Sexy Ideas for Dominants

[hamlet45]

I thought it might be fun to share sexy and amazing ideas between dominants. Recently i had this amazing fantasy about having a slave serve me domestically and sexually during the super bowl whearing shackles. Do any other Dominants out there have amazing ideas like this?

[hamlet45]

Sorry about the spelling errors in that last post.

[Ozme52]

LOL... sorry hamlet. I don't want to damper your enthusiasm.

Fantasy? It's a fantasy? I was watching the superbowl with my nephew this year, but conceptually, I spent much of the summer with a variety of friends across the country... and yeah... being served and serviced by women in cuffs or shackles is indeed even better in reality than in fantasy.

Another very enjoyable sight (as well as what it leads to) is that of your girl abased on the floor begging to be used. When I was in Gulf Shores... she begged first for a flogging... and later to be ass fucked. (The butt plug had gotten her quite "riled up")

[Archeon]

I thought it might be fun to share sexy and amazing ideas between dominants. Recently i had this amazing fantasy about having a slave serve me domestically and sexually during the super bowl whearing shackles. Do any other Dominants out there have amazing ideas like this?

For fantasies think bigger and with more tentacles :D

[Ozme52]

For fantasies think bigger and with more tentacles :D

LOL Arch. Tentacles and BEMs. ;)

[leah06]

Good job, guys. Way to rain on somebody's parade. What are you, kinkier than thou?

[Ozme52]

Good job, guys. Way to rain on somebody's parade. What are you, kinkier than thou?

Do you really think it was intended to be mean spirited?

I just felt bad he was being totally ignored up to that point... and tried to expand on the idea that it could be more than a fantasy.

But thanks for pointing it out..

Note to self: Don't answer posts by dominants. Our style with each other is upsetting. Just another reason we need a private area I guess. ;)

[leah06]

No, I never thought it was intended to be mean spirited. And yeah, Archeon, I love to have ALL my tentacles shackled when I'm servicing my master. With my mouths, mouths, mouths.

[Miner]

Just another reason we need a private area I guess. ;)

Now that really is a fantasy - and one I share - rotflmao!

[Archeon]

No, I never thought it was intended to be mean spirited. And yeah, Archeon, I love to have ALL my tentacles shackled when I'm servicing my master. With my mouths, mouths, mouths.

See now you are just being impractical, how are you meant to service someone if all your tentacles are shackled!?

[hamlet45]

What this business with tentacles?

[MaxxPayne]

tentacle sex?
its pretty kinky in japan i think!

[hamlet45]

Ahhh... Well anyway on the none tentacle front, I also had my former slave masturbate while half naked standing in front of a mirror with her panties in her mouth. Then she took pictures of the process. It worked out really well and she really enjoyed it.

[Guera]

I was invited to a superbowl party where the men had to crawl around and serve the women the whole time. Interesting as that sounded, it was not enough to make me want to sit through a football game. Some fantasies are just that. :)

[hamlet45]

"Only half naked? "

She had self esteem issues associated with her upper body. So having her stand in front of the mirror was supposed to have a humiliation effect, but not one that would be traumatic. So I permitted her to ewar a t-shirt but no pants.

[TheLimey]

Here's my current idea.

I'm writing a series of scenarios/tasks on note cards. My katze will read them, then we will seal them in envelopes, with a single word description on the front.

katze will choose them herself, in any sequence, at any time she wants to. Repeats are allowed, but not until all have been done at least once.

Tasks range from the mild to some boundary pushing ideas.

[brwneydgirl]

My katze will read them



Is "katze" a term you use to describe her or is it her name?

[TheLimey]

My name for her. It's German for cat....

When we first met she had a cute tendency to meow, which she still does occasionally.

[brwneydgirl]

^Could you give examples of what you consider mild or "boundary pushing"? (if that's too private, please accept my apologies for prying...)

[TheLimey]

No, please pry away...

Here's an example of each...

Mild - kneel on table in living room, oiled up, and masturbate to orgasm 3 times.

Boundary pushing - I have a new electro stim dildo, going to tie her spreadeagled, then over an hour hood her, attach clamps to her labia and nipples, plug her ass, and finally introduce her to the brand new toy...

[brwneydgirl]

^ ohhhh the mind reels...;)

[TheLimey]

;-) I have 18 different tasks so far. If you have any suggestions I'm all ears...

[wappachopper]

Hi am new to this site been a dom for 4 years now. One of my favourite tasks is for sub to kneel dressed in her sub attire and roll a dice whatever number comes up she has to do that many orgasms either to herself or to me within a time frame usually 3 hours if she fails next session i roll the die and deliver the amount of punishments revealed on dice good luck.

[Fiera]

Okay, here's one for the guys!!

This teaches overcoming pain. This teaches conscentration while in task.

First prenegotiate a reward because you want her to consentrate and that reward is what she is looking forward to. Let her know that failure to achieve a task will mean she is to be punished in a way that you see fit.

You stand and she kneels at your feet. You are holding a crop. Instruct her to lick your balls like she loves them. You lightly tap her bum with the crop over and over and be consistant. Then you instruct her to take your left ball into her mouth and suck gently. Increase the slap of the crop. Remind her to concentrate on the task. She may not bite no matter how bad the pain is. Then instruct her to go suck your right ball and again increase the pain. Finally instruct her to take in both of your balls and do it without using her hands. Give her more pain than before.

What she will learn is that she is able to take far more pain than she thought she was capable because she is concentrating. She will learn to listen to you and to concentrate on what you say. This is an enjoyable task for both people!:span:

[Fiera]

Lay out all of your toys on a blanket on the floor. The submissive is on their knees.

Tell them they are to pick the toy which you are thinking about with their mouth. If they get it right they get a reward. If they pick the wrong one then punish them either with what they have choosen or with something you've choosen ahead of time.

This is a no win situation and they are in fact set up for failure. They realize this, but we both know they want it both ways so enjoy! :wave:

[Lisais mine]

i tell you, my one of my favorite things is the idea of her waiting in our foyer naked and kneeling with her head down, holding my cane. and the sound of her voice asking me to use it....

[Tomcatdye{qtkitten}]

Something i have often fantasized about is a combination of Orgasm control/denial, along with holding a pose and staying in place while being stimulated.. My thought have always turned to using my sub as a Lap table, for a meal or perhaps while i'm doing a drawing or other piece of artwork, Stimulating her with my weak hand, or if i need both hands, with a remote vibe, while I work on whatever I choose, Forcing her to not only withhold her orgasm, but also to withhold her urge to twitch and move to try to escape the sensations. Another way to adapt this is to get her a task such as reading and memorizing something while you work on playing her body, with a test after you finish your work or meal as she is coming down from her orgasm...with further punishment for wrong answer afterwards...

Just one of my many pleasing torture ideas,

Tom

[scarlet_85]

Thank you all ;) my *fave* is the dice game.

[Nicipac]

I'm new here but I thought this was a dominant's posting forum! slave/sub's are welcome to read... I guess that is permissible...But not to post!!! I trust the Dom's that own those sub's have sufficiently punished them for their actions.

[scarlet_85]

I'm new here but I thought this was a dominant's posting forum! slave/sub's are welcome to read... I guess that is permissible...But not to post!!! I trust the Dom's that own those sub's have sufficiently punished them for their actions.

I have seen many threads in the Dominant Dungeon and the Q&A for Dominants forums that have slaves/subs post and reply. I feel that this site is somewhat of a support group where we can all get advice from other members of the society regardless of title. I love that there is a nice balance of Dominant and submissive replies. It really helps see all kinds of views on the subject.

As far as being punished goes for posting on a Dom/mes thread, my Master supports me being a part of this on-line community. We are not into on-line play. We both feel the real life relationship is far more fulfilling. So, He supports my involvement in the threads.

I understand what you are saying though. if a rule for your sub was to not post in a Dominants thread, that sub should receive a punishment for disobeying if they did not follow orders.

[scarlet_85]

I'm new here but I thought this was a dominant's posting forum! slave/sub's are welcome to read... I guess that is permissible...But not to post!!! I trust the Dom's that own those sub's have sufficiently punished them for their actions.

I have seen many threads in the Dominant Dungeon and the Q&A for Dominants forums that have slaves/subs post and reply. I feel that this site is somewhat of a support group where we can all get advice from other members of the society regardless of title. I love that there is a nice balance of Dominant and submissive replies. It really helps see all kinds of views on the subject.

As far as being punished goes for posting on a Dom/mes thread, my Master supports me being a part of this on-line community. We are not into on-line play. We both feel the real life relationship is far more fulfilling. So, He supports my involvement in the threads.

I understand what you are saying though. if a rule for your sub was to not post in a Dominants thread, that sub should receive a punishment for disobeying if they did not follow orders.

[denuseri]

If Im not mistaken the different areas are divided by main topic, not by the assumed titular distinctions of the individuals who are posting in a paticular area, unless otherwise directed for specific access of a controlled group.

[Ozme52]

I'm new here but I thought this was a dominant's posting forum! slave/sub's are welcome to read... I guess that is permissible...But not to post!!! I trust the Dom's that own those sub's have sufficiently punished them for their actions.

Well, whether one agrees or not, that's not how this venue works. So everyone cross posts on all the threads.
You'll see some conversations elsewhere on the very issue.

There used to be a sub's only area which we (dominants) couldn't even view, but nothing similar was created for us... nor did the sub's space survive long. Apparently it took too much moderation.

[scarlet_85]

I just realized that I posted that up there twice... my browser was acting up. Lol I don't know how to delete it! I swear that was a red moment! :P

[Nicipac]

My apologies..I seem to have taken the title of this forum too literal. Thank you for enlightening me. I'll chock it up to being new to this site. Play well and Be safe

[scarlet_85]

My apologies..I seem to have taken the title of this forum too literal. Thank you for enlightening me. I'll chock it up to being new to this site. Play well and Be safe

Welcome to the site by the way! I hope you meet all kinds of fun people! :)