caligatia
10-17-2004, 05:01 PM
If there's already a thread on this subject, let me know and I'll go there. I didn't see one, and the search feature turned up nothing, so here goes.
I've been poly since my first relationship, back when I was a teenager. My dom, on the other hand, is very much the monogamous sort. Since we've gotten deeper into BDSM, he feels more comfortable with my taking other lovers because there's something special between us -- he will have no other subs/slaves, and I will have no other masters. We're both quite happy with this arrangement, although we haven't tried out my sexual freedoms yet. I'm switch and bisexual, so if I go looking for someone it will probably be a submissive female, the opposite of my male dom fiance.
I'm new to the forum, but in looking around on the boards I've seen a number of polyamorists here. So I was wondering what sorts of arrangements you have with your significant others, how BDSM affects your poly-ness (and vice versa), and if you have any suggestions for my dom, who's still getting used to the idea of me being with other people...
Thanks!
I've been poly since my first relationship, back when I was a teenager. My dom, on the other hand, is very much the monogamous sort. Since we've gotten deeper into BDSM, he feels more comfortable with my taking other lovers because there's something special between us -- he will have no other subs/slaves, and I will have no other masters. We're both quite happy with this arrangement, although we haven't tried out my sexual freedoms yet. I'm switch and bisexual, so if I go looking for someone it will probably be a submissive female, the opposite of my male dom fiance.
I'm new to the forum, but in looking around on the boards I've seen a number of polyamorists here. So I was wondering what sorts of arrangements you have with your significant others, how BDSM affects your poly-ness (and vice versa), and if you have any suggestions for my dom, who's still getting used to the idea of me being with other people...
Thanks!