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blacqcobra
04-30-2010, 06:09 PM
Hello my name is Blacqcobra; As most of you can probably tell from my awkwardness I am some what new to this. Thus pardon my clumsiness I'm on this site because one I am a submissive. I have been in search of people with whom I can share my interest with, without feeling like some pervert I hope you will help me through this new adventure I am about to undertake.
I must be honest I have been to many sites and have come away less than pleased to say the least. I accidently discovered this site while on Twitter from one of your members, who's name I must keep to myself as I do not know all of your rules and do not wish to get the person in trouble.
I don't know what else to say and as my Ol' man said " Son, know when to stop!!":wave::wave::wave:
denuseri
04-30-2010, 07:32 PM
Welcome to the Library!
MistressMallory
04-30-2010, 08:25 PM
Heya and welcome!
I'm new here too, so I can understand feeling awkward, especially about such a "sensitive" topic. But so far I've found that everyone here is great, and the information I've gotten has been helpful as I train my first sub. ;)
Trust me, you're no pervert, there are a bunch of us out here and it's nice to get to talk amongst friends.
If you ever need any advice, especially from the Dom/Domme's point of view, feel free to drop me a line.
Good luck!!
-MissMal
Tufty
05-01-2010, 01:52 AM
:wel
No, you're not a pervert. Just because you like different things, it doesn't make it wrong :) Forget about what society dictates to be the 'norm' and remember that we are all individuals with our own likes and dislikes.
Enjoy the site :)
Archeon
05-01-2010, 07:29 AM
And even if you are a pervert, here it is generally regarded as a good thing ;)
Regards,
Arch
lambie
05-01-2010, 08:11 AM
hello and welcome to the library, maybe ill see ya in chat sometime, have fun
Furyious
05-01-2010, 11:48 AM
I feel the same way. I haven't introduced myself because I feel awkward. I started looking because I've always had these feelings, always liked to be submissive sexually, but thought it was some kind of perversion. I still don't know if this is the right place for me because I don't want my nipples clamped or shocked. I just know that I'm not happy unless I'm submissive. It makes me feel feminine, I think.
chalsia
05-01-2010, 07:21 PM
since when is pervert such a bad thing anyway?
welcome.. i wish you happiness.. and a wealth of information. You are one of the fortunate ones that found a great little *patch* on the vastness of the internet.
rosebud
05-05-2010, 09:01 AM
Hello, Welcome to the Library!