Life troubles

[Slave_Violet]

Hello Everyone... Belatu and i had been trying out this life style and things had been going great. Lately I have recovered some repressed memories involving past sexual abuse and its hard for me to be in the position to be his slave. Do you know anything to help me out of this rut? Please respond!

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Do you know anything to help me out of this rut? Please respond!

Without knowing any specific details of the abuse you suffered, I cannot offer you any specific advice on it. However, there are a few threads on past abuses in these forums. Have a look at these two for starters:

Very worried that current bdsm is caused by past abuse (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2050)

Does an interest in BDSM indicate a pattern of abuse in earlier life? (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1020)


Hopefully, these will be helpful to you. If you have any further questions, please ask. Or if you want to share your situation with us, then the people here will listen and offer you support and caring advice.

[Jadetiger]

Hello Everyone... Belatu and i had been trying out this life style and things had been going great. Lately I have recovered some repressed memories involving past sexual abuse and its hard for me to be in the position to be his slave. Do you know anything to help me out of this rut? Please respond!

Slave_Violet tend to your needs. Your partner will want you to take care of yourself and to be happy. I would suggest counseling to help figure everything out. Repressed memories can be triggered by anything including a smell, a certain sound and even a specific color. I have been there myself. If I can help in anyway please let me know.

[slavelucy]

Hey S-V,

i'd second what TG said, without knowing specific details, it' s hard to comment...but i'd definitely recommend having a look at those threads he suggested..and, from there, if you want to share anything with us, everyone here is happy to listen and speak up if they feel they can help. :)

i also very much agree with what jade said, sometimes, it can feel like you're over something and something apparently insignificant can trigger it and i think that in the realm of BDSM and sexuality, this can be quite disturbing, but can be overcome, especially with a loving and understanding partner.

Hugs to you.

sl x