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Adamoverjules
06-14-2005, 08:18 AM
julie and I have been talking about something for a while...something she wants to do and I think would be a good idea, I think...
she wants to switch, for one day, once every year or so. I have thought about it and I think it would be a good idea, of course it would have to be talked about. The goal isn't for her to get her revenge so much as it is for me to get better insight as to what I put her through.
Does anyone else do this? Has done this? Think this is a good idea or the dumbest thing possible?
subbiesarah
06-14-2005, 12:21 PM
my Master and i tried to switch for, oh, all of 30 seconds and he wilted like a six month old lettuce! Not for us but if you think it would work and enhance the relationship go for it.
julie and I have been talking about something for a while...something she wants to do and I think would be a good idea, I think...
she wants to switch, for one day, once every year or so. I have thought about it and I think it would be a good idea, of course it would have to be talked about. The goal isn't for her to get her revenge so much as it is for me to get better insight as to what I put her through.
Does anyone else do this? Has done this? Think this is a good idea or the dumbest thing possible?
her_Joe
06-14-2005, 05:55 PM
I look forward to it.
Of course it's best for everyone if it's a turn on .... but even if not, I'd like to know what it feels like on the "receiving end."
And yes, I do want a "safeword." :help:
Adamoverjules
06-15-2005, 08:24 PM
we will DEFINITLY, I repeat DEFINITLY have a safeword...although I don't know that it will be fair, because the more I think about it, the more I think that however long it takes me to spit the safeword out is how long the switch-scene will last haha...just kidding jules, don't worry :cool:
Ranai
06-16-2005, 02:34 AM
I just remembered that there is a thread where several people have contributed their thoughts about, and experiences with turning the tables:
A question for all who are not switches (http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2616&page=1&pp=15)
If you are curious... probably the best way to find out how it might be enjoyable for you and jules, or how it doesn't work... is to do it. :)
Oh no, the Dodo is gonna get me for misquoting him!
:exit:
We switch about once every 3 months or so..for an hour or two. He somehow still is in control....omg!! i guess Hes Topping from the bottom lol!
Anyhow, it seems to just be a balance thing..we each have a tiny bit of the 'opposite' in us that needs to get out.
Like anything, its worth trying once or twice :)
and have fun
kist
a_curious_poet
06-19-2005, 08:37 PM
Since she is not really all that knowledgeable about the BDSM lifestyles/conduct... We do switch roles here/there. We both enjoy being submissive as much as being the dominant one a night or two a week. So, we kind of get the best of both worlds. ;)