StillLearning
02-28-2009, 03:34 PM
My fiance and I are slowly getting into the lifestyle, we're currently restricted in our activities by my pregnancy. I've known for awhile that I'm a submissive, whereas I'm the first partner he's had that has asked him to take on a Dom role.
I've done my best to try to teach him what I need as a sub, and he's willing to learn. The trouble is I've never had a Dom mindset, I don't fully understand that end of the relationship. He's not quite yet comfortable enough to agree to a full sit down and discuss with an experienced Dom.
What can I do to help him understand what it is to be a Dom? How to handle a submissive? I need ways to try to guide him so that our play is more satisfying to us both, without taking over the Dominant role.
I've done my best to try to teach him what I need as a sub, and he's willing to learn. The trouble is I've never had a Dom mindset, I don't fully understand that end of the relationship. He's not quite yet comfortable enough to agree to a full sit down and discuss with an experienced Dom.
What can I do to help him understand what it is to be a Dom? How to handle a submissive? I need ways to try to guide him so that our play is more satisfying to us both, without taking over the Dominant role.