New and needing help/advice

[little cece]

I am new the the BDSM world and still exploring all the possibilities and lingo. I have a strong leaning towards identification as a little and age regression. Any advice or points to help when exploring? Much appreciated! ^^"

[just_ine]

Dear little cece

Welcome to the Library.

This is a good place to ask questions, explore and learn.
There are many fine threads on safety and I suggest you read as many of them as possible.
This one is one of the best and something you should, imo, always keep handy to refer back to.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php/24298-Red-flags-for-those-new-to-the-lifestyle?highlight=Red+lights+for+those+new+to+th e+lifestyle

There is also a recent blog that might speak directly to your query:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/entry.php/2060-So-not-many-seem-to-know-of-what-a-DD-lg-relationship-is

The most important point I want to make is that it doesn't matter which way your fetish lays, safety above all else. When you first go down this rabbit hole and see all the delightful possibilities, it can make you thow caution to the wind. Resist the temptation.

Be slow to trust. Make your potential partner, Daddy Dom, work hard for it. You are worth the effort.

Arm yourself with knowledge. You need to give yourself the responsibility of knowing as much as possible about something before you trust Someone (who wants in your panties reaaaal bad- make no mistake on that!) to tell you things and guide you on a path you may not be willing to go.


Speak to others who have the same fetishes. Yes, it's fun speaking to the Dominant types, but you need the support and wisdom of other littles/submissives to help you. You can learn alot through others mistakes.

I wish you lots of really enriching experiences on this jouney

just_ine