help...I think I've been let go

[dslilgirl]

So I'm not sure what to think anymore. My master went hunting last friday and I thought he was coming home either Sunday or Monday but I still haven't heard from him and its Wednesday. I keepits texting him and I know the texts are getting received but I don't get anything back from him. We did kinda have a fight on friday as he was heading out of town but didn't think he wouldn't ever talk to me again. I have been having a hard time accepting that we don't get to spend as much time together as I would like and I haven't seen him in almost two years because my living situation has changed. I don't know what to do anymore its been five days and just wish he would at least tell me he is done with me if that is the case. Any advice would be helpful...thanks.

[DontFWM]

Consider it as a punishment...The worst punishment I can mete out to my babygirl is to not speak to her for a day or so...In the end I feel it as much as she does...Perhaps more so...For you to have fought with him shocks me..For him to ignore you shocks me more,but learn from this lesson two important things..Patience and resignation to your circumstances,but dont give up just yet.bombard him with texts...4 an hour if need be or as many as your time allows..Fill his mail box...Keep doing so untill he responds one way or the other..Dont give up untill the Fat lady sings...Good luck dslilgirl..

[Misschief]

how long were the two of you seeing one another? have you met his friends? family of any sort (brothers/sisters)?

sounds to me like he's got a "side-piece" or whatever you call them by you.. i think there may be someone (less important than you) in the pic.. maybe he is banging out his frustrations on some cock whore? he should come home to mama soon.. you make sure you give him the best lovin' of his life when he gets in... ;)

[ksst]

Just for a different perspective, submissive or not, if someone did that to me, after a big fight vanished with no word for that long, I'd be letting him go unless he had a dang good excuse. Like he was in an accident and lost his memory.

[dslilgirl]

Thanks for every comment. I have talked to him once with texts. He was still hunting. It didn't seem like that big of deal for him to have me upset as much as I am. I have written him a letter voicing all of my concerns with the hopes that he will actually listen. He comes back tomorrow and will not talk to him until he talks to me to see how long it will take.

@Misscheif - We have known each other for 3 1/2 years and have been together for almost 3 years. We have not met each others friends or families. We live in different states and I have had that thought that he has someone up where he lives and it has concerned me to no end. I have accused him once about it but he said he would never do that.

[Dog's Lady]

You were upset, so it was a big deal. Just 'cos your a sub doesn't mean your feelings don't matter. I get it, my guy can be terrible about calling-even when he says he will. Since it's the only major problem, I let it slide some, but maybe I shouldn't. Isn't funny how love makes us stupid sometimes? (Referring to myself; wouldn't call anyone else stupid.) Good luck working things out.