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01-26-2009, 05:01 PM
... I'm not talking about the obvious and naughty physical reactions, though of course those deserve a thread of their own. :)
So I recently started playing online with someone seriously for the first time. And, aside from all the sappy gushing that I could say about this thing that we have together, I'd like to pose a question to all you ladies and gentlemen: what kind of physical reactions do you get when you're speaking to your dominant? That's a broad question to pose, and I'd like to hear people's thoughts and how they react generally, but for the sake of discussion I'll say I am particularly interested in responses to humiliation. I notice that when being verbally degraded I get a particular physical reaction - that sort of hide your face, burrow under the covers, writhe-and-squirm tightening. It's like that cute-puppy feeling ('ah! i want to squeeze him!') except without the cute, without the smiling, and with a different kind of delight.
Does anyone else know what I'm talking about/have similar physical sensations (besides the overtly sexual ones) to feeling humiliated? Does anyone experience any different physical reactions? Also, am I right to say it's hard to articulate these feelings? This kind of inarticulateness is particularly frustrating when you're playing online, because it all relies on each partner's ability to convey their reactions as well as their actions. So maybe we can articulate things like that here, with each other, help each other out.
Similarly, when he says something I would find heart-fluttering (god I hate myself, lol) or exceedingly warm and cute, I have the same sort of blush-and-look-down-and-scuffle-feet, roll-around-on-the-bed-and-curl-up-into-a-ball urges. Could there be a connection between infatuation and humiliation? Kidding, kidding: there's no discussion-based motive for that one, now I'm just gushing. :)
So I recently started playing online with someone seriously for the first time. And, aside from all the sappy gushing that I could say about this thing that we have together, I'd like to pose a question to all you ladies and gentlemen: what kind of physical reactions do you get when you're speaking to your dominant? That's a broad question to pose, and I'd like to hear people's thoughts and how they react generally, but for the sake of discussion I'll say I am particularly interested in responses to humiliation. I notice that when being verbally degraded I get a particular physical reaction - that sort of hide your face, burrow under the covers, writhe-and-squirm tightening. It's like that cute-puppy feeling ('ah! i want to squeeze him!') except without the cute, without the smiling, and with a different kind of delight.
Does anyone else know what I'm talking about/have similar physical sensations (besides the overtly sexual ones) to feeling humiliated? Does anyone experience any different physical reactions? Also, am I right to say it's hard to articulate these feelings? This kind of inarticulateness is particularly frustrating when you're playing online, because it all relies on each partner's ability to convey their reactions as well as their actions. So maybe we can articulate things like that here, with each other, help each other out.
Similarly, when he says something I would find heart-fluttering (god I hate myself, lol) or exceedingly warm and cute, I have the same sort of blush-and-look-down-and-scuffle-feet, roll-around-on-the-bed-and-curl-up-into-a-ball urges. Could there be a connection between infatuation and humiliation? Kidding, kidding: there's no discussion-based motive for that one, now I'm just gushing. :)