new dominant needing help

[newukmaster]

Hi all.

I am in a new relationship wirh a very submissive women. Beautiful and loving I really dont want to lose her and want to please her but I am unsure what to do next.

I am 30 male and have always been dirty and dominant. Have had kinky fun before.

Sub is 32. Big breasted and to me stunning. She is caring and loving and has told me she is all mine and submitted to me

We had one session where I used a belt on her ass and tits which she seemed to love. Also tied her hands behind her back with one of my ties. I am honestly baffled though as to what to so next. She has told me one or two of her fantasys which is good.

She has told me though that she wants me to dominate her and take control. What do I do next to keep things going, keep her sub but also turn this into a full relationship as I care for her.

Thanks for any advice.

N.M

[Miss_Red]

There are many things you can do to keep things going. Try putting a collar and leash on her. Or...use some clothespins on her nipples, breasts, and also on her vulva, some even like it clipped on the clit. But introduce these things to her before actually doing it. Also, you can use words that can possibly become triggers to put her into a very sub mode. Could be anything from just calling her girl....or maybe she likes to be called your little slut...naughty one....anything implying she is yours. There are so many ways to dominate. But these are a few ideas I had for you. Let Me know if anything works....I'd love to hear how things progress with you.

Red

[Woogsbie]

Take time to learn about submissives and Dominants. Also, learn some techniques, things to do -- things to surprise her. :-)

http://www.amazon.com/The-Loving-Dominant-John-Warren/dp/1890159727

http://www.amazon.com/Knotty-Showing-Ropes-Step-Step/dp/193116049X