long distance.

[soatb]

since i'm in college i don't get to see my sub often. i give her tasks through email or aim some times. i was just wondering if there are specific tasks that are good for long distances?
much thanks,
soatb

[BDSM_Tourguide]

Have a look at these two forums:

Submissive Tasks Forum Number One (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=105)

Submissive Tasks Forum Number Two (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1956)

I hope that helps.

[slavelucy]

Hiya soatb,

It would depend what you were interested in...pain, humiliation, depriving the sub of something, a journal, writing assignments? Or indeed what the 'point' of the task was, focusing help, reminding her of her submission during your time apart? i think possibly a combination of these would be to ask her to do a task(be it pain/humiliation etc related) and then asking her to write about it. i can go into that more in terms of personal experience if you're interested, but i won't bore you with it if you're not! Let me know.

There's some good existing threads on the subject of punishments in online/distance relationships:

Online Relationships (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=562&) (includes some good posts on writing assigments etc)

Online Training (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1786&)

Punishments (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=480)

Humiliation Tasks (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1079)

The task masters over at ST would likely have some very good ideas, but since you already know your sub, then you alone will know how to personalize the ideas to suit the both of you.

Hope this helps. :)

sl

[soatb]

thanks this helps alot.

[Barton]

The task masters over at ST would likely have some very good ideas, but since you already know your sub, then you alone will know how to personalize the ideas to suit the both of you.

sl


Us taskmasters do indeed have some interesting ideas. :fire: