SubmissiveCandy
03-29-2010, 09:12 PM
Hello fellow subbies!
I'm working on orgasm control with my Dom and I am very excited about it but yet at the same time I'm scared that I will fail. In the past I have had a lot of issues about not being able to orgasm during sex. I can't even get off if I don't have toys to play with. I've never been able to achieve and orgasm by myself without the aid of toys in other words....and I've tried trust me.
Sir and I finally got to meet after 5 months of talking and I couldn't believe it when he sternly spoke "Cum now!" and I did. I was surprised and shocked at the same time because I wasn't expecting it at all! I was so happy after that happened.
I guess what I'm looking for is, in training for orgasm control with your Dom/me, was it worth it? How long did it take? I want to orgasm on command so bad for Sir and I know I have to be patient with it but...I'm scared about doing it because I feel like I will fail Him after my past issues.
Any help from you all will be most appreciated.
Hugs and kisses to you all!
SubCandy
I'm working on orgasm control with my Dom and I am very excited about it but yet at the same time I'm scared that I will fail. In the past I have had a lot of issues about not being able to orgasm during sex. I can't even get off if I don't have toys to play with. I've never been able to achieve and orgasm by myself without the aid of toys in other words....and I've tried trust me.
Sir and I finally got to meet after 5 months of talking and I couldn't believe it when he sternly spoke "Cum now!" and I did. I was surprised and shocked at the same time because I wasn't expecting it at all! I was so happy after that happened.
I guess what I'm looking for is, in training for orgasm control with your Dom/me, was it worth it? How long did it take? I want to orgasm on command so bad for Sir and I know I have to be patient with it but...I'm scared about doing it because I feel like I will fail Him after my past issues.
Any help from you all will be most appreciated.
Hugs and kisses to you all!
SubCandy