Red Dragon {mpellegrino}
07-09-2010, 01:40 AM
Aloha all
I am not really a poster on the forums but decided I wanted some feed back that the Blog doesn't give as most people don't read the blog it seems. (You should great new blog there by 'serviam' which is informative to Dom, sub, male and female alike - check it out and give him support for his blog)
I love to set tasks and in days gone by was a Task Master in the old Tasking Forum. I no longer take part in the new one I am afraid, mainly (I used to think) because it seems to lack the personal Tasker/taskee interplay it used to have. (Please Minxy, Deels or T shoot me in flames if I am misguided.) However that is not the subject of this post. I still get pm and emails from time to tome asking me to set tasks and follow up in the old way and this week I had a male sub approach me on recommendation of a female for a task. I set task and all is wonderful.
Except... it does nothing for me to set males tasks!. That does seem unreasonable to me. But it made me think that perhaps it is more the policy of sexual equality in the setting of gender non specific tasks where ever possible in the tasking forum that actually is my problem.
Sorry folks it seems that old Dragon is just an old SEXIST!
Now as all who know me know, there are few as chilled and as accepting of all as old Dragon. But I am afraid I am just a male heterosexual. So setting tasks keeping in mind males might ask/do them just does not light my flame. (shrugs) I will be playful in the chat room with them and many are friends but it kind of turns me off that I cannot as principal set gender specific tasks. This I think is the real reason I don't join the tasking forum again (Not much loss you probably think LOL).
So I just wondered if anyone else had thoughts about this. (I don't mean one's criticising the tasking forum lots love it) Do you have views about the sexist Dragon? Am I in a minority? Should there be somewhere for taskees and Taskers to have gender specific tasking?
Well just a thought any way. Respectfully Dragon
I am not really a poster on the forums but decided I wanted some feed back that the Blog doesn't give as most people don't read the blog it seems. (You should great new blog there by 'serviam' which is informative to Dom, sub, male and female alike - check it out and give him support for his blog)
I love to set tasks and in days gone by was a Task Master in the old Tasking Forum. I no longer take part in the new one I am afraid, mainly (I used to think) because it seems to lack the personal Tasker/taskee interplay it used to have. (Please Minxy, Deels or T shoot me in flames if I am misguided.) However that is not the subject of this post. I still get pm and emails from time to tome asking me to set tasks and follow up in the old way and this week I had a male sub approach me on recommendation of a female for a task. I set task and all is wonderful.
Except... it does nothing for me to set males tasks!. That does seem unreasonable to me. But it made me think that perhaps it is more the policy of sexual equality in the setting of gender non specific tasks where ever possible in the tasking forum that actually is my problem.
Sorry folks it seems that old Dragon is just an old SEXIST!
Now as all who know me know, there are few as chilled and as accepting of all as old Dragon. But I am afraid I am just a male heterosexual. So setting tasks keeping in mind males might ask/do them just does not light my flame. (shrugs) I will be playful in the chat room with them and many are friends but it kind of turns me off that I cannot as principal set gender specific tasks. This I think is the real reason I don't join the tasking forum again (Not much loss you probably think LOL).
So I just wondered if anyone else had thoughts about this. (I don't mean one's criticising the tasking forum lots love it) Do you have views about the sexist Dragon? Am I in a minority? Should there be somewhere for taskees and Taskers to have gender specific tasking?
Well just a thought any way. Respectfully Dragon