slave and her Master

[mystikal_in_KY]

hello we are just getting into this and we are enjoying it but are looking for doms and slaves with exp to give us tips and advice SOON!!! please help

[denuseri]

Welcome to the Library!

What specific advice and tips are you interested in exactly?

[mystikal_in_KY]

we are new couple she is sub/slave he is dom/ master and he really needs advice on how to really train her properly and turn her on to give her what she needs from a good master

[denuseri]

Has he tried asking her what turns her on?

[flying66]

Has he tried asking her what turns her on?

<-- denu, I lol'd XD

There's a bdsm checklist around here somewhere and you mark the whole thing on a scale of 1-5 ... why don't you both do it and see what sounds erotic to the both of you.

Remember SSC... Safe, Sane and Consensual. There's a whole slew of bdsm safety concerns like "never leave someone tied up unattended and never leave them tied up for over an hour" and here's another big one... bacteria!!! I know in porn we see a lot of ass-to-mouth and ass-to-vagina double dipping but in real life that's rather unsanitary and can lead to very unhappy illnesses which include things like e.coli ...

bacteria lives in the large intestine, and it's not harmful there... in fact, it's healthy there... but this same bacteria would be harmful if ingested and is quite unhappy in the stomach.

as a general rule, if it goes in the ass, then it shouldn't go anywhere else after that.

browse the site, you can't touch on all the points of 'what to do' all in one go.

[denuseri]

And actually we have a very informative thread on the whole ass to mouth thing...which explains the pros and cons as well as the "general rules" in detail for those who are interested.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=18694

[Ozme52]

Go through the BDSM A Thru Z section, you'll see conversations on lots of topics.

Search further on the ones that interest you.

I also suggest searching on "positions" "orgasm control" and "training" to get more information on training goals and techniques.

[mystikal_in_KY]

thanks to all for the suggestions ....we are learning pretty quickly