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lonlyguy92
07-10-2011, 04:49 PM
Hello Kinksters, I am very new to the Dom Side. I am looking for creative ideas for online play. My pet has a major control turn on. Any idea to help A newb out?

denuseri
07-10-2011, 07:59 PM
Have you explored the Tasking section of the forums yet?

lonlyguy92
07-10-2011, 08:50 PM
I have. I find that some of the ideas are great. Some just wont work. Being very new to this. I am hoping to reach out and get some ideas from the more experienced doms or dommes.

Nicipac
07-10-2011, 09:15 PM
you are a switch right? think about playing it out from the bottom then reverse it.....that way you know what you want your pet to feel and how to make then feel it....go with what you know......message me if you have any specific questions...I'd be happy to try and answer them for you....Be safe and Play well

delish
07-11-2011, 12:10 AM
If your pet likes to be controlled, you'll be wanting to pay attention to details. Especially from a distance, those details will allow you to exert control that should satisfy that craving and be tailored to his or her needs. Be nosy. Ask questions and remember the answers. It's purely a psychological game in an online context, so the most important thing is to demonstrate that you can get inside your pet's head. That was my experience, anyway. Nicipac is spot on in his advice, as well.