Toys

[Nightscript]

Just wanted to know.. I am planning to get a few toys to play with but I do not know what to get... Still a virgin so need the toys need to be safe.. any sugestions??

[Domin8or]

Can you be more specific as to what kind of toys you're talking about? A really good vibe i.e. the wand or a rabbit. A bullet with rmote controle is always fun. Clamps are both nice and fun. Couple of buttplugs various sizes. The list can be made very looooong.

[Nightscript]

Thank you. I like all your ideas, some of which is now on my list of what to get :-)
But what I was thinking was if I use a rabbit or wand will it break my virginity?? I am new to buying toys so I have no idea.
Also what toys can be hidden under clothes and doesn't make much noise while it is switched on??

[MrDom]

yes it will break your cherry!!!!! so stay with vibes and use them on your clit. also you can use dildo's in your arse and the will not break your cherry.

[Domin8or]

Why does it matter if it breaks your 'virginity'? If you want to use a vaginal toy then do so and enjoy it. Your pussy your rules.

[Nightscript]

I feel it would be a waste to lose it to a toy..

[ksst]

Hitachi magic wand is a must have, anal beads are fun.

[Nightscript]

This is embarassing to ask but.. how does one use a wand??

[VeniVidi]

Please do not be embarrassed to ask a question Nightscript. We are all willing and pleased to help you if we can.

The number of ways a wand could be used I would think is only limited to your imagination1 But this link to the wiki article may help:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hitachi_Magic_Wand

VV

[VeniVidi]

I hope this doesn't post twice - I got an error message!

There are a large number of potential ways to use the "magic wand". Maybe this article could help:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hitachi_Magic_Wand

VV

[ksst]

You can take a look at pictures on line, and if so, you'll see it's got this big knob on the end. You don't have to insert it (I'm not sure you are even supposed to). You place it against which ever bits feel good- right on the clit or near it if that is too sensitive. Turn it on- it vibrates. And that's it. Orgasmatron. You'll still be virgin.

[VeniVidi]

I tried to post a link to the wikipedia article twice - but both times got some message about moderating - I've given up! But agree 100% with ksst that if you look at what it is and read how it works your imagination should tell you numerous uses!

[Nightscript]

Thanks.. yeah I actually have seen it before... didn't know what it was called though.. ;)
Thanks to everyone who helped.. Gonna have some new toys to play with soon.. :D

[The Novice]

I got my wife the wee vibe and she loves it. It is expensive, but well worth the money.

[panthera]

I have the wee vibe too, fabulous little device. :)

I think the Hitachi magic wand is next on my list.

[sassy chikk]

A lot depends on your definition of virginity. Personally i go with the definition of virginity as not having engaged in sexual intercourse with another person. Otherwise, you could argue that the use of a tampon or a having a gynecological exam or Pap smear took your virginity. If your hymen breaks while horseback riding or whatever, have you lost your virginity?

My suggestion would be to look at what you are trying to attain in keeping your virginity, and how you define "being a virgin." Using a toy vaginally (or anally) does not have to mean that you have lost the opportunity to have a first meaningful sexual experience with a person.

i say get whatever toys you want and enjoy them without guilt.

[jonjon]

Just wanted to know.. I am planning to get a few toys to play with but I do not know what to get... Still a virgin so need the toys need to be safe.. any sugestions??

blow up doll perhaps? lol seems safe enough,and you wont have to worry bout being deflowered ;)

[VeniVidi]

blow up doll perhaps? lol seems safe enough,and you wont have to worry bout being deflowered ;)

That's playing with dynamite.

[Nightscript]

A lot depends on your definition of virginity. Personally i go with the definition of virginity as not having engaged in sexual intercourse with another person. Otherwise, you could argue that the use of a tampon or a having a gynecological exam or Pap smear took your virginity. If your hymen breaks while horseback riding or whatever, have you lost your virginity?

Actually I really meant that I havent lost my virginity.. my hymen is sill intact.

[sassy chikk]

Actually I really meant that I havent lost my virginity.. my hymen is sill intact.

Yes, that's what i was referring to. Your question was whether using a rabbit or wand would break your virginity. my personal opinion is that using whatever toys you like, whether internal or external, would not mean that you would be losing your virginity. Your hymen can tear in a myriad of different ways; a torn hymen is not indicative that a woman is no longer a virgin, neither does an intact hymen guarantee that she is (it is possible to stretch the hymen during intercourse without it breaking).

In my opinion, losing your virginity means having sex -with another person-. YMMV.

[kuriousgal]

I have to say I whole heartedly agree. I 'lost my virginity' pretty late-well mid twenties anyway, but as a competitive horse rider and feminine hygiene product user, my hymen broke many years before that. And honestly now a days with the sorts of life styles that women lead it is very uncommon to have intact 'hymen' at the time of first experience of penetrative sex in any event-you may or may not still be 'intact' but this bears no relation on wether or not you are a 'virgin' as sassy chikk so eloquently pointed out. If this is something that is important to you for personal, religious or cultural reasons, you can certainly minimise the risk of your hymen breaking by not using any penetrative products/items and by avoiding any strenuous physical exercise, but there is no guarantee that you will still be 'intact' even so. Like most things in life it is all about using common sense-in this case to decide what you personally feel comfortable doing/ using and what you don't.

[Jaguar94]

Word of advice - if you still live with your parents, make sure you have a damn good hiding spot for them. At least, better than hiding them in the wall like I did.

And this comes from experience.

[DarkGhost]

I strongly agree with Jaquar94.... one of the worst case scenarios will be trying to explain what they are
A huge mess...

Im still learning about toys and how to use them, but i like to mix up things and enjoy them more