Greetings

[Subs_Hubby]

So... not sure what to say except I am new here.

I am not really a Sub, and I am not really a Dom. While I have read quite a bit of literature and understand and find some of the information stimulating and consistent with my own growth through the years, I have never wanted to be dominated by anyone, and while I have had fantasies about dominating someone I would never do it without thier consent, so I have never truely acted on those desires.

T
:wave:

[rosebud]

Hi :wave: Welcome to the Library! Enjoy!

[skp2bear]

A very hearty welcome from a Texas sub.

[jeanne]

Hello and welcome!

[Diablo]

Welcome and good luck on your journey.

[DiablosLittleOne]

Welcome to the Library. :)

[Tufty]

Hello and :wel

[notsofast]

So... not sure what to say except I am new here.

I am not really a Sub, and I am not really a Dom. While I have read quite a bit of literature and understand and find some of the information stimulating and consistent with my own growth through the years, I have never wanted to be dominated by anyone, and while I have had fantasies about dominating someone I would never do it without thier consent, so I have never truely acted on those desires.

T
:wave:

Hi Subs_Hubby.

By way of greetings to all may I quote you on that since what you express is very much my own situation. While my fantasy world can be as violent as any (potential) dom's, I have a basic respect for women and would not want to act outside a consenting relationship.

Although I've lurked here for years by registering a few days ago I'm jumping in. This site is the best I've run into and the forums are superb. Now I guess I need to find an avatar, huh? Maybe an image of putting my toe in the water ;)

NotSoFast

[damyanti]

Just enjoy your exploration. Don't obsess over labels, the longer one is in this lifestyle you come to realize that labels are just a crude starting point that give you a basic reference, and that beyond that they don't mean much...especially as everyone has their own definition of it all.

:welcomebo

[Dr_BuzzCzar]

Just enjoy your exploration. Don't obsess over labels, the longer one is in this lifestyle you come to realize that labels are just a crude starting point that give you a basic reference, and that beyond that they don't mean much...especially as everyone has their own definition of it all.

:welcomebo

What she said, in spades. Define yourself, don't let others define you. Enjoy the journey.