An Idea For Tasking On Line

[snowflake]

an idea for tasking online..

Some of... actually most of the Dom/mes i have spoke to have said it is impossible to task for house cleaning on line and it is hard to come up with tasks because of this ..

Just an idea.. with technology the way it is cell phones or digital cameras may be the answer...

Most cellphones have a camera and both cells and cameras now a days will connect to your comp with a simple wire .. also most have the time and dates stamp feature..

Why not each day have your sub take pics of certain rooms.. then upload them to you.. Then you can see the state of her/his home and you can give orders from that in task list form.. also with a time line for it to be completed..

Once she/he has finish said task list or the time runs out she must take a pic of each room you have given orders for .. this way you know if she completed it and you can either punish or reward which ever fits ..

Now in the case that she/he doesn't not have the time stamp feature you can have her/him place something that was in the picture in a different location example: the coffee maker on the other end of the counter .. or oven mitts in front of the sink say in the kitchen..

i hope this helps some of you that have had problems this way ..

Remember even though such things may not be a turn on sexually it is a reward when you can control your sub enough to have these things accomplished just for you.. for the Dom/me that she/he wishes to serve.. It also might be a need for the sub and it is part of looking after our subs... Wanting to do and please their Sir/Miss to a good sub is one of the most important things that can be accomplished.. BDSM is not just about sex it is about doing for someone we care for and wish to please..

just a thought...

hugs
snow

[denuseri]

Whats wrong with trusting the online or long distances submissive at their word?

[snowflake]

1. i would say nothing but most Dom's use that as an excuse that they can't see what needs to be done and if it has been done how do they know .. well there is the problem solved .. i know you and i would be honest but some would not they don't take this life seriously as Dom/mes have found out .. just like us subs having trust issues with Dom/mes the Dom/mes have the same issues just in different ways and learn from that as we learn as well .. this is a guaranteed way to know for sure..

i agree denuseri that the trust should be there and is with most that truly want to please but unfortunately there is always a few bad apples in the bunch.... in this case that would want to get the treat when it is not due..

2. The other prob .. if the Dom/mes can't see what is to be done .. how can they give direction or a time limit if they can't see what they are dealing with ???.. that is why i actually came up with this so they can see and can give the direction that is needed ..

hugs
snow

[VaAugusta]

If you have text messaging, you can take a picture with your phone, then text the picture to your email address. Simply type in: 'name'@yahoo/hotmail/etc.com and then the picture will come in the form of an email.

[snowflake]

If you have text messaging, you can take a picture with your phone, then text the picture to your email address. Simply type in: 'name'@yahoo/hotmail/etc.com and then the picture will come in the form of an email.

i agree as well with that especially those that do not have the wire to connect to the comp..thank for the add-on ..

[Dejah Thoris]

an idea for tasking online..

Remember even though such things may not be a turn on sexually it is a reward when you can control your sub enough to have these things accomplished just for you.. BDSM is not just about sex it is about doing for someone we care for and wish to please..


Snow,

I was thinking along these lines just today. I have no doubt that my Dom knows 100% that I am truthful in all things, because I have had to admit to a couple of BIG screw ups that I felt could have ruined one or more aspects of our relationship. I would rather be honest and alone than involved with someone in a lie.

However, as his control over my daily life becomes more and more prevalent AND since he is so far away, I see the appeal of your idea. Not because I feel the need to 'prove' I have been truthful in my household tasks, but because I know it will reach the point of "What's mine is yours. See it when you like, tell me how I can best make you happy by changing it".

Some of my favorite times so far have been the non-sexual interactions. Good luck to you, and please do keep posting ideas for those of us who serve at a distance. :cool:

[fetishdj]

I think the Dom/mes you have talked to who say it is impossible to do housework tasks are in error. Its not impossible to do housework tasks, what you are talking about is a difficulty in reporting on said tasks. You can assign the task, sub can do the task the problem you are talking about is proving it has been done. And that is not so much an impossibility but a difficulty.

Digital photos have been used in online tasking for a long time, ever since digicams became cheaper and widely available. Its certainly easier than the previous set up where photos had to be developed and with developing companies often reporting 'unusual' photos to the police this usually meant having to have your own dark room :)

BTW, to add to your thought, some camera phones have GPS in them and you can turn on a setting to implant the GPS co-ordinates into the photo data which means that someone who recieves the photo can, with the right software, see where the photo was taken (mine does it as an arrow in google maps)

For housework tasks I would say that video is also a good way to provide proof. You can set up a phone camera with a video setting and record a sequence of you doing the task, upload it to a computer and place it on a file sharing site for viewing. Far better than a photo.

Though, in my experience, sometimes the gathering of proof can get in the way of the task itself (I have spent ages trying to set up a camera correctly to record a task and have it not work and have to set it up again... its a pain). Also, it is very difficult to write a convincing report of a task you have not done - the feelings and experiences are sometimes difficult to fake and it is easy to make a mistake that reveals the lie.

[snowflake]

I think the Dom/mes you have talked to who say it is impossible to do housework tasks are in error. Its not impossible to do housework tasks, what you are talking about is a difficulty in reporting on said tasks.

Actually dj you are a bit off .. This idea came from Dom/mes telling me they could not see my place so how could they task me .. Some people can say the kitchen is a mess but actually there is only some sweeping to be done and a few dishes .. other say it and they mean the counter is full and over flowing .. The floor needs a scrubbing the counter tops are a mess and so on ... This way the Dom can actually see the task at hand that needs to be done and give a proper time-limit and direction to his exact wants not just clean the kitchen .. but say the front of the counters are messy he can go as far as saying the cupboards are a a mess wash all of them down ..

That is exactly why i came up with it ... You can't truly give direction on cleaning unless you can actually see it..

The reason i had said an after pic was not only for honesty .. but for the sub to show how well she/he did to prove to her Dom/me how far and to what extent she has done for him/her..i don't know about you but as a sub i take pride in what i do .. it has to be perfect to please my Sir/ Ma'am and for them to see it and possibly get praised for a job well done makes me feel worthy.. if they can't see it they can not extend their pleasure or disappointment in the job done.. This way i know i have truly accomplished their expectation or even done more then they wished in his / her eyes and thoughts..
For me this is a positive thing and makes me feel good inside but that is me not everyone gets the pleasure i do in serving and pleasing my Sir/Ma'am

Just my opinion

hugs
snow

[denuseri]

BTW, to add to your thought, some camera phones have GPS in them and you can turn on a setting to implant the GPS co-ordinates into the photo data which means that someone who recieves the photo can, with the right software, see where the photo was taken (mine does it as an arrow in google maps)


This feature also happans to occur automatically with a lot of different forms of digital picture taking and sending equipment. (in some cases it cannot be turned off)

Which is reason #2 why I shy away from advising anyone to use cams/phones, or pics in any online capacity...especially when congressing with someone you have so much as never met in real life and therefore cant possibley really know them or their true intentions for you or the pictures you provided in good faith.

[Jennifer Williams]

I actually enjoy having my online sub have to describe to me what he is doing with words. I suppose verbal communication is easier for some than for others, but when you get down into having to describe the details yourself with words, it makes you have to think about it and say it and admit it, and that alone can have nice psychological effects.

For example, if you said your kitchen was messy I'd simply respond with "What does 'messy' mean?" Then you have to think about it and describe the objects in the room yourself, which can get your mental juices flowing.

However, if you were wanting to move from an online relationship to a real one, or if you've already known the person in real-life and now you're far away and are using the internet to keep in touch, then I think pictures are an excellent idea; I suppose they are kind of like a step between "internet" and "real". Just always keep in mind that anything you put up on the internet could potentially be seen by someone else.

[PixieStick]

Good thread! =)