Tasks at a distance

[b9dom]

Hi,
I have started an online, long-distance relationship with a mature (and wonderful) sub lady. We both wish for me to set tasks for her to complete, so that she can demonstrate her submission, obedience, and willingness to please. She is without physical disabilities as far as I am aware. Does anyone know of any tasks, or a resource I can go to to find any, which I can set her to do that will stretch her capabilities but be within them, and which will give her the feeling of fulfillment she needs?
I have already thought of a few, but rather than re-invent the wheel, I'm happy to hear what others have come up with and applied successfully.
Please bear in mind that, as we are VERY far apart (different continents), I need to set her tasks, the success of which can be verifiable at a distance.

Replies can be via here, or direct to my hotmail address which is:
b9dom (@hotmail.com)

Thanks to A/all for any input.

[slavelucy]

Hiya b9dom,

Not that i wish to stifle a new discussion about this subject, but i wonder if people are quiet about it as there are a fair few existing threads based roughly around this very subject. i took the liberty of tracking down and putting together some that may be of interest to you:

This thread is a recent interesting discussion about D/s training at a distance, you may find something that interests you in it:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1786

Online relationships:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=562

Punishments and other specifics:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1684

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=480 (this might be particularly helpful)

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1079

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1948

This thread contains some reference to org. dep in an online/punishment capacity:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=531

You may also find many ideas in other threads, that didn't start spefically about punishment in distance relationships, but would certainly provide food for thought! Have a look around.

Hope this is helpful to you and welcome to the forums. :)

sl

[slavelucy]

One other resource available to you on BDSMLibrary would be Subbie Task, which you can find here (http://bdsmlibrary.com/dungeon/). You'll have to email BDSMTourguide to gain access to the course.

Thanks andi. :)

i'm not sure subbie task would be what b9dom was looking for though, since he just said he's already met a partner and is looking for ideas in respect of that.

:)

sl

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Thanks andi. :)

i'm not sure subbie task would be what b9dom was looking for though, since he just said he's already met a partner and is looking for ideas in respect of that.

:)

sl


We have quite a few members at ST with partners. Some with multiple partners.

Actually, b9dom has already joined ST, but I don't remember him posting an introduction yet, or being very active in the feature as of yet.

[slavelucy]

We have quite a few members at ST with partners. Some with multiple partners.

Actually, b9dom has already joined ST, but I don't remember him posting an introduction yet, or being very active in the feature as of yet.

*smiles* Ah, fair enough, i'll bow to your superior knowledge on the subject TG, since i know very little about it.

sl