Addicted

[Flaming_Redhead]

*stands in front of the podium and giggles nervously*

Umm....is this thing on? *winces at the feedback whine* Umm....hey! My name is Flaming_Redhead, and I'm a sexaholic. *waits for all the murmuring to die down* Shocking, ain't it? Well, believe me, you're not as shocked as I am! Wait...what do you mean this comes as no surprise???

The fact of the matter is that I have always been something of a slut, but I've hardly...more like almost never....enjoyed sex. My pleasure usually came from some imagined power I had over the opposite sex...and masturbation afterwards to finish myself off. Pppfffttt! That reminds me of a joke one of my friends texted me. I think it was Master Stone. Anyway, a college professor teaching a human sexuality class asks a female student, "Do you know what your asshole does while you're cumming?" The student answers, "He's probably out getting drunk with his friends." *ggls*

Okay, so, when I first met VoodooMan, he told me he wanted me to be addicted to his cock. Umm...riiiiight....sure thing, buddy! *snickers* I was thinking more along the lines of he'd be addicted to my pussy as men so often are while I continued to be addicted to BOB (battery-operated boyfriend). What??? Don't look at me like that! It's true! *shrugs* Anyway, the unthinkable happened! He is fucking awesome...or should I say he is an awesome fuck?! *ggls* I literally cannot get enough of him.

I've been thinking about this more and more lately, probably because I got an Ipod. *lol* Now you're wondering what my Ipod has to do with sex. Well, I downloaded "Addicted" by Saving Abel as it's one of my new favorite songs. One's Ipod playlist can say a lot about a person. *nods knowingly* Then, just today, I was perusing the forums on another site when I came across a post which made me pause. The question was something like "Why be a dominant?" or some such, but the answer sounded too much like my situation.


I used to think it sex was the most important thing until a very smart slave asked something. Before telling you what she asked, I must first tell you this; I am a very competent lover and use emotion, love, passion and sex to get my lovers “addicted & dependant” on me. It is my form of collar. If have something no one else can provide, I know my worth and maintain control. I provide a sexual and/or emotional experience they can’t get elsewhere.

I have been around the block enough times to know that what happens with VoodooMan is different and not easily reproducible. Nay, it's impossible I tell ya! It's never been like this EVER! I dunno if I can describe it accurately, so I won't even try. Suffice it to say that no one else has ever made me cry simply from having an orgasm. Granted, they are huge screaming orgasms....*grins* It used to please him if I saved all my cum for him, meaning I didn't masturbate, but now he thinks I should "explore" anytime I get the urge. I have to admit that it gives me a little relief, but it's still nothing compared to when I'm with him...so....almost not worth doing. Notice I said "almost." *ggls* It's a bit disconcerting, though, that I can barely stand to touch myself directly anymore, even when he tells me to, because I'd rather have him do it. My own pussy has turned traitor! *lol*

My question, I guess, is whether your dominant provides a sexual and/or emotional experience you can't get elsewhere? Are you addicted to his cock? How is it different with him than anyone else?

[BelovedPet]

It used to please him if I saved all my cum for him, meaning I didn't masturbate, but now he thinks I should "explore" anytime I get the urge. I have to admit that it gives me a little relief, but it's still nothing compared to when I'm with him...so....almost not worth doing. Notice I said "almost." *ggls* It's a bit disconcerting, though, that I can barely stand to touch myself directly anymore, even when he tells me to, because I'd rather have him do it. My own pussy has turned traitor! *lol*


I completely agree. I, too, have 'free play' masturbation time but don't use it very much because it pales so much compared to sex with Sir. The way that humiliation (that's too strong of a word but I can't think of another) is integrated into our sex play sets me free. Just because something may be embarrassing is no excuse to not do that particular act. I've never felt so happy to embarrass/humiliate myself and it takes a special person to develop that level of trust and comfort in a relationship. I share a level of intimacy with Sir that goes well beyond 'just sex' that makes sex with him amazing.

Hoorah for hot, steamy, dirty, plentiful sex!

b

[Arria]

Hahaha, I know so well what you mean! When I first met hubby, he told me he would get me to a point where he would only touch me once, and I´d be ready for him (yeah right, I thought, what a horrible show-off... in your dreams... etc.)

Until I met him - yea well, I don´t know, I always was vaguely (or not so vaguely) unsatisfied... and it was the men who needed "it" more than I did, and I used that against them. to get what I want, more than once - no, to be honest, quite often.

Hubby was the first one who had more self-control than me in that direction, and he was the first and only who got me so greedy I overcame all pride and actually BEGGED for it (oh, how that hurt my pride is beyond description...).

I learned from various other subs that their dom has the same effect on them.

Apparently the (sometimes cursed!) self-control, together with amazing sexual abilities, is one of the things that mark a good dom...

I used to be able to live without sex for extended periods of time, but well, that only holds true until you met the one guy with whom you REALLY had fun... after that, you will miss it and seek it if it is not there.

I also used to look down on men very seriously because of their need for sex, and for their lack of self-control and pride in that area... I used to think women could never be as embarrassing and greedy.
Far from it.
Women can be a hundred times more embarrassing and needy... if the man knows how to handle them.

[lucy]

I used to be able to live without sex for extended periods of time, but well, that only holds true until you met the one guy with whom you REALLY had fun... after that, you will miss it and seek it if it is not there.
That is soooooo true.

[Flaming_Redhead]

OMFG! Arria, I think we're twins separated at birth! *lol* I still feel the sting every time I "ask" for it, whether by not-so-subtle hints that I wanna come over or having to tell him exactly what I want because he's "playing dumb." I hate/love it when he does that. Also, when he says something suggestive to make me think about him and then asks me if my cunt is wet....I never get that repulsed feeling like "ewww he's horny that's all he ever thinks about." No....because I'm horny....and it's positively humiliating how easily I respond to him. I'm usually quite ready before he ever touches me himself, and by the time he does deign to touch my wet pussy, all he has to do is put a finger or his thumb on my clit...and....oooooooooooooooooo! It always takes me by surprise because there I was rubbing the hell out of it and getting nowhere fast! Ppppfffffttttt!

[shayna{L_D}]

Flaming you never cease to amaze me. *chuckles*

[shayna{L_D}]

I'm usually quite ready before he ever touches me himself, and by the time he does deign to touch my wet pussy, all he has to do is put a finger or his thumb on my clit...and....oooooooooooooooooo! It always takes me by surprise because there I was rubbing the hell out of it and getting nowhere fast! Ppppfffffttttt!


my sentiments excatly.

[Flaming_Redhead]

lol @ shayna

Well, if you were watching me, you'd swear I didn't know what the hell I'm doing down there, but it's not that I don't know what to do (I've been doing this for a long time, yanno)....it's that it no longer works for ME the way it used to! It's almost infurating to be rubbing it like he told me to, only to feel like I'm not getting any closer to the fireworks...when he suddenly pushes my hand out of the way and asks, "Is this what you like?" YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

[Jayden McZimmer]

Wow I find that all pretty amazing. I have gotten to know my body pretty well with toys and my hands and I am usually the one pushing their hand out of the way and saying, no...like this lol. I wonder if I will meet a person who will turn my pussy on me! lol Good thread.

[tessa]

It's almost infurating to be rubbing it like he told me to, only to feel like I'm not getting any closer to the fireworks...when he suddenly pushes my hand out of the way and asks, "Is this what you like?" YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Woohoo to takeovers! :jerry:

I guess when you're attracted...erm, addicted to someone, it's just simple like that. As simple and as easy as store-bought pie. Or in your case, biscuits. :D

[satisfied]

Yes. All of that! I have been with man who made me cum regularly during sex.....or rather i made myself cum with the help us his body. Anyway my point is, it's not like all the sex in my past has been mediocre. Yet still, I have never felt like a sex addict until now. I simply cannot get enough of my Master's cock. Just being near him gets me all horny. I was jumping him so much that he had to make me back off for a day. His cock was so sore he didn't want me to touch it. The sad thing is that i still wanted him. He was suffering and I was trying to figure out a way to make him heal faster! I'm such a slut. But only for him. I've never reacted to anyone like this.