Orgasm so intense it made you cry?

[Phantome]

Well, like the question says- ever had an orgasm or sexual experience so intense or emotional that it was overwhelming or made you cry? Care to share your story?

Today my DH and I were just having a normal, ordinary, vanilla, missionary, Sunday afternoon shag. We were just kind of giggly, relaxed, having a nice day off, etc. I had a little orgasm when we first started going at it, but kept on because it was so piddly and I wanted more. Well, we ended up orgasming at the same time (didn't know that happened outside of romance novels...), and mine was so intense that I was shaking and felt my whole body contracting. I squirted a little, too, which has never happened for me in intercourse.

I was completely over the moon, and felt so physically and emotionally overwhelmed that I was crying and laughing and embarrased at my bizzarre reaction to perfectly ordinary sex. We both thought it was quite a good time, but it admittedly took a few minutes for me to get my thoughts and emotions straight- I couldn't tell if I was happy or upset or stressed about something else or what, so I might've acted a little wierd at first. I trembled for some time afterward, but in the end decided that it was just so good that crying was the only logical response my brain could think of. I don't know why, but today I had some damn fine, out-of-this-world, didn't-know-it-could-feel-this-good sex. :)

How about you?

-Phan

[the_moirae]

In private yes, I have cried during orgasm - for various reasons on different occasions (i.e., happiness/relief, but more often due to less positive emotions). I suspect, should I ever experience release while in the presence of another human being, I will/would cry then as well.

[sdgirl]

It's happened to me several times in my life.

[brwneydgirl]

I have cried once during orgasm. I'm not sure really why it happened; I wasn't feeling particularly sad at the time or anything like that. More often, if the sex/climax has been completely incredible, I giggle...not for a whole long while or anything, just a minute or two... but...

God, I love it when that happens. :D

[denuseri]

Its perfectly natural.

I do it myself on more occasions than I care to recount here.

As for why it happens, I am sure the reasons are as many and varied as anything else in sex.

[13'sbadkitty]

the same has happened to me, and i can't even say there is a story worth telling to go with it.

[roxi.slut]

Oh yes, perfectly natural, there are many reasons for it, and it has always been a pleasureable experience for me. Don't worry about it when it happens, just go with it and enjoy!

[Snark]

Hey, if it feels good.....

[Jennifer Williams]

I cry all the time after a good orgasm. It's just after you feel something so intense, you need another release, or that's what it is for me. Then I get all clingy and that's when crazy pillow-talk things come out of my mouth :)

[wyldrose]

i haven't cried from sex... although Master and i have been known to just start laughing and be unable to stop afterwards for a good 10 minutes.. emotions are crazy things!

[fetishdj]

Oh yes, it does happen... It happens quite often when I have sex with my wife that she will cry (in a good way... :) ) and it has even happened to me a few times when it was so intense.

[wife mom slave]

it has happened to me a few times. I remember once i was laughing and crying all at once, things just got way intense. one of the many joys of sex..lol

[BryansGrrrl]

On a few occasions. Usually it is a sense of being overwhelmed with love for Him and by the beauty of us being together. There just aren't words sometimes for the intense emotions that happen, and then yes... the only logical response is to cry. LOL Or cry and laugh... or whatever.

The only other time I've cried that wasn't quite like this was during sub-drop, but I assumed you were talking about being in a fairly rational state of mind when you started crying, so this has less to do with that. ;)

[nawteeone]

I have definitely cried. For me, it's a matter usually of having pent up emotions, whatever they might be: extreme arousal, stress, hormones. But for some reason adding physical intensity is what sends me over the top. I don't think if I were in a normal every day type of mood the physical act of sex could make me cry.

I've asked M to whip me til I cry, but that hasn't happened yet. ;)

[munajadida]

I've never cried from an orgasm, but once I almost cried during sex just because it was so intense. I kept myself from doing it because I was freaked out and it probably reduced my orgasm somewhat. Withdrawing is never helpful, letting yourself succumb to the sensations will intensify everything. If it happens again, I'm going to try and relax and let it happen.

[Misato36]

I have cried during intense orgasms before. Once I even blacked out but my old master had also denied me an orgasm for three days.

[DIXIE LASS]

I have one of three reactions. By far the most common is I get an intense attack of giggles. The intensity and length of my giggle fit usually depends on the intensity of the sex. I've had to apologize more than once to a man who thought I was laughing at him. I just can't control them though. Very infrequently, one of two other reactions happen. I cry, just as you did........just burst out bawling and squalling like my heart is going to break. I think this has always happened after simultaneous orgasms. And, I also occasionally pass out, usually after a really intense orgasm.

Funny thing is, this happens online as well as real life. I've passed out a few times cybering. I get the giggles the rest of the time. I haven't ever cried online though, just real life.

[cadence]

I get the giggles too.

It happened enough times where I stopped the orgasm before I could start giggling.
My first orgasm is intense enough that I can't ever have another one right after, or maybe it just hasn't really been tried yet.

[DomBob]

My wife and I were having sex about 3 weeks ago and I gave her what I thought was a good, but not outstanding orgasm, and her orgasm-face continued on and she started crying. Then she was embarrassed for ruining the moment and cried some more.

(Things have been going bad for her at work, her training, etc so a dam opened.)

After several minutes of cuddling and crying, she was still teary and again apologized. "Dont worry" I said, "I'm telling myself I'm so huge I made you cry!" - the tears immediately changed to laughter.

This has happened several times over the years. The rush of emotions brings out stuff that is un-expected. Sometimes it's tears, sometimes anger, sometimes depression.

[RopeKing]

This thread made great reading and brought to mind an ex-lover. She cried everytime she orgasmed (no chance of her faking one). At first I found it disconcerting but soon I learnt to really love her out pouring of emotion. There was nothing sad or upsetting it just seemed to be how she was wired.

Thanks for stimulating those happy memories.

[wicker]

I often cry during sex, normally its because of the overwhelming emotions, love, hate, call it whatever, but its probably the most liberated I feel, what can anyone say, its good isn't it darling, mmm??

[sweetlynaughty]

I have cried two different times from an orgasm but more often then not if the orgasm is intense, I giggle and laugh. What can I say *shrugs* I'm a happy person and life is good!

Happy Orgasming!!

[PixieStick]

While I have yet to experience a crying O, I have done the giggling one,and its was fun! The most profound O Ive ever had was just like with the OP, simultaneous release... It was a, every other sense got numbed except for feeling... I couldnt hear, could only see the stars flashing behind my eyes.... I would definitley recommend! lmao

[understudy]

I have cried from frustration over not being able to achieve an orgasm but luckily that doesn't happen too often and not for a long time now. So, crying during orgasm, no, giggling, no......Screaming? YES! YES! YES!

[littlepony1]

um..this happens quite often with me. i find orgasms i have with my masters permission are way more intense and overwhelming than otherwise. very messy, squirty most times (a different thread??), and sometimes leave me emotionally quite drained. crying yes, and sometimes laughing or just feeling delighted. *does a big grin*

[ranssub87]

I have never cried, giggled or passed out from orgasm although I frequently have extremely intense orgasms and also multiple orgasms. I think my husband has a trick that he just won't stop whatever he is doing. He will carry on through the orgasm and afterwards not letting me calm down, I think this is what stops me doing the above.
And just to add - I also scream VERY loudly!
:D

[SubmissiveShiver]

I occasionally cry or "crygasim" as my friends call it. It is always out of happiness and relief. I go from being a tigress to a crying, nuzzling kitten in 30 seconds, but it is always a happy event.

[ha'bb]

I've never come during sex but I have cried during sex because it was so intense. I'm not perfect during sex and my Dom and I have a lot to work out when it comes to it. We usually just jump right in because neither of us have the patience for foreplay. But, because of this, sex usually starts of painful for me (which I kinda like :) ). Anyways, near the end, it wasn't painful at all. After a bit of stretching it felt good. Really good. I didn't think a guy could make me feel this good (and loved). Before I knew it, tears started welling in my eyes. When Ed, my Dom, asked me why I was crying and I told him, it didn't take long for him to finish because he was very flattered and proud and, most of all, happy for me.

It's not happened since then but I did enjoy it.

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

I often cry during sex, normally its because of the overwhelming emotions, love, hate, call it whatever, but its probably the most liberated I feel, what can anyone say, its good isn't it darling, mmm??

I am also a crier. I cry a LOT these days, more so than I ever have in my life. I become overwhelmed with emotion and I just can't stop myself. I think Master likes it though, because it means He is totally in control of me and I am helpless but to react to everything He does. Orgasms especially, because this is the first time in my life I actually let it all out. I hide nothing, and the freedom in that evokes such intense emotion the tears just flow.

Even when He can't see me, He knows I am crying. I have never cried so much from pure elation and satisfaction in my life as I do now. Master commands me to give it to Him, give Him all I have, and I do, no holding back. That is definitely cry-worthy, dontcha think?

[agog ab]

This happened to me for the first time during my visit to Master for New Years. I thought it might be a one time thing (hahaha), but it happened twice when He was here a few weeks ago. Once was during a play session that lasted for a while, but it happened the first time we had sex again. So I guess it just took the right person to get me to that place :)

[Jacee]

i tend to have a giggle attack after a very intense orgasm, and sometimes i tear up but thats just from giggling so hard. i love it when this happens and honestly i don't think i could stop it even if i wanted to, which i don't :)

[LadyArana]

I have experienced orgasms this intense multiple times. In fact, I'm lucky to have experienced more than one of said acheivments within one session. I don't know how on Earth Torian makes me do it, but he's the only person who has ever been able to more than once. I think that acheiving an orgasm that provides such a cathartic release that you end up crying from the sheer pleasure of it is something that every woman should experience at least once in their lives. There CAN be a few problems with it, especially if it freaks out your partner. I've had a couple experiences where my sexual partner at the time became seriously concerned when I experience this with them. I had to explain that it was a good thing. Which these particular men had a hard time understanding because they didn't realize that a woman crying could actually be a GOOD thing. It's a unique situation each time it happens, so my best suggestion is to just go with the flow, so to speak.

[sexyslave69]

I have cried about 6-9 times while having an orgasm.For me it was like channeling all the emotions and intensity on the tip of a pencil.I know that sounds weird but not sure how else to explain it.I still do it on occasion.

[ksst]

I do feel that way sometimes as well. It's like the crying at the end of a very sappy movie or at a wedding- happy crying, not sad. My husband did not understand and thought he had done something wrong. I couldn't really explain. Sometimes I laugh and cry at the same time. Is good.