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[lejonhjarta]

hey folks,
so i'm thinking of trying to go to my first munch, but i'm a bit nervous and i have some questions. first off, has anyone on here had any dealing with Phyxios Mystique? they're about the closest group i could find, but unfortunatly their site isn't very current, there's nothing on there that's upcoming. beyond that, i guess my biggest question is what can i expect?

any help would be apreciated,
thanks,
lejon.

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

I don't know what it is like there, but the munch I went to here in my town, which is an average sized city with a University, was not at all what I expected. It was a group of pretty average people sitting around having a drink talking at a little diner. Only one person was dressed in anything a little out of the ordinary and she had her sub boy with her and was making him call her Mistress, which was really not at all appropriate for where we were. Other than that, one would never know they were a group of kinksters. Honestly, most of them were older and I was surprised to see a girl there with Muscular Dystrophy (or something like that).

Bottom line, if you didn't know, you would probably never guess it was a munch. A munch is just a way for everyone to get together. It is the safest way to really learn about who is in the group. It's just another hang out and have something to eat/drink kind of thing. Very vanilla in most ways. So don't worry. They shouldn't ask you to kneel and strip. Well, not on the first visit anyway.....

[lejonhjarta]

hahaha *snaps fingers* darn.

thanks for the info fyre :)

[rosebud]

Perhaps, the following may be of some interests also...Good luck!

Arlington: Black Rose (http://www.br.org/); a pansexual educational, support, and social group.
Charlottesville: CUFF (http://www.cuff-va.com/index.php)
Tidewater: The Power Exchange (http://www.tpe.com/)
Tidewater Individuals Exploring Domination (http://tiedinva.com/)
Tidewater Pride (http://www.tidewaterpride.com/); support group with play parties, chats, munches and demo's every month.

[lejonhjarta]

thanks rosebud :) i've looked at those as well, mystique seems to be the easiest for me to get to right now, but good to keep other options in mind if that group dosn't seem to speak to me. if you happen to have had some interaction with one of these and highly reckomend it though i will certainly take that into concideration :)