meh
12-11-2008, 07:56 AM
Hello one and all. I am sure all of you have heard the quote "never judge a book by it's cover" and what it means. I am a dom as some of you know or by merely reading my avatar you can tell that I am a dom.
Despite being a dom I am pretty laid back and have a habit of making requests in question form to keep a human to human level respect all while showing my dominance of telling one to do something. Because of this I fear that my laid back attitude makes me seem distance and somewhat of a poor dom. I am not overly experienced as a dom, but that does not make me a green horn either, I do research for experiments for any sub I have and do various types of experiments to learn more of what they like and dislike. But also because of how I can be understanding as well laid back, it makes it appears even more so then just with the laid back attitude.
More or less I am trying to press that everyone is different and even if one is naturally lazy, or naturally hyper one should not judge on that alone. I personally am great to get along with, I have open views and my laid back personality can make it a fun chat because we can literally talk about anything and it won;t bother me and i will give my views for I am blunt do to my belief that talking behind ones back is rude as well it gets things said and out of the way with out beating about the bush.
So when looking for a dom or a sub, whether it is for real life fun or online fun or what ever type of fun, you should not judge on one con that annoys you and see if there are, in literal aspect, more pro's then con's. Just remember it is not the cover of the book that makes it good or unique, but the content inside of it.
I would like to thank all who read this and please do tell of your opinion on this and if there is already a thread similar to this I apologize for creating a new topic while an old one already was made.
Despite being a dom I am pretty laid back and have a habit of making requests in question form to keep a human to human level respect all while showing my dominance of telling one to do something. Because of this I fear that my laid back attitude makes me seem distance and somewhat of a poor dom. I am not overly experienced as a dom, but that does not make me a green horn either, I do research for experiments for any sub I have and do various types of experiments to learn more of what they like and dislike. But also because of how I can be understanding as well laid back, it makes it appears even more so then just with the laid back attitude.
More or less I am trying to press that everyone is different and even if one is naturally lazy, or naturally hyper one should not judge on that alone. I personally am great to get along with, I have open views and my laid back personality can make it a fun chat because we can literally talk about anything and it won;t bother me and i will give my views for I am blunt do to my belief that talking behind ones back is rude as well it gets things said and out of the way with out beating about the bush.
So when looking for a dom or a sub, whether it is for real life fun or online fun or what ever type of fun, you should not judge on one con that annoys you and see if there are, in literal aspect, more pro's then con's. Just remember it is not the cover of the book that makes it good or unique, but the content inside of it.
I would like to thank all who read this and please do tell of your opinion on this and if there is already a thread similar to this I apologize for creating a new topic while an old one already was made.