Hi :)

[J.Bean]

Just thought I'd introduce myself,
I'm Jill, I'm new to the site and looking for information and to connect with people of similar interests. I have been in my current (vanilla) relationship for 3 years now and I'm hoping to find a way to bring my needs into it without freaking him out and scaring him off. I've dabbled in bdsm in the past with previous partners and find that I'm feeling unfulfilled in my relationship now. Any thoughts or experience anyone would like to share is very welcome!

J.

[jane pain]

Welcome to the site! A good book for finding the love and joy in a bit of PE is 'screw the roses, send me the thorns' ... apart from that I am sure you will find a lot of different points of view and thoughts from people on the forum or, especially, in the chat room ... try a search on the forum as well, it has been going a very long time and lots of topics have been well covered...