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Mgirl1216
04-21-2016, 07:48 PM
This is my very first post/foray into the BDSM world. Looking to explore and receive advice - online only. Seeking a dominant male willing to share a few pointers about getting started online rather than jumping into something complicated or committed or crazy right away. Also looking for a man with the ability to differentiate between there, their, and they are.

tester64
07-09-2016, 04:37 PM
tell me a little more about you

teekay42one
07-14-2016, 10:49 PM
Hello,

I have been a Dom online for 2 people so far, they both had different needs and I was able to cater well to both of them, I'm happy to share what I've learned and give tips/advice.

just_ine
07-15-2016, 09:32 AM
Dear Mgirl

Welcome here. I hope that these initial steps blossom into something really satisfying for you.

I realise this isn't what you asked for in your thread, but please allow me to comment...

In the years I've been here I've learned something that might be of use to you here:

The best mentor for a new and learning submissive is another submissive. If you want to learn the correct mindset, discuss it with another subbie that You can trust.
A Dom will in most cases teach you what he likes/enjoys but this won't necessarily give you a whole view.

I would have been lost had I not had the support and advice of fellow-aubbies in the past.

Just my opinion...
Hope it helps.
xxx

Master Nexus
09-28-2016, 03:44 PM
There is something about you that intrigues me but I can’t quite put my finger on it... yet. I kind of liked your profile, and your mind says that you need a Dom to train you and - online only - brainwash (make) you be obedient. but I’m not quite sure about you. :-p Here’s why: RESPECT for your superior Dom is the beginning of your training. You always holding your Dom in esteem / and to regard your Dom favorably is your transformation into being truly submissive. And your unconditional surrender of your mind, your body and your soul to me will be the decision that creates the solid foundation of their future - your long-term, meaningful, stable relationship with me - your new Dom. To be right and make the right decision in your life, you have to stop your never-ending search for a Dom who is stronger than you are - emotionally, financially, intellectually, physically and spiritually. And your decision to ALWAYS obey me and NEVER attempt to disrespect, disobey or defy me is not being brainwashed, they are prerequisites. And you meeting those requirements, that is you being smart and you having intuition and good common sense. So today, right now, END YOUR SEARCH FOR STRENGTH! sub Mgirl216, what makes you so much more interesting and attractive than all these other women?

MASTER NEXUS