give your final
naughty and self-satisfied grin.

Still Need More.. PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE to get better.



MrDom

wewt that was one comprehensive guide to deep throating that I just had to bump.

I would add that with love and practice practically anybody can be good at it.