View Full Version : Humiliation ideas and other stuff
Beckielou
05-17-2010, 05:30 PM
So I'm in an online thing and master and i had a session and it was verbal humiliation mainly coz we can't exactly do much else, anyway, he's been calling me a dirty little cum slut whore, and i was literally getting more n more turned on.
What kind of humiliation does your dom's/masters/mistresses do to you? I'm new to the whole BSDM thing too so I want to try and get as much info and that as possible.
Also what kind of things can you do in an online relationship? So far all we've done is ice cubes (did it today and WOW amazing), self bondage, light spanking with a ruler, tickling (like that worked) orgasm denial/control, nipple/clit clamps, gagging, n i think thats about it.
Thanks!
denuseri
05-17-2010, 05:31 PM
First off,,,just wondering why he isnt the one here asking the questions...isnt it going to ruin it for you to know what he is planning ahead of time?
Beckielou
05-17-2010, 05:37 PM
maybe, but he keeps telling me to research things we can do in a session, so i thought why not on here....
denuseri
05-17-2010, 09:21 PM
And where is he reserching?
Guera
05-17-2010, 10:49 PM
its all good, Beckie will be able to move on
denuseri
05-18-2010, 12:50 PM
Have you tried off line tasks yet?
One good one is being sent to a grocery store (not the one you go to all the time) to purchase one or two cucumbers (or ears of corn on the cobb if your really kinky) and a tube of ky jelly and no other products.
The looks you get will be well worth the delishious feeling of humiliation that wets your thighs.
Of course later on when back online, you can allways be made to do things with your new found vegetable friends and of course should lick them clean when your done...if not be told to take a bite or two.
nawteeone
05-18-2010, 01:07 PM
First off,,,just wondering why he isnt the one here asking the questions...isnt it going to ruin it for you to know what he is planning ahead of time?
LOL, maybe she's like me and likes to have a certain amount of control as a sub. ;) Not to mention that knowing exactly what's coming and squirming while you wait for it sometimes proves to be hotter than the act itself. M often puts it on me to come up with punishments/humiliation. Part of it I think is that he runs out of ideas (we've been going at this for 10 years now) and the other is he knows I like to have a say in things. What can I say? I'm a conflicted sort.
Oh, and thick, knobby carrots work just fine too. :p
denuseri
05-18-2010, 01:13 PM
But they are not nearly as big around or bumpy as the corn lol. Though you can allways go for more than one carrot. Ginger works too btw among other things. Perhaps a dildo coated in aqua fresh toothpaste for th back end...that way if you fart later it will be minty fresh.
fetishdj
05-19-2010, 02:58 AM
You could also be sent into a sex shop and ask to see a variety of dildos and vibrators, asking questions about them of the staff in there...
Masturbation in public toilets is also a common online assigned real time task.
Inserting dildos, butt plugs etc then a rope harness under clothes and walking round a public park or shopping centre. Bonus points for adding a vibrator that is on all the time you are walking... No one can see it but you know it is there and it does affect how you feel in public.
Beckielou
05-19-2010, 10:35 AM
And where is he reserching?
Urm his cousin (he's a dom) and the internet, I think.
LOL, maybe she's like me and likes to have a certain amount of control as a sub. Not to mention that knowing exactly what's coming and squirming while you wait for it sometimes proves to be hotter than the act itself. M often puts it on me to come up with punishments/humiliation. Part of it I think is that he runs out of ideas (we've been going at this for 10 years now) and the other is he knows I like to have a say in things. What can I say? I'm a conflicted sort.
Oh, and thick, knobby carrots work just fine too.
Yeah I like control with it, I know he's my Master but I like to have some say of what's happening.
You could also be sent into a sex shop and ask to see a variety of dildos and vibrators, asking questions about them of the staff in there...
Masturbation in public toilets is also a common online assigned real time task.
Inserting dildos, butt plugs etc then a rope harness under clothes and walking round a public park or shopping centre. Bonus points for adding a vibrator that is on all the time you are walking... No one can see it but you know it is there and it does affect how you feel in public.
Huh, I guess. but :S I dunno. I'll talk to him about all of these points!
Thank you guys :)
nawteeone
05-19-2010, 12:13 PM
Trust me.....I was thinking about the corn last night.:d
brace [EDQ]
01-08-2012, 12:07 PM
Idea 1) Put your dirty panties in your mouth, then go shopping. Bring a pad of paper and a pen, just in case you absolutely need to communicate with a complete stranger in your mute state.
Idea 2) Go to a pharmacy. Ask the help questions about adult diapers. Buy a pack. Walk to the car with it visible, then exchange it for a different size. And you know using them will be humbling as well.