What was your "First Time" like?

[BabyJem]

Hello everyone :) Newbie here, so I hope I'm not posting something that should be elsewhere. I don't think it should though, and I searched and didn't really find anything like this. So, the backstory.

I'm a new submissive. I've finally decided that now is the time for me to explore this more - both a bit online (more for research and general sorts of information, plus the ST section of the dungeon- which is incredible, by the way - and also in real time. Now, I'm very well researched on how to safely meet someone from the online world in real time (which I think I might be doing this Friday, actually!), but I'm more curious about real stories about your first time ever in a 'scene' situation. Either as a submissive/slave or as a Dom.

What was it like? What did you do? How did you feel? I know that obviously, everyone's scene and play experience will be different, but I'm curious. ;) Care to share with a newbie sub?

Thanks everyone!

xx Jem

[Finding_Fantasy]

My first real life experience was actually a touch overwhelming and a whirl wind of sensations.

I had just moved to a country on my own, having never even traveled on my own. I also had my first BDSM scene (it didn't include much but a bit of tying up and flogging). It was also my first experience with another woman. It was all very scary and to think of it today, I wonder where I ever found the courage!

However, I am still with the Dominant (Over 5 years later) and we are even married (with a child) and I still keep in contact with the other woman. A lot has changed since then. My likes and dislikes have changed but that first experience will always be with me.

Now if you were to ask me the first time I ever went a BDSM meeting with demonstrations - well even the thought of that makes me want to faint!